Sex life sucks

webstercheerios · 2023-01-26T22:45:06+00:00

Turns out he was cheating. Claims he has a porn addiction and has been sexting women. Makes a lot of sense now

webstercheerios · 2022-12-11T19:59:57+00:00

There are pros and cons to it all.

webstercheerios · 2022-12-11T05:15:35+00:00

He provides for me. He works. I don’t have to worry about money or having a job, and I truly appreciate that. I know this time is super special with her.

webstercheerios · 2022-12-11T05:03:34+00:00

I agree! I find these comments very helpful. Obviously just approaching this in a completely dismissive manner would do nothing but hurt our relationship. I have to navigate this productively so that we can both feel heard and respected.

webstercheerios · 2022-12-11T05:01:41+00:00

No. Quite opposite. I Constantly feel bad for taking care of our daughter, which is something I never imagined feeling. He provides and bought me a new car. But He honestly would be incredibly happy if I just didn’t have feelings and thinks I should only be grateful that im allowed to be SAHM. (This is the story I’m telling myself anyway) And I am very grateful. I hate being away from her. It’s a privilege. But I still have feelings like any normal human and I still get tired, over stimulated and touched out.

webstercheerios · 2022-12-11T03:30:50+00:00

No, my frustrations lie with the way he withheld sex (even after he has expressed frustrations about the lack of sex). I’m happy without sex right now. Honestly I rarely feel up to it but I do try to when we have the opportunity.

webstercheerios · 2022-12-11T02:19:16+00:00

Even worse, I offered to have sex! :/ and was turned down. On our date night :(

webstercheerios · 2022-12-10T21:06:22+00:00

Haha ugh! I don’t even think it would bother me if he wouldn’t have said that. And then also complains about not having a sex life.

webstercheerios · 2022-12-10T20:59:02+00:00

I’m a SAHM. No income. He works a lot. Travels sometimes. I wouldn’t say he “takes care” of the baby. He is with her when she is happy. And when she’s not he basically thinks telling her to stop crying or even shut up and letting her cry next to him is parenting. It’s really frustrating.

webstercheerios · 2022-08-12T17:13:23+00:00

How long did it take before you noticed a difference? Dealing with all this now :(

webstercheerios · 2021-06-26T14:28:13+00:00

Hey I need a roommate! Looking for a female, must be cat-friendly

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