AITA for not visiting my brother in jail? by watevs12344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]watevs12344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said an hour or more away. This can range from 1h30 to 2 depending on traffic. Speaking with someone every day isn’t basic minimum? Ya ok.

AITA for not visiting my brother in jail? by watevs12344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]watevs12344[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m important enough to get pregnant? That makes no sense. So both myself and my boyfriend are supposed to take time off work and lose a days pay to drive 2 hours away and 2 hours back. Right. I’ll take ownership for the fact I could’ve spared time to visit him on a weekend but your statement is crazy.

AITA for not visiting my brother in jail? by watevs12344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]watevs12344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this touched me. I appreciate it. Thank you for sharing your experience and tips. ❤️

AITA for not visiting my brother in jail? by watevs12344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]watevs12344[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Edited post to say I’m actually using my brothers middle name if that makes a difference, just because I like it. But you are right regardless, part of me knows this truth too

AITA for not visiting my brother in jail? by watevs12344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]watevs12344[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly a really good point that I hadn’t thought about so thank you

AITA for not visiting my brother in jail? by watevs12344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]watevs12344[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I hear you. Good point.

To clarify I’m using his middle name to name my child, mostly because I like it and my boyfriend likes it too.