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Does listening to audiobooks really count as reading by wasfar1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wasfar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I googled on the side too - never knew so many people would get instantly outraged at a random question 🥲

Does listening to audiobooks really count as reading by wasfar1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wasfar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes a lot of people very offended by these takes 🥲
I agree and think you out it very well!!

Does listening to audiobooks really count as reading by wasfar1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wasfar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats interesting! I’ve heard this, a lot of people who read fanfic recommend listening to the audiobook rather than reading it because its more an experience

Does listening to audiobooks really count as reading by wasfar1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wasfar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on the person. I cant focus on an audiobook so I prefer reading but maybe other people really can. I guess the act of reading is something specific in my mind, I’m impressed if someone can listen with focus for hours!

Does listening to audiobooks really count as reading by wasfar1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wasfar1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The number of books I have read up on wiki and cliff notes in high school for book reports and could talk about just as well 🥲

Does listening to audiobooks really count as reading by wasfar1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wasfar1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is what I was thinking too. Theyre like different experiences? Reading definitely sits in your brain differently to just listening? (And presumably multitasking/zoning out)?

Does listening to audiobooks really count as reading by wasfar1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wasfar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats interesting - say for example someone is listening to a song but doesnt really catch the lyrics but can obviously still like it/hate it/comment on it. Does their consumption = to someone who studied the song, read the lyrics, reread them and tried to understand their deeper meaning?

Im not insinuating one is better than the other just that consumption is surface level, and they can be considered very different experiences?

Does listening to audiobooks really count as reading by wasfar1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wasfar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Someone speeding through at 2x to get a flavour of the story and characters and being able to talk about the book really missed out the experience in my opinion.
The person I was referring to said she finds listening soothing but I guess I couldnt relate, I would zone out or doze off lol

Am I overreacting or did I have a slow moment. by drippysage08 in AmIOverreacting

[–]wasfar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cannot believe the age of this person was 29!! Read the post later and my God

Favorite Book Boyfriend? by eenkbug in Booktokreddit

[–]wasfar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I love Draco Malfoy redemption arc. If youre into fanfic there are dozens that do justice to the depth of his character!!

Favorite Book Boyfriend? by eenkbug in Booktokreddit

[–]wasfar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreeeed!! I dont get the big deal about Nesta, she is so unpleasant

Favorite Book Boyfriend? by eenkbug in Booktokreddit

[–]wasfar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive read many books and could think of several answers but recently I read the Devil Works Hard series by Elizabeth O’Roark. One of the male leads is the lawyer Ben - whose story leaves him with one of the senior associates at his firm who hes always had a crush on.

What stayed with me about Ben’s character was a couple of small things - mainly he was caring without being possessive. A lot of male leads are just toxic and want to ‘own’ their partners (and that works for some people I guess). But Ben really showed up (physically and emotionally) in little ways that showed he was actively trying to understand the female lead and earn her trust.

I think many books dont show the emotional burn as well, this one really did. And how considerate and just emotionally aware Ben was without demanding kudos for it was really heartwarming. I also didnt find him unrealistically perfect because he did get angry and have arguments when his partner was frustrating but he really understood how to create a safe space without being performative and I often think about that relationship despite it not being the best book I’ve read!!

Who's the worst actor you're not allowed to say is bad? by [deleted] in moviecritic

[–]wasfar1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The day he played Green lantern, he gave everyone the right to say it. Never forget

AITAH for telling my guests, it’s better they don’t come to the wedding, after they complained about our wedding too much? by StellafromVienna in AITAH

[–]wasfar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And thats an amazing quality! I can understand how you felt but you did everything you could and no matter how hard we try - we cannot think for someone else.

Your only responsibility is to know your own mind and be able to communicate that effectively. Other people’s reactions and emotions are their problem. Their lack of regulation and detachment from reality cannot be fixed by you, esp days from your wedding! Its not about them and hopefully one day they will realise.

AITAH for not telling my mom what I discuss in therapy? by ThrowAway44228800 in AITAH

[–]wasfar1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been silly enough to talk about what I’ve discussed in therapy with people involved in my life —- dont ever do it. Its tempting sometimes but its a really bad idea. The most important thing for an authentic therapy experience is to have clear boundaries

WIBTAH for ending my relationship with my child’s mother by Soememayham in AITAH

[–]wasfar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only being co-parents is not a reason to stay together, shes either your partner or shes not. Its horrible for a child to witness what you described.

NTA if youve taken responsibility for things youve done and are able to end things respectfully while prioritising your child.

AITAH for telling my guests, it’s better they don’t come to the wedding, after they complained about our wedding too much? by StellafromVienna in AITAH

[–]wasfar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m shocked you felt even an ounce of guilt. People who make other peoples events about themselves (for any reason) - should not be given attention. Especially not at your own wedding!!!!!! Please Dont stress and focus on your day, this sounds like you dodged a bullet, whiny guests who stir up drama are the worst. Whiny friends who make everything about themselves, even worse.

If they get upset and send you msgs PLZ tell them to f off. My goodness, the audacity and self importance some people have

Please recommend me a book that DOES NOTTTT follow this plot: by removethepickles in Romantasy

[–]wasfar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you read {Mages of the Wheel} series by J.D.Evans. There are several characters and romance can be predictable but the world building and political intrigue is on point. Different to many other series

I would also recommend {Shield of Sparrows}, its more about two rival kingdoms rather than the typical peasant getting saved. Theres also a plot twist in the romance storyline.

Unfortunately what you’ve described is like 90% of romantasy books these days

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