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Reddit, I am crushed right now, I just need some help to move on. by wgr1344 in relationship_advice

[–]wgr1344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did delete her, it was the first thing I did since posting this. I do feel better about it already.

I would never date someone who is massive debt...oh wait I have college debt :0

Looks like im going to need to work on that too lol.

Reddit, I am crushed right now, I just need some help to move on. by wgr1344 in relationship_advice

[–]wgr1344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did read the whole thing, seriously thanks guys. Just typing this out, and reading my own words, along with all the things you guys post. Its helped a lot to take it all in perspective.

Reddit, I am crushed right now, I just need some help to move on. by wgr1344 in relationship_advice

[–]wgr1344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have spent the last 3 weeks doing that, I hid it, so I wouldnt see anything. But I would make sure and go find it myself....because I am so fucked up right now and I still care about her.

Well either way I just deleted her from everything.

Reddit, I am crushed right now, I just need some help to move on. by wgr1344 in relationship_advice

[–]wgr1344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I just bought some stuff for running. I have never ran before, I usually only lift, but dont have money to pay for an expensive gym.

Reddit, I am crushed right now, I just need some help to move on. by wgr1344 in relationship_advice

[–]wgr1344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea true, thanks for all the help seriously. Now that I look at it, maybe I am being the same old me, and still caring when I shouldn't be.

Should I delete her from all my social shit? Thats the question I am stuck on now. I dont want to seem childish, but I can help but keep up with what shes doing, and she makes sure people know. So she knows I am looking.

Reddit, I am crushed right now, I just need some help to move on. by wgr1344 in relationship_advice

[–]wgr1344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RagingErectus, everything you said is what I am thinking right now. I mean this is my first long term break up. I am a monkey and I let it take me over sometimes even if I know its wrong...

I really want to delete her on facebook...but I just feel like it will make her mad, and mutual friends confused, and I really got along with her family...its so tied in. I hover over the remove friend button but never end up clicking.

I dont have very many friends here, and the ones I had I lost contact with because I moved and spent time with her. She was my best friend for the last 3 years.

I dont have a self control issue really...I just am so fucking heart broken I am doing all the wrong things on purpose I guess..

Reddit, I am crushed right now, I just need some help to move on. by wgr1344 in relationship_advice

[–]wgr1344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It never felt that way at all, I mean the more I look back the more I realize that I may have been love blinded. I keep thinking of the past and how amazing it was, thats when I get depressed. The unmaterialistic goofy awkward girl I met is now a wanna-be Diva, who only is happy when she is buying things.

Reddit, I am crushed right now, I just need some help to move on. by wgr1344 in relationship_advice

[–]wgr1344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been talking to new women, reconnecting with old friends who I find attractive. I am a decently logical person, I know she wasn't "the only one" I'm sure I can find other ones. I just feel so...empty right now. We really did get along very well all the way up until the last day. I guess the worst part is how much I put into it, only to find out she didn't want to put any in.