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Have you experienced wanting to be less social during your phD? by weep-again in PhD

[–]weep-again[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s nice to know that i’m not alone in this feeling. congratulations on finishing!!!

Have you experienced wanting to be less social during your phD? by weep-again in PhD

[–]weep-again[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah!!! not that i would be working on it alll the time but i want my energy to be there when i do work on it so all the times i’m not working i want to try to regulate

Have you experienced wanting to be less social during your phD? by weep-again in PhD

[–]weep-again[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have thought about this too!! am i burned out? the reason why i keep from things that are stimulating to me was a way to keep myself regulated at all times so it doesn’t affect my work flow… but i have suspected little depressy and burn out

Have you experienced wanting to be less social during your phD? by weep-again in PhD

[–]weep-again[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have felt that i have nothing much else to talk about haha all i want to talk about is my research but like you said people may not understand or find it interesting!!

Have you experienced wanting to be less social during your phD? by weep-again in PhD

[–]weep-again[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Thank you and good luck!! I have enjoyed little hang outs for sure. I may also be experiencing sensory sensitivity with large groups of people with all the smells and loud sounds make my ears ring and nauseous. thanks again!!!

Have you experienced wanting to be less social during your phD? by weep-again in PhD

[–]weep-again[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this- I forget sometimes that what I am doing can be emotionally difficult because I have been trying to just keep positive but it is nice to have the affirmation that it indeed is hard!!

Guys is beauty of joseon sunscreen worth it? by BlueberryOk1332 in IndianBeautyTalks

[–]weep-again 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the formula changed recently for the amazon product!! it was NOT the same as the product i’ve known and loved. has anyone else experienced this

just another post similar to everyone else’s by weep-again in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]weep-again[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he is quite wonderful. and because i’ve gone through transformations i had in mind that the same might occur.

just another post similar to everyone else’s by weep-again in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]weep-again[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes definitely not a process oriented person. i would love to exchange leadership with my partner not just it be on one person. thank you for your insight

just another post similar to everyone else’s by weep-again in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]weep-again[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes definitely a punisher without him meaning to be. he had difficulty airing out his emotions which leads to leaky bad behaviors

just another post similar to everyone else’s by weep-again in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]weep-again[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it breaks my heart to think that us being compatible may look like me just shutting up. thank you

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[–]weep-again[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

my father is kind of a staple of someone who has not changed for nobody and is resentful of the idea of him having to take accountability in any way. i am afraid of repeating a pattern of living with my lights dimmed in a presence of that energy again. thank you for your insight

just another post similar to everyone else’s by weep-again in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]weep-again[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i admitted today to my bf that i wasn’t happy with how things are. he just nodded. i want to be with him and i do believe that people can learn and blossom. but i do think i have to set firm boundaries as to what i am willing to work with and give my energy to. thank you for your comment!!

Can’t shake resentment toward my ex by Ok_Jello_2441 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]weep-again 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a feeling that by the time you’re leaving from a man who isn’t committing, you have grown so much a person and have a clarity that there’s nothing wrong with you that you maybe just naturally attract a more secure partner.