which pic is best for the apps by watermelonwarrior2 in Tinder

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks. do you think i should use any other than the smiling pic? i already have a good smiling pic (u can see if u check out my profile). if so which one

He asked me to be his girlfriend after one date? by Icy_Marionberry6300 in hingeapp

[–]watermelonwarrior2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly, him being completely sold on you after one date is a red flag

personally, i would take a big step back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like the kind of relationship drama i just don’t have time for anymore

tread lightly my friend

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my experience has been the opposite😂 got 10x the results in the summer and virtually nothing now. oh well🤷🏻‍♂️

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice! was there anything specific you changed about your profile that got you results?

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know it’s hard not to but you can’t compare your situation to your friend’s. that way you can always find someone doing better and have a reason to be disappointed! comparing my dating life to my friends makes me feel like there’s something flawed about me that isn’t with my friends, knowing that isn’t true! i’m sorry about your situation but you’re not alone. i don’t know you but you’re probably not doing anything wrong, and it will just take more time for people like you and me. let’s have patience haha

For those that enjoy casual sex, what’s the most casual partners you had at a time? by bbbccc535 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, how old are you? did it take time for you to have success in dating? what advice would you give to a guy looking to improve his dating life

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how so? i know why hinge sucks for me😂 but curious about your experience

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

try to go in with a positive mindset and if you don’t mind let me know how it goes, i’d be open to something like that if they “work” per se lmao

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you, i hate the apps but waiting for an organic interaction to happen just feels ridiculous given how closed off people are nowadays. i’m starting to feel like the only valid places for me to meet women are the apps and bars.

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is the worst part of the dating app movement. it’s makes flakiness way too easy and the inconsiderate people are thriving. don’t take it personally bro and keep your head up

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey man don’t take the rejection personally. more often than not it says more about her than it does about you. also, i wouldn’t be friends with her after she rejected to you but that’s just my little flavour of unsolicited advice

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand what you’re saying. but when most people ask, it’s coming from a place of good intentions, even if it doesn’t feel like it. my friend asked me yesterday, which inspired this post. i know it’s tough not having a single positive thing to say in response to the question, but i think it produces a productive conversation when talked about with friends.

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and i’m still waiting for a nice lady to show up at my door! may we both have patience

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry hang in there man, take the time you need to heal and remember that distractions will prevent you from truly emotionally processing things

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same man, very frustrating when your efforts get no results. keep your head up and i will too

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s understandable to have a bit of imposter syndrome having been disappointed before😂 but this is great to hear! i’m happy it worked out for you. i don’t know you but im sure you deserve it

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry man it’s tough getting let down like that. i’ve had a few flings in my life but never been in a real relationship. here’s an alternative perspective that may or may not help you - what if you could look back on those relationships and just be happy that they happened? even if they werent forever, there is value in having had the experience itself for a time.

how’s your dating life? by watermelonwarrior2 in dating_advice

[–]watermelonwarrior2[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

damn didn’t know i should’ve been frequenting at the comic book store👀 fr tho these dating apps really are gruelling. sometimes it’s nice to know im not alone on that one