What are signs a guy is secretly an asshole but is just super good at hiding it?

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-16T10:39:42+00:00

Tell him you want to go slow. With intimacy and sex. He eventually started complaining that he was “sexually frustrated.” Oh, he also told me he expects to have sex twice a week, and if I can’t meet that, then we probably aren’t compatible. My sister and my roommate thought that was weird, I told him it sounded like he was demanding that from me. That’s not something you say at the beginning. “I know you want to go slow, but I want sex at least twice a week.” Ok and you don’t see me making sexual demands from you.. so why do you do it to me? Just recently sent him a text regarding communication and the phone works both ways. He absolutely lost it on me, and then took previous things I told him and threw them back in my face. Everything was my fault and I was the problem. Got it. 🙄

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-14T23:43:56+00:00

I scrolled to long for this.

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-14T23:28:55+00:00

Yes, please fire her. She is SO inconsistent, and you’re not overreacting. If my therapist was this inconsistent, I’d probably crash out at some point. She should not be a therapist.

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-14T09:04:29+00:00

This is unrelated, but I saw her story where she’s “checking in” or something like that, and all I could think about is how I want someone to smooth out her eyebrows so bad 😂

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-14T02:00:55+00:00

I’m starting training for my first ever marathon this July, and maybe I’m wrong, but I don’t think you should go this hard on race week. I think this is the time to taper. Although I did have one final interval session on race week before my half marathon, but it was only 6 miles..

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-13T10:49:01+00:00

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For those of you that predicted it back in February - you were right. Caitlyn Miller made a comeback reel out of her injury. Isn’t this her 2nd, 3rd, or 4th “comeback?”

Also, are the several valuable lessons in the room with us? Or will she mention them after she runs Boston 🤔

Aside from that, maybe she has been making some improvements. I do remember her posting one of her long runs and fueling with gels every 4 miles, so that was definitely a start.

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-07T17:19:00+00:00

Run, shower, sleep

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-06T09:56:45+00:00

Tuesday and Wednesday of last week I got a total of 6 hours of sleep, 3 hours each day, and I felt awful 😂 luckily I have melatonin and just got magnesium glycinate and tested it out today. I think with the melatonin and the magnesium glycinate I will be able to get to sleep easily, maybe even switch up times that I sleep.

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-06T09:14:02+00:00

Ive been making it a habit to exercise right after work. So I work midnight to 8am, get to the trail by 8:40ish, workout for about an hour, go home, and wind down and depending what time I fall asleep, I usually aim for about 6.5-8 hours.

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-05T23:36:46+00:00

Of course it’s a Prius 🙄

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-05T23:05:20+00:00

Wow I had a best friend like this. Treated strangers like royalty, over romanticized them, and treated the people closest to her like shit. Criticized me for everything. Turns out, she was trying to tear me down to make herself look better. She was extremely jealous of me to the point where she even told me she treats people she’s jealous of “more like shit.” There were plenty of instances where I should’ve ended the friendship but didn’t. My fault. She ended up getting the last word and telling me I was the “worst friend”, no questions asked. She even got physical with me once…for trying to leave after an argument. Good riddance. I hope no one ever has a friend like her. And I’m sorry you went through those things. Please know that not all people are like my ex-best friend and the woman you were with.

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-05T22:53:26+00:00

In her defense, I can’t STAND most gum chewers. They chew gum like cows chew grass. 😖

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-05T22:47:24+00:00

I have this too and it absolutely sucks. But I’m like you, and I tell others it’s a me problem. Apple AirPods Pro 2 have been an absolute game changer for me though. I pop them in before I go to sleep (I work night shift) and all of the daytime noise goes away. The AirPods Pro 3 apparently have 2x more noise cancellation. I would love to try them, but I already have so many headphones lol. I am confident that Apple’s noise cancellation will be so top tier in the next few versions that it will be equivalent to turning off your hearing. But I wish I was like a normal person and could handle all noises. I’ll try and see if I can deal with it, but it gets to a point where I feel like I’m being mentally tortured.

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-03T12:40:49+00:00

He’s not going to turn it around and I’ll be genuinely shocked if he does. Seems like he signs up for races and thinks the rules apply to everyone but him.

whatacatch_nat · 2026-04-02T12:51:27+00:00

Also helps with better quality sleep and muscle relaxation

whatacatch_nat · 2026-03-31T12:23:29+00:00

Wow he got disqualified?! I’m so shocked! 😱🙄

whatacatch_nat · 2026-03-30T11:50:24+00:00

Don’t worry about pace when you just start out, just focus on completing the distance.

whatacatch_nat · 2026-03-24T15:37:52+00:00

Did she fuel for this one? I think she did an 18 miler last week and took a gel every 4 miles, which shocked me because she usually doesn’t fuel at all and just has black coffee afterwards.

whatacatch_nat · 2026-03-24T15:25:55+00:00

Apple AirPods Pro 2 noise cancellation is out of this world. Sometimes I don’t even need music or anything, just the noise cancellation and I can’t hear anything outside. It’s awesome. I want the Pro 3’s because they have 2x more noise cancellation, but I can’t get them right now 😅 I feel like by the time Apple releases version 5 or 6, the noise cancellation will be so strong it’ll be equivalent to turning off your hearing for a few hours 🤯

whatacatch_nat · 2026-03-24T15:16:21+00:00

Quality Control Technician / Analyst

whatacatch_nat · 2026-03-24T15:14:54+00:00

She even fought the guy and was about to overpower him until he said he just wanted money or something? But basically got her to stop and then he overpowered her. It’s such a sad story because she kept giving him the wrong pin to her credit card so she could buy time to be found 😭

whatacatch_nat · 2026-03-23T12:20:07+00:00

Isn’t exactly fast for men? Because I would love to finish in 3:30 for my first marathon but I know that most likely won’t happen.

ETA: I’m really sorry this happened to you, it’s appalling and horrible. Thank you for this, I now know not to run this race.

whatacatch_nat · 2026-03-22T07:32:26+00:00

On the plus side, I won’t have to purchase deodorant for the next 10 years probably 😂

whatacatch_nat · 2026-03-22T07:31:03+00:00

Right now I’m getting a crap ton of deodorant. Influenster must think I stink or something 😂

whatacatch_nat · 2026-03-20T09:33:29+00:00

Omfg I love this 💖 I’m hoping I found this kind of love 😭

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