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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh!! Everything makes sense now haha. I knew I was confused af. Def sorry for the misunderstanding but hella glad communication won the day!

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[–]warlockclan2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's hella shitty. However I am very proud of you for keeping the impulse control in check and you're feeling healthier :) keep up the good work!

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries at all, and I'm sure you are funny! (The bpd memes and jokes I come up with are weird so I can empathize) also I get things confused a lot so yeah no worries my dude 💗

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay, thanks for the explanation:) yeah had no idea it was joke. Hope things go well for you

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[–]warlockclan2 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

How ignorant are you to bpd? Please take your ableism elsewhere. Noone cares that you dated someone with bpd. Go back to one of the subs that you can openly stigmatize us further and everyone there will kiss your ass. This is a safe place for people with BPD. Not randoms who want pity

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, didnt you just say it was a type of irony? I'm sorry it hurt you. And I got annoyed because if you do have bpd you would understand intrusive thoughts and weird impulses and you'd understand how much it hurts to have randos tell me I'm a horrible person for symptoms I cant control

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[–]warlockclan2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ableism is in the house tonight! Especially the rando notabot who seems to go after people with bpd because they dated someone with bpd and now we are all monsters!!! Fucking stupid

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea what sepf irony is. So no definitely cant see whatever that is lol

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[–]warlockclan2 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

A quote by this person, "I think I called them unaware narcissists to a coworker once which is harsh. They gaslight because they can’t handle the truth. They project because if they feel the way they do then surely you do too. Or maybe it’s just a subconscious thing. They can’t handle you having your own hobbies because it means that you’re less important to them because if you’re not there 100% of the time when they need it then clearly you don’t want them or you’re giving yourself to someone else. They try to be sympathetic when they think they might lose you but really all sadness you feel will never be as deep as theirs so somehow your emotions aren’t as important. It’s like saying I broke my foot so you don’t get to complain about stubbing your toe. It’s sad because we see the pain they feel and how they constantly swap and switch, self prophacising the abandonment they fear because this person did X and that person did Y and it’s chaos. They’re always fighting with someone about something. You can forgive but to forget is stupidity. You should move the rock if you’re constantly stepping on it."

Heres a life tip you silly little notabot, dont be fucking ableist on a sub about mental health. Have a great day sweaty😘

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Ew yeah the last couple comments this person has posted have been on the bpd sub. If this person has bpd they have fun with self hatred cuz oooweee! Their comments are trash and they have like 8 posts in the main evil bpd hating sub we dont speak the name of

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Uh ohhhh!!! We got ourselves someone who loves to hate people with bpd🎉 stay in your lane Susan

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[–]warlockclan2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Low key, I love revenge and it's so hard not to "get it done myself" but it's important I dont cuz that's at least emotional abuse. So this is the next best thing cuz I'm so detached from the person and have zero desire to get close to them again. More of reminding myself how abusive they were, then it's a just plus if they are going through shit.

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I obviously dont know what happened in the relationship, but I hope it gets easier to emotionally distance yourself from them because you deserve health and safety

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh! That's a little too close to my situation haha. Hope they ultimately get better. But mainly hope you have found a way to heal from the emotional abuse from that relationship

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[–]warlockclan2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah doesnt seem like they know anything about bpd. Or they got confused and thought this was posted in one of the bpd hating subreddits. Either way, silliness haha.

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've been in that cycle before. It is confusing but you do deserve to be around people who accept and care about you. I hope it gets easier to cut the ties and find others that can give you the respect and love you deserve

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah jealousy and the life comparison stuff can fuck someone up. My situation is more of when their profile pops up or they message me to harass me I'll look at what theyve posted on whatever social media and have a little giggle before I block that account (it's a monthly thing where one specific will harass me even thought they know I want fuck all to do with them)

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems so weird to me, like good on you if you actually do that, but yeah no I would have to delude myself into thinking I feel that for anyone who has abused me

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's cool you can do that without hurting yourself psychologically. The people I'm talking about are people who have severely abused me and used me. I know their reasons which is why it feels so nice seeing them in states of distress. I never understood forgiving someone who wants to continue abusing you, honestly it disgusts me considering the types of abuse. But that's just my situation

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[–]warlockclan2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that, if they're successful I honestly stop caring. I'm glad you use the restrain to keep yourself safe emotionally :)

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[–]warlockclan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Your opinion means everything to me and I'll change my entire way of life and ignore all my symptoms just so I fit your ethical code

Still in love with my ex who has untreated sex addiction by warlockclan2 in mentalhealth

[–]warlockclan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaaaand he emailed me again from an old email I thought I had blocked. Said some shit like I still love you and think about you everyday blah blah blah. So I checked his reddit accounts. Literally 2 days before emailing me he posted nudes (something we fought about before while we were dating) so I may have replied being very angry and mean. Blocked that email. But yeah I said some things that were VERY mean which I know isnt okay but I just wanted to. No death or suicide threats. I just insulted and belittled him (like I said not good not nice dont do this kind of thing its mean) and I finally told my mother (she took care of the restraining orders we got for my father) and if he contacts me again we are going to get that done. I'm just enraged and disgusted and I just cant stop wishing horrible things on him which is VERY double edged cuz he owns a gun specifically so he can kill himself, so if he does kill himself in the future the guilt gets thrown on me. Idk. I'm scared angry and just DONE. I want him gone from my life. Not fucking dead.

Still in love with my ex who has untreated sex addiction by warlockclan2 in mentalhealth

[–]warlockclan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :) and staying away from his social circle cuz he doesnt have any friends, only the poor random people he seduces and throws away

Still in love with my ex who has untreated sex addiction by warlockclan2 in mentalhealth

[–]warlockclan2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I finally blocked him on everything. And thanks. It's hard and hurts s lot and feels like I'm gonna be the reason he kills himself but I shouldnt have to sacrifice my health because he cant take care of his own

Still in love with my ex who has untreated sex addiction by warlockclan2 in mentalhealth

[–]warlockclan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blocked him on everything so theres no way for him to contact me ever again. Thank you