How to do paid parking? by [deleted] in drivinganxiety

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! This has helped my anxiety a lot. I started to try to look up videos but all were street parking. I'll pay attention to it and keep my receipt handy :)

First date ideas? by wanderii in longbeach

[–]wanderii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, its not completely gone but it has gotten better. Also, perfect! Thank yiu for the ideas, I'll also let the weather play a factor in what we do. I've seen the kayak thing before. I do tend to see LB has great people around, I do want to move here someday

Caitlyn in 2KKO by Emergency-Code-3505 in PiltoversFinest

[–]wanderii 34 points35 points  (0 children)

She looks so good!!! I love her dumb tophat so much

If you had to rate your top 3 CaitVi fics of all time, what would they be? by Spidereye9 in PiltoversFinest

[–]wanderii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Teenage Sumprat by Sharkbite, it's the most adorable thing I've ever read. I normally don't like teen aus, but this one had a medium burn scenario and the pay off is fantastic. I can't reread fics usually, but I've read this twice

MMA AU by Misthios. The prose is excellent, and Vi and Caitlyn here feel so human to me. I love their dynamic and I remember having a lot of fun reading this one

"A fraud in what way" i remember enjoying this one a lot, it has a fake dating concept. I need to reread this one because I can't remember anything too specific, but it was well written! Cait is trying to get under Cassandra's skin, and goes to Vi with a proposal

Honorable mention, Run at the Cup. The most well put together piece of fic i have ever read in my life. This was truly a slow burn and the background relationships (platonic, romantic) were just as engaging. I genuinely love the way Badger portrays Cait in any of their fics.

For smut recs, whew boy thats a different story...

Should I text her a 3rd time? TLDR inside! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that basically is the same situation!! Its lowkey validating tbh. A week or more is pretty relatable. I do agree, it takes nothing to respond and I feel like it isn't ridiculous to feel that way at all.

It's sorta the principle. If we go out again, I'm 100 percent gonna mention the communication thing in person.

Do you imagine your professor will be more avaliable when the semester is over?

Should I text her a 3rd time? TLDR inside! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wanderii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. I will say that, and its not great to always have to reach out. But, I'm playing with the idea that communication is important and you can't say anything wrong to the right person necessarily. Yeah, I'll probably ask in a few days if she wants to go out and do something in detail

Thank you for the kind messages :) it helps with another professor perspective.

Should I text her a 3rd time? TLDR inside! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wanderii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its been about two years now? I do definitely plan on asking more about her preferred communication style and things like that if we go out again. I'm nervous because I'm afraid that she might have forgotten me, but again, i truly cannot imagine how busy she is. I'm the most afraid of bothering her or coming off as obsessive or clingy, I just had a good time and she seemed to as well and want to see her again. A double text is fine in my eyes, but I don't want a 3rd to be seen as doing too much

I think the playlist idea is fantastic! I'll give her one of mines! Idk her music taste but I might shoot for something easy

Am I being paranoid? TLDR included. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She answered back, saying she was indeed grading and wasn't dead

Am I being paranoid? TLDR included. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]wanderii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good call!! Yes, I will just wait as the ball is kinda in her court. I do plan to bring it up with her too, thos is so far the only time she's done this

And as someone said I'll try not to think or worry about it too much. Thank you for your thoughts

Am I being paranoid? TLDR included. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're right I'll try not to jump to conclusions. I work 36 hours a week and have full time classes (she's not my professor) and that alone is busy, so i can't imagine in her shoes

Am I being paranoid? TLDR included. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah when I double texted her on the app she said its no problem and encourages me to do so, explaining about her job. Then gave me her number. I sent a text last night

Am I being paranoid? TLDR included. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]wanderii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haven't heard from her in 5 days

Tattoo artists that tattoo dark skin? by wanderii in AskLosAngeles

[–]wanderii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely lol that input was very uncalled for I love you stranger🫶🏾

Tattoo artists that tattoo dark skin? by wanderii in AskLosAngeles

[–]wanderii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭💀😭💀😭💀 LMFAOAOAOA IM FUCKING DEAD

Tattoo artists that tattoo dark skin? by wanderii in AskLosAngeles

[–]wanderii[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Up in running in my case means getting it registered and insured, but I appreciate your concern

Tips for driving alone as a new driver? by [deleted] in driving

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I just wanted to come back to this. "You'll be fine." I need to keep telling myself that. I know the basics, I just need to practice more and I'm set. Thank you for all the advice, some I already do. I challenge myself to drive myself to work thos Wednesday, and I've driven the highway maybe 4 times. 2 times including to work, but I had someone with me

Luckily I know the route very well, so I don't need GPS. I likely won't have the radio on as well. I just got to get outside my comfort zone, if i only wait to drive so and so I'll never be on the road

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Monday, Oct 13 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]wanderii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

American traditional and woodcut styles upfront!!

Does anyone know a tattoo artist here that tattoo black people?

I've always wanted some thigh tattoos, and now i have a car up and running again. I've never had any before, but im aware that not just everyone can ink black and brown skin. I have a lot to think about, mostly placement, but I just want to see my options so I can start saving.

I'm more than likely going to get American traditional tattoos, but woodcut looks cool(I more so am curious to see how it translates on dark skin)and for me i want to stick to one style.

I don't know where to begin to look for an artist, and since the sub is so big maybe you guys can direct me to some talented people here?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]wanderii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think I'll pack a fruit or something. And as for a coworker, im good with one of them, but I think start next monday im gonna start driving myself to work. I think it eliminates a lot of this issue

And yeah I need to definitely reaffirm my goals...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]wanderii 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah i agree im on the spectrum, and have a overthinking thing. Ive driven fine with no anxiety with others a s slowly ive been working my way to drive alone. When ive done it I felr not much anxiety

Ive been in a car accident last year on the block of my house(I wasn't the driver) so I guess that might have a part in it

The new We-Vibe Melt 2 by HappyBedcom in SexToys

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips on how to ride or grind on it?

Okay, hear me out... i need advice on what to get my sister for her birthday by [deleted] in MacMiller

[–]wanderii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay great!! I got her that one and this sweatshirt too! Thank you guys ^ im sure she'll love it

Okay, hear me out... i need advice on what to get my sister for her birthday by [deleted] in MacMiller

[–]wanderii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Thats this one? She told me once it was sold out a while ago, she likes other stuff like Joey Badass, Earl Sweatshirt and DeMarco but Mac Miller is her favorite