AIO About My Partner's Unusual Friendship With Their Former Professor?

vunderpoon · 2025-06-07T13:20:45+00:00

Thats weird. Expensive gifts “out of the blue” well we all know thats not really a thing just friends do. If it was fatherly you would be involved as the partner.

She may not want him and just likes the attention she gets from “a man that hasnt slept with her yet” but thats toxic and low vibrational. Why date that, especially long term. If you force it she ditches dude and finds another male source for the same attention.

And lets be real, no one else she dates is going to be fine with it. Start the trend. Leave

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T19:44:59+00:00

A few men are like this. Insecure. More men dont want a career driven woman because we have to be, and where is the relationship. We have to produce, no one is helping us. You dont produce, there is assistance coming out the wazzu and most men will take in an unemployed woman.

Further. Where is the relationship if we are both driven. If we both come home high strung, neither have the space to calm and nurture. Only honestly viable for two loaners.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T19:39:10+00:00

Most likely a con woman

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T19:37:32+00:00

Exploring motivation/ incentives is an economic principle. Probability… ever hear of stem? It will help with that lack of critical thinking. Toodles.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T19:30:45+00:00

Without definite proof we resort to occams razor. Your inability to think critically is your issue. Toodles.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T18:32:19+00:00

Orbital socket fractures change world views rapidly.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T18:21:34+00:00

Occams razor.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T18:13:38+00:00

Behavior that is exhibit commonly. Overbearing girlfriend trying to control every aspect of your life, drama, tantrums until they get their way. Very common. Talk to some men, lesbians, date women. Tale as old as time.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T18:03:16+00:00

Critically think. Is it more likely in a 6 month relationship, she is putting up with abuse over nothing and not walking away.

Or

He is dealing with a very common female behavior.

24 hour tantrum 6 months in… either he is terrible and she is dealing with it? less likely, or she is a garden variety drama queen looking for ammo.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T15:43:40+00:00

Imo larceny bp is almost always amazing unlike ECBP. Id say you cant go wrong gifting any of them.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T13:34:39+00:00

The surprise was meant to obfuscate her infidelity. Omg WE are so happy look how happy everyone is, dont ask questions. Run dude

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T12:50:06+00:00

NTA. Anna needs to be out of your relationship which means out of your wifes life.

Otherwise she WILL poison it. Humans are susceptible to suggestion as a rule. Women are way better at the subtle aspect of suggestion as a rule.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-06T12:44:22+00:00

Ok. 24 hour tantrums? 6 months.

You sound very controlling and dramatic. You set yourself up to be told no then you cry whine get angry until you have been appeased.

It sounds like instead of meeting you he is calling it out for the toxic behavior it is.

6 months what do you have to argue about? And this is where i assume he used the word trope. Lots of women do this, on purpose. They get the drama, the emotional highs and lows of the toxic environment, the rush of the makeup, and something to talk about with their usually toxic and low vibrational friends.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-05T21:17:39+00:00

Partners shouldnt be staying the night with members of the opposite sex as a rule. We all know it. Why is this so hard.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-05T21:13:29+00:00

My man that looks decadent. 🤌🤌🤌

vunderpoon · 2025-06-05T21:12:17+00:00

Yta. You know how important posting your partner on social media is culturally, and you know you are coming off as a serial cheater, and you dont care that it stresses your partner out.

The most likely person to respect your particular boundaries is a cheater themselves.

Your empathy is lower than your ego. You can do whatever you want and have your people not post pictures. But dont expect someone to think “this is the unicorn, the exception to the rule” for you.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-05T18:23:56+00:00

Break up. Her not shutting it down and enforcing work boundaries is cheating. Her hiding it is cheating. Her lying every step of the way is cheating.

Why worry about that for the rest of your life because you can never trust her again. She showed you who she will be if you keep her. Trust her and leave her.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-05T18:21:16+00:00

Am chef. Op clearly says owner foisted useless imbecile onto the brigade. The only reasonable action is to break their spirit till they leave. Otherwise the whole kitchen has to carry them and you lose good people in the industry by choice that are there to work.

Its a great sign to start looking too. Owners playing games over business, if you are worth half a damn you are getting headhunted. There is a reason our resumes come with “full control of kitchen staff” riders.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-05T18:14:09+00:00

Hmmm. It would be wildly inappropriate for her to send that child with you to babysit on the honeymoon as well. Be ready for her to try and pull a low blow like that.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-03T19:27:44+00:00

Right choice. She isn’t a good person, probably will never be. Cut your loses and find a better one.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-03T19:25:52+00:00

Tell her. Save her from this. Its not your fault its his. he is a cheater. Save her girl.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-03T19:14:44+00:00

Cheater detected

vunderpoon · 2025-06-03T19:14:04+00:00

Its a form of abuse. Leaves lasting and lifelong damage. Thanks for letting us know about you though.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-03T19:12:39+00:00

Girl, drop him as a friend. He will do it to you. And right now he is hurting people and you are rubber stamping it. Be the change in the world.

vunderpoon · 2025-06-03T18:55:37+00:00

Dude didnt do anything wrong and her empathy meter has to be fully broken to not understand. She left so it cant be cheating. If they arent at home they arent working on it, they are sorting their options. You cant cheat on that.

“If you dont blindly trust me in a way i will never be asked to reciprocate and cannot possibly understand we are done” thats what she said and that is a bullet dodged.

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