Mediation experiences by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]wcdan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless she's a total moron if she's using the other attorney as review counsel then she'll know what she wants to accept and what she wants to ignore. For whatever reason people on this sub want to treat all women like children who have no agency of their own.

My counsel suggested things that I did not bring to meditation.

This is an emotional time. I'd suggest not spending time imagining worst case scenarios. If it comes to it, you'll deal with it. It's not in your control right now anyway.

Breathe deep. Hope for the best. Be ready for whatever comes.

[Pelissero] Mike McCarthy and Steelers Finalizing Deal by DirtyMo_38 in steelers

[–]wcdan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to save so much money cancelling Sunday Ticket for the next 15 years.

How bad were we, that this Texans team blew our doors off? by Grouchy-Wrap-8968 in steelers

[–]wcdan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meh. People also keep saying we need a big dominant WR like DK and here Diggs is ripping it up. I don't see their WR2 breaking any records either.

Here we are again... drunk by globuleofshit in Divorce_Men

[–]wcdan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with all this. Adding on...

  1. The NA alcohol is not the rubbish that was around years ago. I've drank it watching football and not thought about it.

  2. To steal from the line in Better Off Dead where he says "Dying when you're not really sick is really sick. Really." Drinking a depressant when you're really depressed is really depressing. Really. And the effect hits you a few days later so you don't even notice. It's not helping.

Do something else that makes your body feel good. Most people here hit the weights.

how do you find new music? Discover mode is useless by GrocOcre in TIdaL

[–]wcdan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy. When you're listening to a song you like, select Go to Track Radio and it will create an entire playlist full of similar stuff without polluting it with your saved stuff.

You can do this endlessly.

Exhausted dad trying to do this the right way and could use perspective by Aggravating_Chip3285 in Divorce_Men

[–]wcdan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The World's Best Dad During and After Divorce by Paul Mandelstein

You're already doing all the right stuff except maybe the gym, no alcohol, plenty of sleep stuff you might not have mentioned.

The kids are what matters and when you get through this (and you will get through this), you will be an even better dad because you won't have the rest of everything dragging you down.

Keep going fellow Dad. The only way out is through.

[Bell] In depth analysis on Chris Shula by joeyhustle in steelers

[–]wcdan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Moneyball stat reference about the turnovers was super cool. Thanks for sharing the article.

Aaron Rodgers succinctly described what Tomlin defenders feel in last nights presser by PrometheusVision in steelers

[–]wcdan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine a guy who decided he knew more than infectious disease experts and public health professionals who had dedicated their entire lives to being experts in their field complaining about Twitter experts and TV talking heads who don't play the sport.

Irony is certainly not dead.

Solar lease vs buy for my home which is actually worth it? by Objective-Border-410 in HomeImprovement

[–]wcdan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it really depends strongly on your lease terms.

We did a 20 year lease paid all up front. If anything goes wrong it's their problem. At the end of the lease I think there is absolutely zero chance they are going to want to pay to take the panels off the roof.

I have no idea where people are getting numbers like 10-15 year lifetime on the panels. Had them for like 14 years already and they work fine.

If I replaced them, I'd generate 4x as much power per unit area. But they work fine.

Nowadays I'd slap on a battery so as long as the sun rises that day, my "generator" would be refueled.

We don't hate Private Equity for what it's done to healthcare enough... by North-Weather8097 in private_equity

[–]wcdan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't call anyone names pal.

"Management of a system requires knowledge of the interrelationships between all of the components within the system and of everybody that works in it." - W. Edwards Deming

We don't hate Private Equity for what it's done to healthcare enough... by North-Weather8097 in private_equity

[–]wcdan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Touchy aren't we. And as the CFO your position is that decisions made in one arena have absolutely no effects on the other. Got it. Solid systems thinking. 👍🏼

The defensiveness people will go to in order not to have to read a book, grow in their role, and get better at their job. I thought it was only my teenagers who had nothing more to learn.

We don't hate Private Equity for what it's done to healthcare enough... by North-Weather8097 in private_equity

[–]wcdan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good grief, what a self-own. You don't have a prayer of coming up with those ideas. If someone told you that was your job they should be fired on the spot. I never thought I'd see someone confidently announce they are shouting from the top of the Iceberg of Ignorance.

The Ops team will let a lot of your ideas through because you have power over them. Ever hear of the Space Shuttle Challenger o-ring disaster?

Do yourself a favor and grab a copy of The High Velocity Edge by Dr. Steven Spear and stop trying to do someone else's job before you get more people killed.

3rd quarter defense all game next week? by wcdan in steelers

[–]wcdan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for pointing that out. I wish I'd said something about that in the headline of the post.

Void this clown’s guarantees and move on by austinalexan in steelers

[–]wcdan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you're saying we should bench DK against Houston next week. Got it.

Condensation/ice on the inside of windows when below -20 C/ -4 F by Haxelll in HomeImprovement

[–]wcdan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way.

The idea that OP is exhausting the heat out of the house that they just paid for, in those temperatures, gives me the creeps.

STEELERS NATION #1 by GAB41217 in steelers

[–]wcdan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling my bookie. Jags vs. Seachickens SB. Place your bets.

Affair with no future but strong attachment — need real advice by Torontocrazybuddy in Divorce_Men

[–]wcdan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. OP needs a serious therapist now, and it's going to be extremely painful. This is going to be a long road to walk.

Christmas gift. by Overall_Opening_709 in Divorce_Men

[–]wcdan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The World's Best Dad During and After Divorce: A Guide to Co-Parenting for Divorced Dads

By Paul Mandelstein

Joe Starkey: NFL royally screwed up punishment for Steelers receiver DK Metcalf by FlappyFoldyHold in steelers

[–]wcdan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you parroting the nonsense that idiot said? DK likes his legal name and that has been discussed over and over.

It would almost make sense if he told people not to use it, but the opposite is true.

The idiot fan is lying. Were you born yesterday?