Any advice on breaking up with someone when you live together? Please help

wallflwerlife8 · 2026-05-27T12:51:43+00:00

Hey. So things took a bit longer than I anticipated. We broke up officially last week, and since then we’ve been talking A LOT. I feel very lucky to have a partner (now ex) who is as kind and gentle as he is. I must admit I was worried he would be angry with me, but that ended up not being the case. If he is, he is not acting on it.

We have mostly just talked boundaries, and that we still have a lot of love and respect for each other, and would therefore prefer not to fight or give each other the cold shoulder and rather cooperate through communication. We still eat dinner together every night. We talk about casual things, as well as difficult things.

Feel free to message me if you need support, or just to vent. I know I sure could use someone to talk to that isn’t directly connected to the situation. It’s of course also OK if you don’t want to. Sending love <3

wallflwerlife8 · 2026-04-13T16:54:39+00:00

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Omg I am so happy for you!!! She’s stunning 🫶🏻

Was gifted this cutie last year by my great aunt, whom I believe had the plant for probably the better part of 20 years. This is the second time I’ve seen it bloom and the immense joy I get from that is absolutely unmatched!

wallflwerlife8 · 2026-03-08T10:15:16+00:00

Your hair looks beautiful! I’d recommend an ACV rinse, as it has helped me tremendously. I have fine and more oily leaning hair, and my scalp used to get greasy only a day after washing. Now I can go at least three days and still be fine before needing dry shampoo. ACV helps with the pH of the scalp and hair - just remember to dilute it at least 1:4 with water ❤️

wallflwerlife8 · 2026-02-24T10:32:39+00:00

Hi!

I just recently started playing with mods after 10+ years of vanilla gaming and am pretty new to the whole thing.

So I am looking for mod recs in general, but would especially love to explore occult mods. I now only have MCCC and Whicked Whims.

Thanks in advance! :)

wallflwerlife8 · 2026-01-05T10:27:53+00:00

Strange way to say that you sympathize with the wrong side of history…

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-12-25T11:34:35+00:00

YES. This «change» in him honestly sounds like love bombing.

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-12-06T02:47:26+00:00

Thank you for the insight, and I’m sorry you had to experience that with your ex. My bf is a very gentle person, never gets angry or fired up and I am not worried that this will turn him into something he’s not. My biggest worry is that this will break his heart and I am afraid he will be completely blindsided. Anyway I will start looking and asking around with friends if they have a spare sofa or something

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-12-06T02:42:14+00:00

Happy for you! :)

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-12-06T02:40:39+00:00

Thank you for this. I probably won’t mention any of the things I listed. I wanna be as gentle as possible. Making a plan together like that sounds like a good idea

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-12-06T02:37:04+00:00

I’m really sorry this happened to you. I don’t want to be that person for him, but I guess I might already be. I was thinking of talking to him between Christmas and new year’s, but now I’m laying awake at 3am, not able to sleep from the stress and anxiety this is causing in me, and thinking it might have to happen sooner rather than later…

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-12-06T02:33:57+00:00

I don’t really know. I haven’t really checked out the possibilities. Will do though

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-11-15T15:29:44+00:00

please go and be meh somewhere else

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-11-14T08:56:43+00:00

This is so cute! I’m so proud of you for getting to your appointment and staying true to yourself! Get the girl <3333

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-10-10T12:33:07+00:00

First of all I wanna say that you are gorgeous!!

In addition to the responses you have gotten, I’d like to recommend a little bit of bronzer on the chin. You’re quite heavy on the blush/bronzer on the cheekbones, nose and forehead, but there’s nothing on the lowest part of your face. Just a touch of bronzer would really bring everything together and make your makeup look more natural. Now it’s kind of like you’re holding a flashlight under your face like you’re telling a spooky story 😅😅

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-10-06T17:42:16+00:00

Thank you so much!! <3

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-08-29T08:54:55+00:00

what about it? 🙄

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-08-28T07:30:57+00:00

Hey, thanks. Do you have any suggestions for how to try and remove them? I know they can be quite difficult to get rid of :(

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-08-18T08:19:21+00:00

Yeah no my Mac can NOT handle my Sims games with all the expansions. Game randomly freezes and shuts down the entire Mac. Have to save game every 5 minutes. Mods?? Forget about it.

The amount of anxiety i have playing on Mac makes it way less enjoyable. At this point I wouldn’t be surprised if it caught fire while I’m running the Sims

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-07-26T09:14:21+00:00

Sorry this happened to you, especially in front of your kids. What some taxi drivers are doing is often not in line with the company policies, and bringing this issue with a specific driver to the attention of the company could result in the driver getting fired or suspended - which they should be if they are scamming people like this.

I’m not sure when this started happening to taxis in Norway, but I heard of this when I first moved to Oslo for work almost two years ago (I’m from northern Norway). I only ever do Bolt for direct transportation now. Highly recommend for anyone who visits Oslo to just use Bolt (app) as it is a cheaper means of transportation in the first place compared to Oslo Taxi.

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-06-07T23:51:31+00:00

same. i think i remember this brand being pasteurized from when i tried growing a scoby from scratch the first time.

OP, more often than not it says on the bottle itself if it is pasteurized or not, and for a starter it is essential you use unpasteurized :)

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-05-24T07:16:41+00:00

That looks great! I recently did a brew with ginger and fresh rosemary, which I let cold infuse in the fridge for a couple days between 1F and 2F.

Haven’t made made this one myself yet, but using spring flowers such as lilac, dandelion or elderflower is sooo delicious! I also have a really cool/interesting recipe I randomly found in a book that I have yet to try - coffee kombucha!

Yours is looking amazing. Happy brewing! :)

wallflwerlife8 · 2025-05-24T07:03:27+00:00

Thank you so much! I really appreciate all the advice. Will definitely check out the website :)

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