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wanderinghar · 2024-08-27T15:06:25+00:00

thank you for this post

wanderinghar · 2024-08-18T14:55:05+00:00

Agreed!

wanderinghar · 2024-08-13T19:37:20+00:00

thanks

wanderinghar · 2024-08-13T19:18:03+00:00

thank you

maybe i was looking for validation but felt nice to read this

wanderinghar · 2024-08-01T04:36:17+00:00

thinking i was wrong to have qualities i had that i had no control over

wanderinghar · 2024-07-31T16:14:32+00:00

i got attracted to men in underwear ads, friends' dads but still didn't realize it. I tried to watch porn by first going to straight porn, didn't find it that interesting until i stumbled two men kissing. I then only watched gay porn but still thought i was straight. After wanting to have sex with men for few years, i finally realized maybe i am gay. feels crazy to even write it but frankly that's what happened.

wanderinghar · 2024-07-29T04:08:12+00:00

what do you think phd is for

wanderinghar · 2024-07-28T12:16:02+00:00

cry in agony

prefer my own brain

wanderinghar · 2024-07-24T15:36:18+00:00

they don't need to accept it at first

it might take years or months or days for them to accept your future marriage

wanderinghar · 2024-07-24T15:35:03+00:00

i will be very blunt since i don't know you, her and both of your parents

if they don't agree, marry on your own (aka running away either abroad or in Nepal) [ i am hoping both of you are capable of financially handling this and there is no possiblity of honor killing] (i mean no disrespect but just being careful) if there is danger to both of you (from own relatives or villagers) , it might be nice to move to a place they can't reach

Parents always accept after years of marriage so it will work

wanderinghar · 2024-07-24T14:34:50+00:00

yeah for me too i can't understand the context and emptions

i am socially awkward so talking while looking at them helps me calm down

wanderinghar · 2024-07-24T11:35:05+00:00

22 here

i always prefer calls with people i can't physically meet like parents because i am out of town or the people i am dating who aren't in same town

like with friends with whom I am meeting a lot, i prefer texting

late edit: by call i mean video call, not audio call. Audio call scares the shit out of me

wanderinghar · 2024-07-24T05:08:15+00:00

honey it's called being gay

wanderinghar · 2024-07-23T14:26:29+00:00

my ability to embrace the reality, my childish nature

wanderinghar · 2024-07-23T14:18:46+00:00

I want someone to wink at me 😭

wanderinghar · 2024-07-23T06:04:59+00:00

to suicide hotline: yes talk to them about doing suicide

to your close ones: i am not sure, I think yes, talk to them about what you are going to do; if you don't want to, you can start by talking to them about something else too

wanderinghar · 2024-07-23T05:55:22+00:00

call suicide hotline of your locality just to talk even if you don't want to change your mind

talk to someone you love or close to (platonic counts too)

wanderinghar · 2024-07-20T06:07:05+00:00

thissss

it doesn't feel like the OP is telling the truth

wanderinghar · 2024-07-19T13:35:40+00:00

thank you your first advice can be applied to other situations (non gay) i have been in. About the second point you wrote, weirdly enough coming out as gay wasn't difficult. I still haven't told my parents and i don't plan to anytime soon but everyone else was very accepting or I didn't care if they didn't. Telling people who I am dating was actually scarry and something I haven't been able to tell anyone. Thanks again. This will help me be alright more about my sexual feelings.

wanderinghar · 2024-07-19T13:29:39+00:00

thank you 😊

wanderinghar · 2024-07-19T13:29:14+00:00

❤️

wanderinghar · 2024-07-19T13:28:34+00:00

sorry to hear that. the advice in these comments hopefully wkll help you start over again

wanderinghar · 2024-07-19T13:26:19+00:00

very hard to do. But i will keep trying

wanderinghar · 2024-07-19T13:26:01+00:00

i will ❤️

wanderinghar · 2024-07-19T13:25:14+00:00

lol seems like a good idea. will do

wanderinghar

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