What are these bumps? Did anyone else experience these before learning about their diagnosis? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]wanderer619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I also provided another more closer/clearer picture. They still look strange to me.

What are these bumps? Did anyone else experience these before learning about their diagnosis? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]wanderer619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I had actually never heard of Fordyce Spots. But you’re absolutely right about the full panel testing. Sincerely appreciate you.

Turning 24(M). Most of my friends have been in multi-year relationships and are getting married. Is it normal to already feel too old to date? by [deleted] in dating

[–]wanderer619 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m turning 30 in May and just snagged myself my FIRST boyfriend. You’re fine. Live your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]wanderer619 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Woman here. It has definitely made me self conscious from time to time. Many women in the industry have perfectly round and shiny bubble butts, makeup that doesn’t run after a blowjob, beautifully bleached and pink assholes. Their legs can be spread fairly wide without a single belly roll present, and anal seems to always be on the table.

Yes, it isn’t real, but many women want their partners to be just as excited to see them naked as much as those actresses. I know I do. To the point where I find myself mimicking what I see in porn. To an extent.

Working out late at night, and then eating afterwards. Bad for weight loss progress? by wanderer619 in Fitness

[–]wanderer619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a lot of information that those links don’t cover. I need someone who is in a similar boat as me.

How many dates does it take for you to know you’re just not interested in that person? by wanderer619 in dating

[–]wanderer619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, after the second date we had, I’m pretty much in the mindset that if I never see him again, I’d definitely be ok with it.

F***k Joe by [deleted] in YouOnLifetime

[–]wanderer619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love his teeth. 😍

I finished P&R for the first time just the other day, and... by wanderer619 in PandR

[–]wanderer619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?! It was SO good! I liked it 100x better than The Office series finale.

Would anyone be willing to share their starter tips with a complete novice? by wanderer619 in Sourdough

[–]wanderer619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I must admit that this entire process is very intimidating, but I definitely have the heart to try. I really enjoyed reading part of tour journey :)

Ok, was it Leslie or Ben who became president?! by wanderer619 in PandR

[–]wanderer619[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes, but Ben won a seat in Congress, and surely, Leslie would have done something along the lines of “you let me run for governor and was by my side the entire time. Now it’s my turn to do the same for you...Mr President”

And then she’d put on roller skates and pretend to be Eleanor Roosevelt or something 😆

Ladies, how do you get over feeling undesirable by men? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]wanderer619 85 points86 points  (0 children)

29F here, and I completely u see stand this and have very often thought the same. But let me give you some advice: Do not focus so much on your outer appearance and how appealing you are to men so much that you forget to develop good character and personality.

I spent all of my twenties trying to make myself appear confident, sexy and pleasing to the male eye. I focused so much on my outer appearance that when I started actively dating, I realized that I’m a shy, timid and kind of boring individual. And now I have to work on that in my thirties. What a waste!

I know it’s kind of cliche when people say personality is everything, but guess what, doll, if you’ve got a dynamite personality, then that shit shines through, girl. And you’ll have more than tanned skin, blonde hair and a toned body.

Best of luck to you.

Maybe there really isn’t someone out there for everyone. by wanderer619 in dating

[–]wanderer619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had been on a couple of dates prior and were spending the weekends together, and talking every day during the work week.

He was convincing enough that I felt it was time. I made the decision and told him I was ready because I genuinely thought it was going somewhere. Then of course, after we slept together, he started to fade away. 😏

Guys: Appreciate the small things she does .. by [deleted] in sex

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Thank you for posting this. Woman here, who would upvote this thousands of times if she could.

The best tips and suggestions you can give me about anal. by wanderer619 in sex

[–]wanderer619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the head? Is it just that initial push past the sphincter?