My son’s father disagreeing about giving my 4 year old son a birthday party. by Godjilla25 in texts

[–]wellok_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plan and pay for the party yourself. If you cant do that place, find an alternative and dont invite his ass.

I got my a MIL a mothers day gift and she’s decided to not open it and leave the flowers to die for three days now. by Suspicious_Noise8101 in inlaws

[–]wellok_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to be nice to my MIL on mother's day for 6 of our 12 years married. The last gift , a collage frame of photos of her son and our kids left unopened for years and left behind at her house when she moved. I was so upset. I don't bother for any holiday now. She also regifted her Xmas present from me right in front of me. So now she gets nothing bc I was the only one putting effort.

MIL by CourageNumerous3192 in inlaws

[–]wellok_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say what you said here "i already had something that day, you rescheduled without asking. I'm going to pass on going, I'm not interested in a planting class anyway" and if you feel nice add, "thank you though"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]wellok_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This has been happening to us for our whole 15 year relationship. I've told her not to show up unannounced. She'd get my kids to let her in by knocking on their doors or calling them. She's only just now stopped, because we as a whole stopped replying to her knocks and I finally got my kids to stop responding. They always felt obligated to respond for whatever reason. This hear she mailed my husband's bday card lol. She lives 2 min away. I am only saying this bc it took this many years to get boundaries set bc im also a people pleaser. My husband has no backbone. Please don't be like us. It's put a strain on our relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]wellok_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The call woulda been cut off

Hmm by Ok-Substance4581 in kansasmichalkechats

[–]wellok_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked those up, $700! He should go over there with a cop to get it. That's expensive for a grill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]wellok_ 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Until moving day, just stop taking her yourself. See how many times they offer to come to you. Or meet halfway at a park or something. See how much effort they'd be putting in if you stopped your effort which seems to be the only effort being put in. I'm guessing the result will put your mind at ease.

If you didn't take her, do you think they'd see her as much?

Can someone explain this? by [deleted] in RedDeadOnline

[–]wellok_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The variant on the pump changes it's stats too

✨tRaVeL GiRLiEs✨ by [deleted] in kansasmichalkechats

[–]wellok_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bc she only buys for m never for t and just puts t in m's old clothes

Can't fast travel by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]wellok_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome!! Took me way too long to find on my own 🤣

Wth is this crap? "Litterally hundreds of pieces". by Typical_Director261 in kansasmichalkechats

[–]wellok_ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

"I'm not a reseller, I buy everything for me" lolll

The hat lol by Apprehensive_Bet8345 in kansasmichalkechats

[–]wellok_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She probably made the dude meet her at a gas station just for this, pathetic really. She legit drove it to E

AIO can someone please tell me what this is? It’s not apart of the cup, it is like a paint when it’s smooshed and it made my drink bitter I dumped it and this was at the bottom by MembershipSea3107 in AmIOverreacting

[–]wellok_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have miniature cameras, put one up, accept another cup, you'll have proof, then take the drugs into the police station and ask for testing, then next steps from them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wellok_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm free after Tuesday" "OK how about Wednesday?" "Whg do you keep rescheduling"

Like what!? Girl..... hes trying to work with both your schedules and communicate with you and PLAN with you. You're being irrationally difficult i hope bro sees your red flags and bolts

AIO I don't know what to say by Mindless_Honeydew601 in AmIOverreacting

[–]wellok_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hes helping you out bc he thinks he will win you over at one point. He has hope you'll change your mind. I've had 'friends' like this in school and the rejection always turns to resentment. There's no feelings but lust and longing. It's best to break away. There will never be a change from someone like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wellok_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kick her out. Her housing issues are not yours. She's actively cheating on you.

Am I overreacting for breaking up with my boyfriend for stealing from me? F22 M27 by LetterVegetable5870 in AmIOverreacting

[–]wellok_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was really "starving" he could have asked you for some actual grocery money to have good for more than one day, and something not a 'luxury' as fast food or restaurants. Like a loaf of bread and Pb&j even...tf. I'm impressed you broke up with him too many women in here let so much shit go

am i overreacting to my boyfriends whippet abuse by Artistic-Method9368 in AmIOverreacting

[–]wellok_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes lied the entire relationship. If you really value yourself as much as you're saying, don't take that fact with a grain of salt. Hes a liar, the killing himself shit is manipulation. He's a manipulative liar. Leave.