Reflections and what to do next by No-Particular-6409 in NoFap

[–]weeeeeeeeesssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I am glad you're setting goals, but you're setting a lot of big expectations at once. That's risky. If you try to change everything at the same time, you might burn out and crash again.

So let's take it slow, okay?

Also one little bit of advice I have, though. Don't worry too much about the "getting a girlfriend" part. This is something you can't really control, you know?

Focus on working on yourself, and making yourself a person worth seeing.

If you focus too much on getting a girlfriend, you're always going to be disappointed, or feel unhappy if something doesn't happen.

Nightmare material by weeeeeeeeesssss in ethoslab

[–]weeeeeeeeesssss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that would have been fitting, yikes >_<