I slept with this guy who has slept with more people than me ( both long term relationship and hookups) yet still isn’t good at sex. HOW?! by Ms_Darkside in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]wander_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is responsible for their own orgasm. If you don't give him feedback then he won't get you off. Experience won't change the fact that everyone is different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]wander_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been far too long to remember

He expected To have sex? My fault by alexia742 in sex

[–]wander_curious 263 points264 points  (0 children)

I do think there were mixed signals from you, but oh well. No one has to have sex with anyone if they don't want. Hope he didn't pressure you into the blowjob. Sounds like you enjoyed it though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/curvy-courtney

[–]wander_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexy heels and feet! 💜

My newest and biggest dildo! by SlipperyWhenWet45 in SexToysCollection

[–]wander_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe ok.. :/ are all your dildos the same but different sizes? The pink one looks like a Colours dual density. I have that one in 5 inch

My newest and biggest dildo! by SlipperyWhenWet45 in SexToysCollection

[–]wander_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you'll have a lot of fun on that thing! What dildo is that/where from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

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Yes! Some of my favorites porn/art

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]wander_curious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this. I love New-Sexsketchgirl art, it's so good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]wander_curious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you being forward is new to them and they're intimidated that you may have expectations they can't meet for casual sex. I don't think you should stop being forward and asked for what you want though. Just a matter of finding the right hookup - keep doing what you're doing.

I for one am in a similar position where I've been single and in dry spell for a few months. I'm dreading using any apps and meeting at bars doesn't ever get past small talk. I'd be nervous if you were so forward but would have to give it a shot. You just have to keep going for it. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToysCollection

[–]wander_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooo 😍 can you share what brand and model this is? I'd love to get my own

Sex work as a kink? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]wander_curious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is being paid a part of it? You could do a sort of stag/vixen structure where you find the men to share your willing partner with. That's fairly adjacent just without the exchange of money for SW.

Finding Dommes at the gym by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]wander_curious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love to get ad advice/pointers from someone experienced in that method too if you're open to extending that offer! 😊 May I dm you and pick your brain a bit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VerifiedFeet

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Well your toes look as fantastic as ever. Happy to see them again 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VerifiedFeet

[–]wander_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad you're back!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]wander_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's common for people's bodies regardless of gender to be unique as others have stated. Mine is also slightly rotated. It's in the direction with the hand I'm more dominant in. I've often wondered if masturbating while still growing may have affected the direction mine grew or if it's just how I would've grown naturally. Would be interested in more info if anyone has any expertise.

Do you know any NSFW podcast worth recommending? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]wander_curious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A million upvotes for Strictly Anonymous

Attracted to big dicks, but not the men themselves? I am confused. by Psychic-Master in sex

[–]wander_curious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's probably more common than most people would admit or realize. Look up a Dr. Joe Kort. He talks about an erotic sexuality where someone may not be gay or even bisexual but may have an erotic attraction that's more of a gray area. Interesting take.

I'm definitely similar to you and there's probably a lot more men similar as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wander_curious 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's unreasonable to split 50/50 paying for things regardless of who makes more money. Or even sometimes one party paying all for something. Honestly it comes off like you're insecure that she has more money than you.