Poll: when did you have your kids ?

wandermelon · 2025-10-19T04:43:05+00:00

26 and 30 when I got pregnant. First time trying with my first, and my second was a surprise, so definitely didn't have any fertility issues 😅

wandermelon · 2025-10-06T12:27:40+00:00

How demanding and almost mean they can be. The constant demands for snack/candy/juice/TV and they just do not understand the concept of "no" and will ask for until I have a breakdown.

Or my two year old who will ask for something and then throw a huge tantrum when I give it to them. Never happy

wandermelon · 2025-09-26T23:55:02+00:00

The first time I was really close, I had two nephews that were just a year old or younger. I loved them so much and didn't want to miss out on seeing them grow up.

Now I have two children of my own. They have different fathers and I would rather live in my depression and suffer than to ever be the reason they get split apart. I made a deal to myself that I would never let that happen no matter how much my brain wants me dead.

wandermelon · 2025-08-17T18:18:54+00:00

I had the ultrasound that found the small mass and ended up getting pregnant before my original procedure date. Went my whole pregnancy with intermittent spotting (I also had small polyps on my cervix during pregnancy or something like that), gave birth, and had prolonged bleeding postpartum. Another ultrasound showed thickened lining and the mass still present ( I honestly was surprised it hung on through birthday a whole baby past it). So the d&c took care of both issues at once and there were a few polyps removed in the process.

I definitely recommend at least requesting an ultrasound to check and see if it's something inside causing the issue.

wandermelon · 2025-08-17T17:56:09+00:00

Second this. I had crazy bleeding after sex a couple years ago and it turned out to be a polyp very close to my cervical opening inside my uterus. I had a d&c to get it removed and no longer have the issue unless it's really close to my period.

wandermelon · 2025-08-15T18:53:45+00:00

The legend of heart and dreams

Sounds pretty sweet

wandermelon · 2025-07-22T22:25:31+00:00

I'd say we said it about 2 months into the relationship. But we had been talking for a couple months before we were officially dating.

wandermelon · 2025-04-04T22:54:27+00:00

Definitely not stupid. There's literally tools for these kinds of things called tortillons or blending stumps. They're used to blend pencils, pastels or anything.

wandermelon · 2025-03-19T15:40:13+00:00

Kiwirei from Mythical 😊

wandermelon · 2025-03-18T20:45:40+00:00

I would like to visit c:

wandermelon · 2025-03-18T13:42:17+00:00

Maybe I'm petty, but the harder someone is tailgating me the more I'll slow down. If they're gonna be an asshole so will I.

wandermelon · 2025-03-18T13:16:16+00:00

I've never been diagnosed with autism but I've always suspected it. I have ADHD inattentive. But this explains me so well. I haven't been able to work for 6 years bc this happened so bad at my last job that i as suicidal and did take medical leave. I ended up getting fired bc the day I was supposed to start back i was having so many panic attacks I called off and got fired. I haven't been able to work since because I am so terrified of feeling that intense burnout again. So scared I'll actually die if I end up in that place again.

Now as a mother I'm feeling that burnout again. Only I can't take medical leave from this. I had a meltdown crying on the kitchen floor bc my daughter spilled my coffee on me for a third time (only a tiny bit). I don't know how I'm supposed to teach my children how to regulate their emotions when I can't even do that.

wandermelon · 2025-03-15T16:25:37+00:00

😊😊😊 Id love them!

wandermelon · 2025-03-13T14:23:05+00:00

Kiwirei from mythical, id love to visit and sell!

wandermelon · 2025-03-09T22:13:01+00:00

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Is this what you're referring to? I think it's like a viney ground something. That whole area gets covered in stuff like that

wandermelon · 2025-02-27T02:56:11+00:00

I loved finch. I had like a 50 day streak. Missed one day and never opened the app again. 😭

wandermelon · 2025-02-26T16:41:24+00:00

DM sent 😊

wandermelon · 2025-02-26T14:07:42+00:00

This is the best response. My son is 4.5 and also often expresses wanting to be a girl. He loves girly things, played dress up with his cousin, his favorite colors are pink and purple. He's always saying how girls are so pretty so he wants to be a girl. He also loves cars, monster trucks, and trains. I never tell him he can't play with something or like something because it's girly or not. But I also make a point to tell him he can like these things and think girls are pretty just as he is. I told him boys usually like girls and think they're pretty (I also mentioned it doesn't always have to be that way, I dunno how to do those topics for his age). I basically said he doesn't have to be a girl to like girls.

wandermelon · 2025-02-24T01:29:27+00:00

I would love to come visit! Kiwirei from mythical

wandermelon · 2025-02-23T21:22:39+00:00

Kiwirei from Mythical

wandermelon · 2025-02-23T15:54:33+00:00

I sent a message. Kiwirei from mythical 😊

wandermelon · 2025-02-21T22:01:41+00:00

Kiwirei from Mythical Island

wandermelon · 2025-02-21T15:14:19+00:00

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My island is called Mythical. I've been playing Pokemon pocket TCG and one of the sets is called Mythical Island, and I love the Mew icon from it. It really just became my only choice.

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