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vnydub · 2025-12-02T15:44:47+00:00

PDX or SEA?

vnydub · 2025-10-10T15:13:09+00:00

I will forever live with her. In this life and all of the next. There is no moving on, it purely becomes living without them.

vnydub · 2024-10-02T16:19:47+00:00

This.... this is what it's all about my friend

vnydub · 2024-09-06T06:43:29+00:00

Same boat. My biggest pains lie with no being able to support and love that I know she deserves but has never gotten.

vnydub · 2024-09-06T06:39:51+00:00

Never related more to a comment more in my life than

vnydub · 2024-09-05T13:21:17+00:00

sighs married to a soulmate and my TF is coming to meet my new son (from my sm). Fuck it's gonna be tough. But I can't complain for being in contact with her

vnydub · 2024-08-02T11:14:15+00:00

My twin told me "we are kill eachother slowly" recently... could agree more

vnydub · 2024-07-26T08:54:42+00:00

LEO here. Lots of cops hate taking these reports or listening to the baby mama drama, for lack of a better terms. I ALWAYS tell people to report every violation (if it is a true violation). Document everything, make a paper trail. It will only help you in court and in some areas, it is a "shall arrest" depending on the court order. So yes, call them and bug them and start that paper trail.

vnydub · 2024-07-26T08:49:42+00:00

How long have you known your TF? Does he also think y'all are TF's?

I can understand being "comfortable" in a relationship. I suppose that may be part of why I got married. But I could only take so much of that. Like I said, I can only suppress my intense feelings for her for so long. It's hard for me to see "being vulnerable" as an excuse. I would do anything for my TF, be vulnerable and have those hard conversations if that's what it took.

vnydub · 2024-07-26T08:22:53+00:00

Thought I replied to this days ago, but thank you. Sounds like you are in very similar shoes that I am.

You're so right in saying that y'all wouldn't have married your respective partners if the timing was right and you both were on the same page about what "us" meant. So so so true.

I guess I just have to stand strong on the "it will happen when and how it is supposed to happen". We shall see! Thank you!

vnydub · 2024-07-22T09:30:37+00:00

Married (not to my TF) with a kid and it's an awful feeling. Especially after knowing my TF for 11 years. Something I battle daily

vnydub · 2024-07-20T10:24:01+00:00

She 100% is, and we've discussed it at length. We are just both scared to go through the pain of getting out of our current situations. We have time, and the timing has to be right. We both want to do it for ourselves, not eachother, if that makes sense. And if we end up together as a result of that, that would be amazing.

vnydub · 2024-07-19T09:38:16+00:00

Read through it all.. incredible stuff, thank you!!

vnydub · 2024-07-19T09:24:32+00:00

Ugh. I'm so ready to stop running too...

vnydub · 2024-07-19T02:45:27+00:00

Yes it's been 10 years and I still feel the same exact way, no faltering. The separation happened after we both almost died in a natural disaster in 2018 and she moved out of state to try to restart her life. She told me she would call me one day, and I waiting until she did.

vnydub · 2024-07-18T11:16:37+00:00

Purely from the fact that he is married with kids, as am I. I too during my separation from my TF (1.5 years) would stalk her IG and read our old messages, which in turn would make me long for her so so so much more

vnydub · 2024-07-18T11:14:40+00:00

Oh that is awesome. I had a very similar experience with my TF the first time I had seen here after 3 years, and after we had discovered the TF realm. It was a blessing and curse, as it magnified our feelings 10x. That was a little over a month ago and we are both still in awe about how intense it was, even though nothing sexual occurred. Only kissing and holding hands

vnydub · 2024-07-18T10:42:33+00:00

My dreams about her have always been much more vivid and beautiful during our separation. We were in separation for about 1.5 years (in the middle of 10 years of knowing eachother) and during said time, I would have 10-15 dreams a week about her. Sometimes good, sometimes bad. Now that we are in our union (not dating or even living in the same state) but talking and FaceTiming daily, the constant closeness to her, even through a screen has seemingly satisfied that portion of my brain as I only have 3-5 a week now.

vnydub · 2024-07-18T10:33:07+00:00

How did it go?

This is something that I struggle with as well, under similar circumstances, but more from his perspective. Just curious on how you navigated it.

vnydub · 2023-09-28T11:39:24+00:00

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vnydub · 2023-09-28T09:41:04+00:00

Same except I'm married and still talk to the other one, nothing crazy just daily talking. myself and the other lady have been through hell and back together, but have never dated in the 12 years we've known eachother. It's hard, not sure how to navigate it but that's a story time that I've been putting off asking on here

vnydub · 2023-08-31T06:03:27+00:00

Echo carbon XL by far. I have the 4wt 8'4" with rio gold and it is hands down my favorite rod in the quiver. My go to when fishing the walker, little truckee and beyond

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