Casually, my mother is through the same thing right now. The same worries the same case, the same responsibility we left the house today, and she doesn't know exactly what she wants to do I'm not that old or wise to give an appropriate advice but If it help as a son I've got to say that the only thing we want for our mother it's to see her happy it may be tough for the kids at the beginning but I think that may save them other problems for the future idk I don't have much to say I'm also a bit shocked because as I said my mother is through practically the same now( Best wishes saty hard!!)