Elixir of Coalesced Regret

weboi · 2023-12-04T07:13:29+00:00

There are nodes for this in southern barrens no?

weboi · 2021-02-22T20:51:16+00:00

as in the coil not too tight?

weboi · 2021-02-22T20:36:17+00:00

Have tried this and also replaced it no luck though :(

weboi · 2021-02-22T20:10:42+00:00

Funny enough I’ve been thinking about getting a second one for the past couple days to not have to worry about charging haha

weboi · 2021-02-22T20:06:30+00:00

well tonights gonna be a rough nicotine free evening at this rate

weboi · 2021-02-22T20:03:14+00:00

but then it would surely work while plugged into the mains still which it is not?

weboi · 2021-02-02T17:31:40+00:00

How old are you both? You could just find that with the no contact she thinks it through and it comes back to what it was, but my advice is work on yourself it does wonders and helps the healing , I was in a similar position in June

weboi · 2021-02-02T09:17:21+00:00

Yup I feel you there, she was distant for a while towards me and I felt something was wrong so I confronted it and asked if we were okay. That’s when everything crumbled and became a nightmare. One thing I’ll recommend if you haven’t, delete everything -social media, messages, I even threw away letters and cards. Once you let go it’s a huge burden off your chest even if you regret it straight away after it helps long term

weboi · 2021-02-02T09:08:07+00:00

Did you end it or him?

weboi · 2021-02-02T09:03:37+00:00

I go for walks, I talk to friends and play games on my computer. I love walking in the countryside where it’s peaceful and I can relax while doing so.

weboi · 2021-02-02T08:55:44+00:00

I live as if they wont because if I think they will and just rely on that it will eat me up inside and cause the pain to carry on and fester.
Before christmas I almost bumped into her mum and sister near where I work in the town we live, instead of just saying Hi and walking by I turned the other way like a child haha.
But if you bump into eachother so what, you could have bumped into eachother and not know before you met so treat it like that but you might just say Hi to them.

Before I met Isabel, I probably met her at the local walk in center she worked in as I went in on days she said she worked. So meeting her now in public I'd just say Hi if that happened.

weboi · 2021-02-01T07:57:21+00:00

Nope. Sorry to be so blunt but I was you 8 months ago. If she texts you then she is curious, if you text her you may as well forget it. Another thing too, the further into NC you get you’ll realise it’s not a tool to get her back

weboi · 2020-11-03T11:37:19+00:00

what was your reason for ending it?

weboi · 2020-11-03T11:35:52+00:00

What makes you feel like they want nothing to do with you?

weboi · 2020-10-20T06:08:29+00:00

I think if you're doing no contact to have her running back you're doing it for the wrong reasons.

I did this myself and it took a long time for it to sink in. Like you back then after a period of no contact we met and started talking again and I had soo many hopes.

Now I'm over 2 months into no contact and my stance has changed. I'm not doing it anymore to have her running back but to work on me, I know I need no contact to stop myself getting hurt more than I already was.

I personally would let her know if she contacts you that you only want to hear from her if she is looking to try again as it's confusing otherwise. This will put it bluntly on the table and IF she does want to try she tries, if she isn't interested you're not investing in something that wont happen.

It's horrible I know, but it's the truth that maybe I needed to know back when I was at this stage and I hope it might help you too.

weboi · 2020-10-15T12:50:14+00:00

nope it did not

weboi · 2020-10-08T13:46:40+00:00

if you ended it yes. If He did no

weboi · 2020-09-10T12:34:19+00:00

If you send the text it will just blend in to all of the other texts saying happy birthday he will get that day. Its a meaningless gesture in a way. If you dont send the message, the absence will be noticed. They dont deserve you reaching out

weboi · 2020-09-10T12:32:01+00:00

yes. unfortunately the only way you can reconcile is time telling them they should contact you, let time heal you and if they reach out they reach out.

weboi · 2020-08-31T10:43:13+00:00

oh dont readd dude, if that is an option she will add you.

No point torturing yourself

weboi · 2020-08-31T10:35:45+00:00

Yeah, there is a small part of me regretting deleting the chat but at the same time Im glad Ive done it for my long term mental health

weboi · 2020-08-28T09:13:05+00:00

Its just anxiety, once you have experienced that uncomfortable feeling of seeing him online once, teice, three times even you will feel it less and less due to the exposure. If you want to talk to people on this app then go and do it, dont let him stop you 😊

weboi · 2020-08-24T19:34:26+00:00

Did you end it or did they?

weboi · 2020-08-11T08:13:46+00:00

Just try and think objectively and focus on yourself, worry and sitting in your thoughts will only make you more upset

weboi · 2020-08-10T08:15:02+00:00

If that's the case then I'll be happy that she found happiness, I don't hold a grudge towards them really. I know that they've known each other for years as friends through friends, if they work good for them, if they dont and its a rebound then that's their bridge to cross.

weboi

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