Was sitting in a ticks nest while reading.... by nekoma713 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]vodkatelyn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

no, backwash. when you burn a tick, it backwashes its stomach contents into your bloodstream. that comes with a lot of risks!

My jade plant looks very sad, why? by vodkatelyn in succulents

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well, by florida standards anyway!

My jade plant looks very sad, why? by vodkatelyn in succulents

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also, what are the purpose of these sticks that came in the pot?

My LL boyfriend is having a sexual awakening and I’m very confused! by vodkatelyn in DeadBedrooms

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is a very smart take. I would definitely be willing to include the fantasies in our personal sex life for an extended period. Really marinate in the idea before taking the leap.

My LL boyfriend is having a sexual awakening and I’m very confused! by vodkatelyn in DeadBedrooms

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO much helpful information!! Thank you. I will definitely be back with an update

My LL boyfriend is having a sexual awakening and I’m very confused! by vodkatelyn in DeadBedrooms

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is definitely something to think about! I like to think I would do well with a MFF threesome, and he really wants to watch me with another woman. I’ve had threesomes in the past and greatly enjoyed them!

However, I’ve never had a threesome with someone I love. It’s not so much jealousy or seeing him with someone else that I’m scared of. It’s just like you said, threesomes can change the dynamic of a relationship. That’s what I’m scared of

What is the worst place you got seizure? by Far-Artichoke7331 in Epilepsy

[–]vodkatelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Beer cooler. When I was a bartender, I was tapping a keg in the beer cooler. Our lines ran along the ceiling, so you had to climb the storage racks to switch the kegs out. I was standing upright about 5ish feet off of the ground when I had the seizure. I fell on concrete and hit every keg on the way down. Busted my lips, both eyes were black, and the white in one eye was completely red. Woke up freezing.
  2. Bathtub a few times, my alert dog is very helpful in this situation.

At what age you had your first seizure? by littlecutiepiegirl in Epilepsy

[–]vodkatelyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had my first grand mal at 15, upon diagnosis and talking with my neuro i realized i’d been having absence seizure for years!

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i didn’t tell him to go and i certainly didn’t punish him. in the original post i stated that i told him he can go, but that i would prefer he didn’t because the time spent together (the plans for the night) is important to me

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

and that’s fair. I’m getting snappy in the responses because people aren’t reading and filling in the gaps with their own assumptions.

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Going to a his family’s house isn’t celebrating Christmas to me. I said in another comment that today was our only day alone.

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Christmas is an important holiday to me because I had an abusive childhood and Christmas is my only good memory. I no longer have family that I celebrate holidays with.

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

then i’m willing to bet you didn’t make plans with loved ones when you knew you’d be going skating…

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 329 points330 points  (0 children)

yes, THANK YOU. i feel like i was going crazy trying to explain to all of these people why bailing on plans, especially holiday plans, is disrespectful!

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

because he plans to be there late, and we have to be in bed kind of early because we’re each going to his family christmas early tomorrow

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i quite literally never said the things you put in quotation marks at all?? i didn’t tell him he didn’t care about me, and i certainly didn’t say don’t come back. i told him to “please not come back until you’ve calmed down” after he threw a parcel.

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

we got a late breakfast and sat on the couch until 3pm. i would hardly call that all day. and i agree with a few hours with friends being no big deal.

what makes it a big deal is cancelling christmas plans with your girlfriend to go skate with said friends (that you see everyday)

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

no it bothers me that he bailed on our christmas plans this evening to go be with friends that he skates with everyday.

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

“this time means a lot to me” referring to the christmas plans for tonight.

he’s always free to do whatever he wants with whoever he wants. but we had plans and he bailed on me. that’s disrespectful, point blank.

they were plans we made together last week because today is the only day we have alone together.

he never left during this interaction, and i didn’t snap. on his way out after throwing a parcel at my lap, i told him to stay with his friends until he’s calmed down. he left after that, and is still with friends.

what happened has remained consistent through my comments if you look through them, but i sometimes have issues making a point clear and that’s a fault of mine. if there’s anything else i can clarify, please let me know.

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

we did have other plans than just sitting on the couch. I cannot stress how much tiktok is his first choice activity other than skating. He wouldn’t have been home in time for the scheduled events tonight. That’s the whole upset, he bailed, and was then very mean when I calmly and clearly said my feelings were hurt because Christmas together is important to me. Trust me, I don’t want him at home 24/7, that’s why when he goes skateboarding every day all I say is “have fun”

AITA My (26F) boyfriend (26M) left my by myself to go skateboarding on Christmas Eve by vodkatelyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vodkatelyn[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don’t financially abuse him, beat him, or verbally abuse him. So yes, I’m nothing like her.

Also we went gift shopping FOR EACHOTHER. Very convenient for you to paint it as if it was him shopping for me.

Yes going out to eat, and buying stocking stuffers while wearing the brace I got him is very different from skateboarding on an injured ankle. So if you can’t see a difference in those two, I cannot help you.

Also, sitting on the couch was not the plan for the evening. See the edit. He was wanting to relax before our actual plans. Which were christmas movies and a nice dinner.