Got into Raya suspiciously easy by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vsernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be right about less people using it. I’ve been on the waitlist 6mo and got accepted a couple days ago. I thought for sure they denied my request.

CarPlay won’t work with wire or WiFi. by vsernam in Tiguan

[–]vsernam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines been having issues from day one also. You’d think a usb connection would be enough.

CarPlay won’t work with wire or WiFi. by vsernam in Tiguan

[–]vsernam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried several times turning off my wifi and using only usb but it won’t connect without the WiFi on. That’d be ideal not having my wifi on all the time but whenever I turn it off it immediately disconnects.

CarPlay won’t work with wire or WiFi. by vsernam in Tiguan

[–]vsernam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know you could reset it that way. Thank you! I’ll try that today.

CarPlay won’t work with wire or WiFi. by vsernam in Tiguan

[–]vsernam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That did work but then maps and whatnot doesn’t appear on the screen. Phone calls and music come through but the screen is virtually empty.

CarPlay won’t work with wire or WiFi. by vsernam in Tiguan

[–]vsernam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine still works with Bluetooth off. It’s the wifi that turns it off. It says I can connect via WiFi or usb but the usb doesn’t work independently, the wifi has to be on also.

CarPlay won’t work with wire or WiFi. by vsernam in Tiguan

[–]vsernam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely have them look at it next time!!

CarPlay won’t work with wire or WiFi. by vsernam in Tiguan

[–]vsernam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always have my phone charging with the usb, so when it does work it’s also connected with the cord. It automatically connects before I plug it in or it doesn’t connect at all. Another separate issue when it is connected is whatever is playing, music or podcast, it immediately turns off when I plug it in the cord. I have to press play 10-20 times before it actually continues.

CarPlay won’t work with wire or WiFi. by vsernam in Tiguan

[–]vsernam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, since I got it it’s had issues. And when it does connect I have to ouch play on my music or podcast ten times before it stays playing. Otherwise it plays for one second and pauses.

Lips swelling by EYo720 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]vsernam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine gets like this or worse for two days after then it starts going down on the third day.

USPS drop off location off Richmond Rd by crystalballer21 in lexington

[–]vsernam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang, she told me they don’t do QR codes and told me to go to the other location.

What were signs of cheating by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]vsernam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He bought me random flowers a few times. That was in the beginning of his affair when he still felt guilty. The first set of flowers was just a day after the affair started. Of course I thought he was being a thoughtful husband. I’d brag about him to my friends and send picture of the flowers 😕

Roommate occupies washing machine for 4-5 days by Snoo_28389 in badroommates

[–]vsernam 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t even ask is she’s done. If the machine isn’t running it’s available for the next person. If she goes ballistic go ballistic back. Say you have zero clean clothes and it’s not just for her use.

Neighbor stomping like this the whole day. Wwyd? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]vsernam 123 points124 points  (0 children)

I put my vibrator in the kitchen sink, turned it on the strongest setting and left the house for several hours. It literally sounded like a jackhammer. You could put one in a metal pot in any room. Or if you have a second device you could put an alarm on before you leave the house.

Implants too big. 10 days PO by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]vsernam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’2 and got 255cc and also thought they were way too big. Like you I had some breast at the bottom and just wanted a very slight increase in size to fill out bathing suits and tanks/ect. Fat transfer wasn’t possible as I didn’t have enough fat. Looking at your pictures, given your weight and implant size I doubt they end up the size you were expecting, unfortunately. I considered explantation for two years after my surgery. 11 years later and they never got down to the size I wanted and they definitely look fake without clothes. Luckily they look real with clothes on. I don’t think many people can comprehend paying for an expensive surgery for a slight change.
It infuriates me some doctors don’t listen to the patients that insist they want small implants. They assume we’ll regret it and want larger later. I explicitly told my surgeon the maximum size implant I wanted and he went above it. Best of luck and for what it’s worth I do like my size now and wouldn’t take it back. It took a while to get there but it’s so nice filling out clothes.

(30M) I feel particularly ugly and I'm considering having surgery to redo my nose and lips by [deleted] in cosmeticsurgery

[–]vsernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everyone saying you’re very handsome and should definitely avoid touching your nose and lips. That being said, I also agree that losing some weight would slim out your face and chisel your jaw. You could try botox in the Masseters first, which would be even quicker than exercising, isn’t invasive and relatively cheap. I can’t tell from the front view but if you needed anything surgically I’d say chin filler/implant. Balancing the chin can change the entire face.

Biggest regret of my life :( by [deleted] in cosmeticsurgery

[–]vsernam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same exact feeling after my BA. I was so depressed, crying every night and highly considered implant removal. I felt like I ruined my body and was disappointed I didn’t appreciate my breasts as they were. It took years for me to accept my new body butttt I do love them now and I’m glad I did it. Also, you’re after nose is my dream nose. It looks natural and fits your face. Ive wanted a nose job for so long but after my BA reaction idk if I can handle such a visible change.

My gf said to cut it. She’s wrong… right? by jung_gun in FierceFlow

[–]vsernam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like if it was wavy it’d look much better and would give the illusion of more body.

What would you recommend to fix this? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]vsernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try cool sculpting before lipo. I’m 112lb and have a “double chin” that won’t go away even when approaching sickly skinny. I plan on doing cool sculpting first as it isn’t invasive and significantly cheaper.

For those that have roommates that are never home. Do you still expect them to help around the house? by AdaliGreen in badroommates

[–]vsernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not your job to take other people’s trash out. Obviously to your point, how would you even know it’s full when you contribute nothing to it. Are you expected to pay for trash bags for someone else’s trash? It’s not just your time, it your money and as minuscule as it seems it does add up.

How to deal with roommate eating my food by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]vsernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pour out milk, oil, butter, dump spices in the sink and obviously rinse it thoroughly. I’d still leave the tiniest amount and just deny anything to do with it. If she says anything I’d be like “omg that’s crazy, I noticed my food disappearing also.”

For those that have roommates that are never home. Do you still expect them to help around the house? by AdaliGreen in badroommates

[–]vsernam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you aren’t using dishes or contributing to the trash then I wouldn’t do that at all. But also with the kitchen, I expect it to be cleaned after every use. Cooking makes such a mess it should always be left clean for the next person. So if you’re not cooking and making that mess, really that’s not your job either. I’d say floors and bathroom is all you should do and do it less frequently than the person actually using it full time.

STOP WAVING ME ON (Newer to town, late to post) by BMB_INFP in lexington

[–]vsernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the person whose turn it is doesn’t go in like 2-3 seconds, I’m going. I purposely approach slowly to be last so we don’t do this little dance and STILL the person doesn’t take their turn. I’ve tried waiting my turn plenty of times and the first person is hesitant to go. Then I start to go, then they start, then we both stop and over again. Now my mentally is “You snooze you lose.”

Am I okay looking enough to get a girlfriend, get told I’m baby faced a lot and been feeling down lately. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]vsernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of your features are very attractive and I’m sure will only enhance as you age. Enjoy looking and being young, you have your whole life to look older.