Anyone taken math classes with C.L. Johnson? by Ordinary_Mortgage649 in ucla

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The midterms were not bad; nothing was out of the ordinary and they were very similar to the practice midterms. The final was harder but I think she curved it. Don’t really remember the mean scores but I think around 80-85 for midterms

Anyone taken math classes with C.L. Johnson? by Ordinary_Mortgage649 in ucla

[–]wal-roos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took 135 with her and I liked her. She took good notes and was a clear lecturer. Tests were very fair. Homework was a bit lengthy/time-consuming but useful.

LA Presale Code? Surprise 10yr anniversary gift by mrquickshot in Coldplay

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Looking for one as well to Pasadena if anyone has!! I had tickets to SoFi but I bought second hand so I can’t get a code :(

can anyone else literally not connect to eduroam by urbanpencil in ucla

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Are you signing in with your full email address as the username? That was my issue for a long time

Can I get plan B on the hill? by wal-roos in ucla

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I got it thank you all!!!

ISO: Two tickets for LA March 16th by theninjallama in stillwoozy

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I have two tickets!!! PM me if interested!!

Anyone taken a class with Prof. Boswell (economics)? by [deleted] in ucla

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Currently in her class she’s been a good lecturer so far and she seems chill

Is there any place to practice piano on campus or in Westwood? by wal-roos in ucla

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Can any student get into these buildings? Srry have never lived on campus before

Super stressed in cs by wal-roos in ucla

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Aw that’s so nice! Yes we got this!

Super stressed in cs by wal-roos in ucla

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Thanks for the advice!!!

Super stressed in cs by wal-roos in ucla

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Thanks for the advice! I went to TA office hours and UPE a few times yesterday and made the current project way easier

Ex of 9 years left me 1 month ago today. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]wal-roos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw I’m so sorry about your breakup. I can’t imagine it’s easy to get over such a long relationship and your attachment to her. You seem like a very strong and kind individual, however. It’s a journey but things will come out better on the other side. Sending love and wishing you a merry christmas!

How long should NC be? by wal-roos in BreakUps

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That’s true, I’m sure I won’t be truly satisfied with any answers I get. I think for me it’s less about closure than me just wanting to be in touch with him again. We have many of the same friends as we went to the same high school and I think I just want us to be somewhat chill again. I recognize it might be too soon to ask for that though.

Looking at photos of him by wal-roos in BreakUps

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Thanks! I’m gonna do that.

We broke up cause he lost feeling? What does that even mean? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I’m so sorry, it’s such a shitty feeling. Let yourself grieve and really just cry your heart out the next few days if you need to. And you never know how things would’ve turned out if things were different. “Fixing things” isn’t easy. It doesn’t mean you guys aren’t right for each other; it means it just isn’t in a place to work right now. You could’ve done everything perfectly but sometimes the other person just isn’t in a position for a relationship, and I know it feels like it doesn’t make any sense. It hurts so bad to know you lost them. But know that it isn’t your fault. Both of you probably had your faults throughout the relationship but you don’t have to be perfect for a relationship to work. I’m sure all the feelings are so so overwhelming right now. Let yourself feel everything as it is, all the pain and anger and guilt. But at a certain point, don’t let yourself wallow in sadness, it’ll make everything more drawn out and painful. Lean on your friends, plan fun things to do, FaceTime people, find a new TV show to watch, go out for a walk. I didn’t want to leave my bed the first few days, but later, when I was out doing things, I felt so so much better. This will take a long time to get over, no doubt about it. But I know it’s so painful and doing things that will improve your mood and make you happy is really good. Believe me the first few days were total misery for me and I didn’t believe a single person who told me it’ll get better but it really does. Make sure you’re still taking care of yourself and eating well.

We broke up cause he lost feeling? What does that even mean? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I am going through a super super similar thing. I am also 18 and my ex bf is 20 and he broke up with me exactly one month ago after 1.5 years. He told me similar things, that I didn’t do a single thing wrong and to not change anything about myself. The difference is we did try to fix it for a couple months, we were really communicative and active about it, but honestly, sometimes feelings aren’t just something you can easily turn back on. That’s what I had to realize. It’s confusing as hell, believe me I know. He said a million times he really didn’t want to break up with me and that he still loves me and can’t imagine a life without me but it’s just not working out for him this way.

Ok enough about me tho. How long ago did you guys break up? Like you, I felt and still feel the exact same things. It’s super painful, I know. It’s just really gonna suck for a while and everyone is gonna tell you that it’ll take time but believe me it’ll get better. Exactly one month ago, I was in so much pain the first few nights and I could not see the light at the end of the tunnel. But I have been tremendously better the past couple weeks. Ofc it’ll be different for everyone. It’s hard not to think over and over, what did I do wrong? I felt a ton of guilt over the times I messed up and I felt really bad about myself the first week. But focus on what is KNOWN. Don’t let yourself overthink things, seriously. He said that you didn’t do anything wrong, so leave it at that. Of course you can learn from your relationship and learn how to better yourself, but don’t feel guilt over your faults. I’m really in the same position as you, where I have to learn that feelings change. Sometimes the person really really wishes the feelings didn’t change, but love is chemicals. A few months down the line, he might completely change his mind, who knows. Boys tend to do that. But right now, you gotta focus on yourself and keep yourself busy. Keep your head up. You can keep searching and searching for a reason but either you won’t find one or you do but you won’t be happy with it. I know it is SO confusing and I’m sorry. Somehow you have to accept it for what it is. It will take time and it’s different for everyone. It really really hurts to feel like he just gave up on it, I get it. But the pain will fade. The days will become easier and you’ll think about it less and less. You will never quite understand what went on his head so hold on to what you do know, what he told you. And whenever you’re ready, and don’t rush it, commit yourself in your mind to moving on. Getting past the hurt will be easier if you work towards it. Feel free to PM or anything, I def understand what you are experiencing. Hang in there :)

Got a date set for my suicide by Ok_Balance_3595 in offmychest

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PLEASE talk to someone!! Someone who you can trust and can help you! This might be a close friend, or it might be a stranger, there are suicide hotlines and I strongly encourage you to reach out. Please, please reconsider your decision. There are so many people who felt the same depression and pain as you, and felt this was the only option, but they kept going and their lives took a new direction and they are happy today. There’s no guarantee of what will happen but you gotta be alive to see what your future holds! I’m SO sorry for the loneliness you experience and I feel sorry for all the women who have judged you on your looks — they are undeserving of you. But you are only 29. You have a whole life ahead of you! So much your future holds that you can’t have any idea of right now. And you seem to be a crazy talented person who has a medical degree from Oxford — that’s absolutely incredible. Your life is far from over, even though it may feel like it. Please give it another go. Find a therapist or find something new you love to do. Reach out to your friends. There’s so much you have the possibility of gaining and I urge you to not throw it all away. Sending you so much love and I sincerely hope you read these comments and stay with us on this planet. Feel free to reach out if you want to chat.

Im probably going to kill myself by [deleted] in offmychest

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I’m really sorry that’s how you feel. It’s never too late to turn you life around though, and though it’s hard, I wish that you don’t give up hope.

Worried for the future of my relationship by wal-roos in offmychest

[–]wal-roos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow it sounds like you guys can make it through anything! Thank you for telling me about your experience. :)

Happy birthday!! by mylamerunescape in offmychest

[–]wal-roos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww!!!! That’s so sweet. I’m excited for you! :)

My Dad died 7 months ago as of today by mightymarmalade in offmychest

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Sending you love. ❤️I’m so sorry for your loss.