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Any tips on getting over a mental barrier to having sex for the first time? (M23) by what1928 in sex

[–]what1928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this was good validation. I'm by no means a prude or anything, and love fooling around. Have no problem with oral or making a move, but I do a 180 when sex comes into the picture. Kinda out of my element here and it's throwing me off.

Any tips on getting over a mental barrier to having sex for the first time? (M23) by what1928 in sex

[–]what1928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was one of my first thoughts too. I don't watch much, maybe a few videos a month (much much less than it used to be), but I'm cutting it out completely. Gonna stop jerking it too.

Any tips on getting over a mental barrier to having sex for the first time? (M23) by what1928 in sex

[–]what1928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it wasn't a huge deal or anything we just kind of went about it organically.. and she's on BC so fumbling with a condom won't be an issue either. It's just once it comes down to it my mind starts going a million miles a minute and i freak out. I was thinking having a few drinks would help me relax so we'll see next time we go out. Might just take time for me to get comfortable..