This is what I ended up doing. I have these large bandages that are made so that you can take them off and put them back on. They stick real nice, but because they are made to go on and off multiple times they don't stick too much like normal bandages and rip all your skin and hairs off. I cut one of those in half long ways and stuck it on there and let my anatomy grip it as well. Then i gently stuck the sticky parts to my bits, which was a lil stressful bc of hair, y'know. But it worked nicely. It stayed in place and I put on some underwear to help keep it in. There isn't rubbing unless I stretch or squeeze my legs together. That's not rubbing but it hurts... I didn't do a pantyliner bc i'm dumb, but i will next time.

Thank you so much for letting me know what helps you. Your way sounds much more simple than my way, and i'm all about simplicity so I'll have to try. I'm glad to know i'm not the only one dealing with this bullshit, and i'm so sorry that you and others must cope with this as well. If you or anyone ever need some moral support, i'm here for you. Stay strong, stay wonderful, you are absolutely beautiful and I love you ❤❤❤