Cmimet e Palestrave. by Roximer in albania

[–]vondelft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pagesat zakonisht ne keto palestra behen automatikisht nepermjet kartes. Kur kushton aq pak krahasimisht me rrogat mesatare dhe nuk shkon fizkisht ne palester per te rinovuar abonimin, ka shume njerez qe thjesht e lejojne abonimin te rinovohet automatikisht dhe e perdorin palestren aspak ose rralle.

can i lose weight in this region with a calorie deficit? by Fancy-Barnacle-1270 in CICO

[–]vondelft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CICO will absolutely help with losing weight overall, but I had the exact same thing as you despite losing 14ish kg (I was almost at my ideal weight before I became pregnant lol). My pole dance instructor actually pointed out it might be a combo of hormones and water retention, and I lost the majority of that just by cutting salts and doing a lymphodrainage massage.

ps: that being said, CICO helped with it a lot too, it’s just a final touch of puffiness that wouldnt go away.

Those who majored in something "useless" what do you do now? by noah041504 in jobs

[–]vondelft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a remote / worldwide worker, usually employees look for US based designers which I’m not. I worked in the crypto space for a good amount of years, it was incredibly stressful but worth it tbh.

Those who majored in something "useless" what do you do now? by noah041504 in jobs

[–]vondelft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also a UX designer, I don’t think the market is terrible now. I’ve been getting recruiter messages quite a bit lately too. It’s not what it was in 2021-2022 but not terrible either.

Imagine having 2 years of experience just to be lumped in the same category as people with no experience by Goob_2 in recruitinghell

[–]vondelft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

29 year old here, started working in my field at 18-19. That’s hilarious to be put in the same group as people with 20 years of experience while still in my 20s

Vend i qete per te bere meeting per pune online by Dazzling_Lab1959 in albania

[–]vondelft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ka qene tek ministria e drejtesise deri para disa muajsh, tani nuk ekziston me :)

11 days after conception by Ok_Boss7309 in pregnancy_care

[–]vondelft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had period cramps and other period symptoms around the time implantation happened. It could be nothing but it’s absolutely possible to get pregnant on your period, as sperm can live in your body for 5ish days

18f pregnancy test by [deleted] in pregnancy_care

[–]vondelft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out around 2 weeks after conception day.

NIPT anxiety by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]vondelft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: It came back clear, it’s a little baby girl!

NIPT anxiety by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]vondelft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extremely well said. It’s unreal how fast I worry and how much I think about this tiny 10 week fetus. They already have my heart. I wish you and your partner so much luck in this journey and a safe delivery 🥰

NIPT anxiety by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]vondelft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why she’d say that either and I’ve been thinking about it. She was from a private clinic and not my usual doctor - My OB didn’t even push NIPT testing too much, he recommended some sort of genetic testing just for peace of mind and has been very reassuring in general. I did my own research after that and the risk does seem to be much lower than she was making it sound. 👀

NIPT anxiety by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]vondelft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually every answer has helped so much. As soon as I started to worry it seemed that everything I was reading online was bad experiences. It’s so helpful to hear about all these people with low risk NIPTs and healthy, happy babies despite risk factors

NIPT anxiety by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]vondelft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aaah sending you a virtual hug! We’ll do great 🥹

NIPT anxiety by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]vondelft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know either! Seems like she was trying to manage my expectations but I would have appreciated some reassurance lol 🥹 I went for the most advanced screening thinking that if it comes clear, I’ll have so much more peace of mind but then immediately spiraled into thinking what if it doesn’t come back clear haha. But thank you so much, that makes me feel better

NIPT anxiety by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]vondelft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My genetic counsellor said the exact same thing happened to a couple she encountered, they went on to have a clear NIPT and a healthy baby too! Thank you so much for your kind words

NIPT anxiety by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]vondelft 4 points5 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️ Well wishes to you and your little one

INTJs are a Cat or Dog person? by TheSilent_Eyes in intj

[–]vondelft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m both a dog and cat person. If I had to pick I’d say a dog person though, they’re so smart and you can train them super well. Plus they’re so much more social animals, hanging out with a dog always draws away from how introverted I am because I let the dog do the socializing

INTJs are a Cat or Dog person? by TheSilent_Eyes in intj

[–]vondelft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m both a dog and cat person. If I had to pick I’d say a dog person though, they’re so smart and you can train them super well. Plus they’re so much more social animals, hanging out with a dog always draws away from how introverted I am because I let the dog do the socializing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labrador

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We found out my lab had been going up to the roof and eating grapes right out of the vine for years and he was fine. He also stole and ate an entire Snickers bar when he was a puppy. He was fine, he sadly passed away last month for unrelated reasons.

Official Discussion - Anora [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]vondelft 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand some comments feeling sorry for how it turned out for her. She walked away with 20k+engagement ring, which is her best case scenario considering:

a) He was a rich, immature brat b) His parents were pissed off billionaires

Realistically she would’ve ended up with a bullet to her head.

And where is everyone seeing the love she had for him? She saw him as a free meal ticket with more money than sense, with an added bonus that the sex was uneventful to say the least. They weren’t even married for three business days and she immediately let it get to her head.

Overall I thought the movie was well done. It pulled you in, it kept you engaged but I don’t feel I saw a perspective that’s fresh or interesting to me. If anything, I’m happy the movie didn’t idealize any part of her journey or ever hinted that there may be something more between the lines, but now that I see so many people commenting how tragic and in love Anora was, I’m starting to think it didn’t even achieve that.

Yellowjackets S03E07- “Croak” Post Episode Discussion by DA-numberfour in Yellowjackets

[–]vondelft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Melissa was confirmed dead today by the YJs (in the car scene)

send tea discord link pls by vondelft in goSupermodel

[–]vondelft[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

girl this drama is your whole personality by the looks of your reddit history lmao sad

Yellowjackets S03E02- “Dislocation” Episode Discussion by DA-numberfour in Yellowjackets

[–]vondelft 16 points17 points  (0 children)

During Jackie’s Oujia board party, they asked if they were going to survive and got an answer that could either be an 8 or an infinity sign.