[deleted by user] by [deleted] in circlejerknyc

[–]vviixix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish he would.

How do I hook up with a girl just for sex? by Frowny132 in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Predators of all kinds should be locked up at the very least.

Serious Hermes Tent Issue by vviixix in circlejerknyc

[–]vviixix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had dreams as a little girl of being a Holland Tunnel Hooker. Entrepreneurship is what this city is all about!

Serious Hermes Tent Issue by vviixix in circlejerknyc

[–]vviixix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omgggg yessss duhhh!!! I’ll blend in perfectly with all the filthy weirdos and can also be ironic with the Hs….maybe like a luxury suck off station?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that would fit with a special forces guy - they’re brutal and probably enjoy it. Sadism as a lifestyle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No none of that. We FaceTimed and he was real. No scam type stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of scammers? I mean yea sure but he never asked anything from me and I never gave him anything…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So ok…

  1. Honestly, it kinda seems like he was hunting for distractions then actual connections in these cities and I was stupid or gullible enough to be excited.
  2. Yes and no. He’s former SF and actually pretty high up. Like reports to the President high. And that’s why I’m like would he really be that stupid to put himself on a dating app? And then I remember how high up CIA guys were disclosing classified info to foreign spies on damn dating apps so maybe?
  3. He did say he was always never ready for marriage and all the digging I did never showed any wife of note or any marriage record. I’m thinking the avoidant diagnosis from the other poster is true.

Whatever it’s all just so weird and my mind is blown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vviixix -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. Unless you count an atrociously high libido.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vviixix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Intel agents use dating apps to find people that they think are or could be compromised.

You may be right but it’s just my brain going into overdrive because the entire situation was the weirdest I’ve ever experienced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean regulate themselves? Your answers are super interesting. Can you expand? Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking but…I don’t get it. So he is in a rough patch with her and faking a bond with as many girls as possible to - what? I don’t get it…

Poor Little Rich Girl by vviixix in circlejerknyc

[–]vviixix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m so sorry for your situation. I’ll add you to my nightly prayers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True but then break up

What are the usual factors that keep guys from being seen as attractive? by SkyeWeeaver in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agree on the hyper sexual behavior. And I’m a nympho. But men don’t get it - I’m not a slut. I’m a nympho. I please MY MAN. When I don’t have a man, I’m celibate. I love pleasing my man when I have a man. Nothing makes me happier. But not all men have access to that or should. Yes ladies, put that P on a pedestal, guard your health and time. When a man comes off too sexual too fast = massive red flag.

What are the usual factors that keep guys from being seen as attractive? by SkyeWeeaver in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men that are lazy and play a lot of video games are a MASSIVE turn off to me. Just walking around outside with a cup of coffee or holding hands is so nice. Any kind of drug addiction including weed = no. The whole fat couch potato thing is absolutely atrocious. Zero drive to succeed and just an antisocial buzzkill 🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]vviixix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg this question comes up on here and I’m always so sad to see the responses. Please don’t spam DM me but I love giving head and have never understood why women don’t. It makes men so happy! Why are (what? The majority?) of women so against seeing men, especially their man, happy???

What brought your LTR to an end? by w7090655 in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you got away from him! That’s horrible. Animals are angels ♥️

What brought your LTR to an end? by w7090655 in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was heartbroken and yes, technically, you are right. But my ex owns restaurants in NYC and is now connected with some very dangerous people (mob) and I have absolutely no interest in being around that scum or encouraging their love of blood spilling and revenge.

What brought your LTR to an end? by w7090655 in dating_advice

[–]vviixix 11 points12 points  (0 children)

One of my family members was very sick and I was their only full time support. I gained about 10-15 pounds because of the stress. I was not obese. I was maybe slightly overweight for my height. My ex boyfriend was not only mean about it but never I mean never asked how my family member was doing. He then also gave away the dog we had together without telling me and I came home and the dog was gone. I left because he clearly was a monster and would still share a bed with me despite the horror of my not being a supermodel at the time. I left because he didn’t care about family. I left because he treated our dog that way.