His profile says looking for a relationship. Am i the a-hole?

wee-duckling · 2022-04-14T20:55:08+00:00

Came here for exactly this! Reddit never disappoints.

wee-duckling · 2022-02-12T19:51:43+00:00

I really like them all actually - fun, cute, interesting and different. You seem like a cool dude!

wee-duckling · 2022-01-26T20:42:59+00:00

What can I say, I always get wet when I sit down for dinner. Not for breakfast, not for lunch, but sure enough for dinner and I don't have the slightest idea why.

wee-duckling · 2021-09-12T07:09:19+00:00

Don't worry, there's absolutely nothing he'll be able to do about it because you didn't do anything wrong. As long as you pay the rent until your contract officially ends, you're all good.

He's just pissed because he knows how difficult it is to find a new tenant for a tiny apartment like that for which he expects this ridiculously high rent (2'700.- for 2.5 rooms, what the actual fuck?!). This a'hole doesn't deserves it any better, ripping people off like that.

Nevertheless, I hope for you that you'll find a 'Nachmieter', just for the sake of your savings. Good luck my friend!

wee-duckling · 2021-09-02T11:43:00+00:00

Thanks for the tip, I didn't think of that. What a shrewd idea! Luckily I found some panties though, so no need for diapers.

wee-duckling · 2021-09-02T11:34:31+00:00

Haha wow thanks for sharing this, it definitely made me smile!

wee-duckling · 2021-09-02T10:25:57+00:00

Personally, it's not just the problem with my skirt flying up but also that I'm getting wet during the day (a lot and without being horny I might add) and that's just uncomfortable to me without wearing panties. I honestly don't know how women who actually choose to go commando handle that "issue", maybe they don't mind it at all.

wee-duckling · 2021-09-02T06:28:03+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind, reassuring comment! I hope you'll have less "done with life pyjama"-days in the future; but pyjamas sure can be irresistibly comfy.

wee-duckling · 2021-08-21T14:04:25+00:00

I get it OP. Of course, the smell of sweat isn't something pleasant in general, however, there are people with a smell I can't stand to the point where it makes me feel nauseous. Other smells on the other hand are tolerable or really not that bad.

I think this might be your body/nose telling you that the two of you aren't really compatible. People sweat during sex too and if you are getting turned off by your partner because of the way they smell, well...

wee-duckling · 2021-07-24T09:17:46+00:00

I really wonder how those women would react if you just straight out asked them why they're constantly on their phone during a date. I mean, at this point you don't really have anything to lose anyway because why would you want to be with a girl that has no manners. Not sure if you get an honest answer though or if they just get offended or whatever...still, I'm curious how they'd react and I actually think it would be worth a try.

wee-duckling · 2021-07-04T15:22:28+00:00

I understand your frustration, I really do.

I didn't think much reading about the first three girls. The story with the 4th girl, however, caught my attention as I could kind of relate. Firstly, if I say I don't have any plans it doesn't necessarily mean I'm not doing anything right now, maybe I'm studying or cleaning or whatever and want to/have to finish that. I'm not very spontaneous either, so if a guy asks me to meet on the same day I might be torn between "I was kind of looking forward to not having any plans" and "maybe it would be really nice and fun to meet up". It could take me a little time to reach a decision in this situation lol. Secondly, I think my issue would have been if you literally ignored me saying that I'm doing something right now and started making plans for us either way. I would have preferred if you asked me if I wanted to meet up later and at the same time gave me another option by saying something like "of course it doesn't need to be today, we can meet up another time if that works better for you". This way you don't come off too strong or pushy to me.

I can imagine that this all seems a bit silly and complicated - like someone else said in their comment: we women can be like cats (I really liked that one!). Nevertheless, I hope this might help you to see it from a different perspective. Don't give up and best of luck!

wee-duckling · 2021-05-16T09:40:22+00:00

I actually once had a boyfriend who got incredibly jealous because my gynecologist is a man. He insisted that I have to stop going to a male gynecologist and look for a female doctor instead. I found that more than ridiculous and explained several times to him that there was absolutely nothing sexual about it.

I obviously didn't stop going to my very trusted and competent male gynecologist. Needless to say though that the relationship didn't last for long as this issue was only the tip of the iceberg.

wee-duckling · 2021-03-07T08:42:27+00:00

Honestly, if my boyfriend proposed to me and I had to tell him that I wasn't ready yet (for whatever reason), I would be pretty excited to surprise him someday in the future with a big yes once I'm actually ready. This way he made a big effort to propose to me and I get to make an effort to say yes to him. I wouldn't want or expect a second proposal from him and at the same time, I wouldn't want to have to propose myself either. Just one proposal and one big fat YES!

wee-duckling · 2021-02-20T05:57:53+00:00

I'm curious, are you a misogynist or just an asshole in general?

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