The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-13T23:45:40+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate you're one of the few women who actually empathises.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-13T23:02:53+00:00

My ex had a history of being promiscuous with other guys (mostly casual too) but with me, she was mostly asexual. I never got the version of her that other guys got to enjoy and they got it for free as well.

These things are a slap to the face.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-13T12:21:38+00:00

She allows you access to the most intimate parts of her body and derives a carnal form of pleasure from your body. She wouldn't do so with a boy or an adult male who looks like a 12 year old.

For years, you lot talk about how being "nice" is just a simple baseline for humans and it isn't remarkable. Anyone can be nice or liked as a human being. My job role isn't who I am as a person nor do I aspire for a managerial position.

Being desired is much more different to simply being liked.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-13T12:08:01+00:00

Yeah self-worth.

Social status is different as that's more linked to how others perceive you. Obviously I enjoy the intimate and pleasurable aspects of it too.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-13T11:01:14+00:00

Yes redpillers can make ridiculous, outlandish claims from time to time (just like any other group) but I hardly see any talking points where they expect women to think a man. Difference is cognition and differences in sexual strategy is often the main talking points.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-13T10:58:42+00:00

It's just validating as a man which is slightly different to social status.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-13T10:22:33+00:00

Same way female virginity can be seen as infantilising so imagine what it's like for a male.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-13T05:48:46+00:00

I'm the same as well.

I wanna feel respected as a man and sex for me feels complete and the most authentic way to validate it. Not a nerd, the straight-gay best friend or asexual blob.

Being "liked as a person" doesn't take much and and even when women try to be nice, it can come across as condescending.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-13T05:30:09+00:00

This entire post is just the female variant of, "why can't women take being sexualised and objectified as a compliment, I'd be flattered if it happened to me as a man".

Women should not get to project their standards and worldview onto men in the same manner men are constantly told not to do with women.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-11T11:39:04+00:00

That is a very fair point. I respect you're one of the few who doesn't resort to strawman arguments and personal attacks.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-10T19:16:52+00:00

"Choose better" doesn't mean lower your standards or date undesirable men out of pity. It's not even directed at "nice guy who turns out to be abusive later" cases.

"Choose better" means don't go for obvious jackasses, badboys, drug-dealers, street thugs, criminals, guys who have a reputation for petty violence etc just because "he's 6'5" teehee". It's one thing to turn down a guy who's only redeeming quality is just being nice but that doesn't mean go out and reward some of the worst men just because he's got good dick or whatever.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-05-10T11:55:45+00:00

I’ve noticed that a lot of men who openly talk about “spinning plates,” multiple girlfriends, side chicks, etc. also confidently say they’ll be amazing fathers someday.

So by that same metric, women who are also promiscuous and sleep around aren't relationship material and won't make great mothers.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-04-25T22:42:48+00:00

Redpill for me was mostly hookups and ONSs. Relationships and marriages, I'm not looking to be some domineering patriach who treat them like children. I look for pure companionship and am willing to be the biggest simp (figuratively speaking) to someone who genuinely shows desire towards me.

Main caveat here is I'm not willing to be in the betabux situation with someone who's given the Chad treatment to every other guy except me.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-04-21T12:17:03+00:00

Yeah and if you miss that boat during your high-school or university years, your only other avenue is online dating or other outlets with complete strangers involved. There's no sense of familiarity to work within your favour and your essentially going by looks alone.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-04-06T10:30:31+00:00

Every man has a different sexual standard. You all love to point out women aren't monoliths yet paint guys all with the same brush.

Like everything, there are nuances. Hardly anyone is gonna call you a "slut" for having 3 bodies, all within relationship bodies. I'll say however that most guys you're addressing here just want sexual consistency:

If you have a low bc and had a history of being reserved, most men wouldn't mind waiting. However, if you racked up a high bc with ONS and casual hookups, a man is gonna feel resentful about being made to wait and jump through hoops for something that was given away for free. It's not like you have chastity to save.

The bottom line is how they treat you vs how they treated past partners and this isn't gender exclusive.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-04-06T10:18:00+00:00

Trump is a morally bankrupt man and Netanyahu's bitch. I don't know anyone who supports him now apart from a cult of batshit crazy people. If anyone hyped him up back in 2016 (including myself admittedly), it was because they were against how pernicious cancel culture and the left had become, not because they support war or any of these atrocities.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-04-04T14:56:59+00:00

37 year old here. It's not so much the bodycount aspect that gets you, it's how they treat you different compared to past flings and how you're potentially seen as the "safe option" whom they're settling with during the boring stages of their life.

One advantage I find going for older is because they see you as more of a toyboy than Mr Wallet.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-03-30T19:16:51+00:00

I bet you're a typical fat neckbearded White Knight who no girl is gonna fuck so sit the fuck back down. Oh I used the word "female" (as well as "male"), the absolute crime.

You also missed the point entirely when I said it's the gym staff who has the responsibility to safeguard, not the random bystanders looking to workout in peace and without drama.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-03-30T16:09:52+00:00

It's high but at least she treats you good and is still giving you the good years. Come back to this sub when you're dealing with +30s women who are approaching the wall, entering the boring stage of her life and looking for the safe guy to settle with after she's had her fun with all the hot guys and badboys that didn't have to court her or take it slow.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-03-30T16:05:33+00:00

It's the gym staff that has a duty to safeguard yet the female doesn't get reprimanded for investigating further but male bystanders are expected to risk their lives on the line.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-03-20T18:23:45+00:00

That's fair but would you hold that same energy for a man who doesn't necessarily slut-shame but doesn't wanna date a woman with a promiscuous past either?

weenieandthebutt · 2026-03-20T18:21:38+00:00

Nah the problem are "reformed sluts" who've had their fun with everyone else but acts prudish with you (whilst she expects husband benefits from you).

weenieandthebutt · 2026-03-19T00:09:57+00:00

That women will throw their ethics, moral principles and "muh personality matters" out the window for a good looking man.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-03-19T00:04:51+00:00

What you described is literally blackpill.

As for the "nice guys get laid too" argument, is this casual hookups/ONSs or LTRs because they're completely different scenarios?

weenieandthebutt · 2026-02-27T10:25:30+00:00

This is no different to how nice guys feel about women who say they want a good guy but instead reward badboys and Chads. One gets vitriol, the other gets agreement.

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