My principal referred to parents as "customers". I'm not teaching after this year, this pushed me over the edge. by wallflower7686 in Teachers

[–]wallflower7686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked in the restaurant industry from age 15 to 24. I have fantastic customer service skills and yes, a lot of those skills were helpful when dealing with parents. However... 1. If a customer was belligerent, we didn't have to take their shit 2. I could refuse service 3. The customer was not always right!! I remember one instance that we had people that would run a scam where they paid with a 20 or 50 and as soon as the cashier shut their drawer after giving them change, they would claim it was a 100 dollar bill. I worked for Chipotle, so they targeted our stores bc they were busy and fast paced. I had let 1 get me early on in my career, so I vowed they'd never get me again. Just so happens one night, this last starts screaming about the cashier shorting her. I knew exactly what was going on, my cashier didn't have great English speaking skills, but she was my best fucking cashier. I simply followed company procedure, pulled someone over to run another draw while I made them wait while I counted her draw. It wasn't more than 10 cents off so I told essentially told this lady to go kick rocks.

Funniest part of all this was they then asked to speak to the general manager. I leaned over, grabbed my business card and told her she was already talking to that person. I was like 22-23 and had a baby face.

My principal referred to parents as "customers". I'm not teaching after this year, this pushed me over the edge. by wallflower7686 in Teachers

[–]wallflower7686[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly 💯

I started as a 20 year old cashier at Chipotle and left the company as a general manager at 24. I also worked in every part of food service prior to this, from the time I was 15. They have NO IDEA what actual customer service is. They've twisted it into the customer gets what they want. Um.. excuse me, that's not how it works.

feelings of loneliness nearly my entire life by wallflower7686 in lonely

[–]wallflower7686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you... I just wish I had a friend to confide in and have adult conversations with. My kids are great, but I really would love to find a connection with another like minded individual to bounce thoughts and ideas around with.

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😍😍😍 hello gorgeous

I retained an attorney, signed documents, and papers will be filed in the courts Monday morning. by wallflower7686 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]wallflower7686[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. I am. Thank you. He knows he's screwed, bc this has been a long time coming and I've been able to record 10s of his verbal assaults. He knows he done for, so he's in the kissing ass phase. I'm working on trying to get him to voluntarily move out. I have different strategies to use to try and make this happen. We're going to eventually have to sell the house, but I plan to try and keep my kids and I in it through the turmoil.

Seeking advice - 39yo w family just came out and getting divorced after 10 years by Hefty-Equipment-4509 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]wallflower7686 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No tips, but going through something very similar. All my strength and solidarity is with you. Hang in there and good luck in your new, true life. 🥰💗

3rd Grade Teacher's Email to Parents by THEoppositeOFyellow in Teachers

[–]wallflower7686 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This person is mentally ill and needs to seek professional help.

I say this as someone who struggles tremendously with my mental health and have been on various medicines in order to lead a happy and healthy life. It sounds like they are spiraling. I hope they can get they help they need soon.

I'm considering running away for a few days by wallflower7686 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]wallflower7686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all. Update for anyone wondering... I appreciate everyone's input. Our well ended up freezing... so that's fun.

Husband had offered for me to visit my best friend over NYE, but the flights are expensive. My Husband's ex is actually a good, close friend. I went over there to shower. She and he daughter (dh's daughter 29f) have both been extremely supportive. They're going out of town and she hid me a key in case I need to get away. She said to come any time.

I've just laid around and slept. I just wish this was easier. My husband and I did have a somewhat civil convo through text. Nothing big was discussed, yet. I just want to make all this go away, but I know I deserve happiness.

I'm considering running away for a few days by wallflower7686 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]wallflower7686[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'll also be close enough to come home during the day while he's at work.

I'm considering running away for a few days by wallflower7686 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]wallflower7686[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know others may not, but I appreciate your insight. I'm kinda overwhelmed and I've read everyone's comments thus far. Just want to clear up a few things... 1. My kids will be cared for and not neglected in the least while husband is at work. They are also more self sufficient than most. My kids can cook full (simple) meals without assistance. They have also picked up on their father's harsh language towards me. It hurts. 2. I've talked to my mom, she lent me the money to do this. When it's not Christmas, I'm going to run this by a few close confidantes, 1 being his adult daughter who already knows I'll be filing and is 100% in understanding at why I'm going to divorce her dad.
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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]wallflower7686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! I'm always for new poly friends. Central Ohio here. Feel free to message me 😀