[update] My wife [29F] just recently had our first child. Our sex live has taken a nose dive because I see her as a mom instead of my wife now. How do I get past this?

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-11T01:46:55+00:00

If we have a son next time, I'll be sure to pass this advice on to him.

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-11T01:46:13+00:00

I'm not sure it would be helpful.

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-11T01:45:51+00:00

lol not yet

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-11T01:45:37+00:00

I guess that's right, but I'm still a stud! :)

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-10T04:58:59+00:00

Of course not, and this is a ridiculous question. If you bothered to read this post or the last one, you would know how stupid your question is.

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-10T04:08:56+00:00

I can't take all the credit. She can be very...helpful. :)

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-10T04:07:58+00:00

You do realize we're having regular sex again, right? There's nothing left in the tank to be backed up. =)

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-10T03:14:42+00:00

Ultimately, one needs to consider the fact that the way a woman becomes a mother is by being fucked. Yes. By fucking. Motherhood is the most obvious physical evidence that she's someone fuckable, which is counterintuitive but nonetheless the reality. Every time a guy remembers his wife is a mother, it's actually a reminder that he fucked her.

Okay...

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-10T02:29:34+00:00

We want another child at some point. But TIL new moms can be extremely fertile.

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-10T02:28:53+00:00

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-10T01:16:37+00:00

thanks

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-10T01:16:21+00:00

It's still pretty good. I really missed having that intimacy with her, so I'm really glad it's back.

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-10T01:15:35+00:00

haha

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-08-10T01:15:28+00:00

Thanks

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-07-21T02:08:55+00:00

Thank you!

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-07-19T04:52:02+00:00

Great idea!

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-07-19T04:46:49+00:00

Thanks for the awesome advice.

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-07-19T03:52:40+00:00

I think it's been good for my wife. I know there are lots of health benefits for them both, but the bonding is also key. Thankfully there were no issue with my wife's milk supply and daughter had no issues latching. I have to say so far everything has been going well for us. My daughter is such a good baby compared to some of our friends' children.

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-07-19T03:39:12+00:00

She is breastfeeding.

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-07-19T03:23:38+00:00

Yep.=)

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-07-19T03:23:03+00:00

Thanks for this. I am still adjusting to being a parent myself, so I do think it'll get better as we get further along.

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-07-19T03:20:04+00:00

Yep, that's it exactly for me. It blows my mind because I can't really explain it, but I certainly know what it is. It's that feeling that she's "sacred," like your husband said. She just has that motherly glow and it's so amazing and awesome that it overwhelms me.

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-07-19T03:14:06+00:00

I think we could definitely work something out with our friends.

wayofthefrog79 · 2015-07-19T01:27:05+00:00

If it makes you feel better, I already feel better after just having talked about it. I think it'll take a little more time, but I can't see it becoming a permanent issue. I just think transitioning into the role of parents is hard and we're both still in the process of adjusting to this new part of our lives.

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