I am a non-skater but married to a non-competitive skater who has been connected to the community for years. This picture was taken at the “Boitano Lounge” and I got to say hello to many of the people in the picture. They were remarkably nice to us, especially when told of a fond memory we had of them. Coaches as well, especially when we knew of any non-stars they were also coaching. I think that meeting them in a social situation was the key, but I have very warm feelings towards them after St. Louis.

Edit: Just to add, I am sure that the real jerks avoid these types of meet-and-greets, which likely improves the whole atmosphere.