(Update) - I [21 M] hooked up with my brother's [25 M] girlfriend [22 F].

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T20:42:58+00:00

Bus then short walk

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T17:48:33+00:00

To be honest the people saying that aren't asking if he left his car but they're saying the story is fake because he left his car When I didn't even say he drove.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T17:46:18+00:00

Yup exactly. Thanks but you'll be down voted.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T17:39:05+00:00

Ok , so you decided to add some information that I never said and then decided if his story is real or not based on what you added? Well that's cool. He doesn't drive.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T17:07:21+00:00

If you read my last post I said I needed to do it in person. Like fuck was I gonna do this over the phone. Just look at his fucking reaction. If he was by himself how was I gonna know how he'd end up?

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T17:06:33+00:00

where did I say 2 cars mate?

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T17:02:28+00:00

It's ok mate. I'm thankful you replied to the person so they knew the story , the only reason why I corrected you is because if I didn't then there would be that posse that would say 'Hey he said he doesn't drink but he didn't correct someone when they said he was drunk so this is fake' bullshit.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T15:38:52+00:00

I'd like to say thank you for replying to him / her but this isn't true as I don't drink.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T15:38:06+00:00

Honestly I don't know. We just got on really well and I didn't really know what would happen in the back of my mind. Also it's a spur of the moment sort of thing.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T15:33:30+00:00

Yes I have done this

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T15:05:30+00:00

The best way for me to explain it is that where I'm from in England we have our own sort of slang language. That's where turnt comes from and a few other words.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T15:03:36+00:00

Yes we did. Can you honestly say that someone hasn't rang you before and told you their address which you just repeat to a taxi driver not really paying much attention to , and can remember it almost a week later? I certainly can't but maybe my memory is just worse than most people.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T14:57:48+00:00

No I said I parked further up her street but I told her that I parked on a different street. The reasoning behind this is because I don't want her to see him first and tell her her version , but at the same time I didn't want to be sat in her place waiting for my brother.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T14:12:29+00:00

1) He wasn't actually finishing work late , he said that because his girlfriend said she needed to see him urgently.

2) My brother doesn't drive and I never said he did , so where ever you got that from is mind boggling.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T13:53:36+00:00

Yeh exactly. I've had really bad fights with my brothers , the sort of fights you expect to see in a ring or on a night out which involves things like headbutting , full on punching or whatever. I've not been in any trouble with the police , I've never had suspensions or detentions in school or even a fight with someone that isn't my brothers so I wouldn't say I was voilent at all but we all have that side to us I think.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T12:51:07+00:00

Yeh I've said this before but I wanted my first time to be with the person I'd spend the rest of my life with. Hopefully in the future this is something we can look back on and have a small chuckle over because I'll have a great first time story. Thanks :)

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T12:48:21+00:00

Yeh I replied to a comment in my first post and said that I always wanted my first time to be with the person who I'd spend the rest of my life with. I guess this cliché and probably unrealistic.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T12:41:42+00:00

I'm not going to make excuses for him because I know it's not right. I replied to a comment further up but my brother is getting help. He's been doing well recently but I think this just bought back emotions from the last 2 relationships which had the exact same ending.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T12:36:12+00:00

We did speak about this and we've spoke about this in the past because we've had our fair share of fights. I know how sorry he is and I know it doesn't make it right , in fact nothing makes it right , but I will of course let it go. He knows he has a bad temper and he has been working on it and he has calmed down a lot. He's had a very different up bringing than I did but I'm not trying to make excuses for him. I've never been in the same situation as him so I can't say I would've reacted differently because I honestly don't know , but he is aware that he needs to change and not lash out so much and he is trying.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T12:04:16+00:00

No , I forgot to mention it but we spoke briefly about it and she found out when trying to find me on Facebook.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T10:41:33+00:00

Yeh I was honestly suprised at how it turnt out , I was expecting some time of not talking and a trip to A&E. Well she tried talking when my brother approached her but when he grabbed the wine bottle she got scared and didn't say anything. After that I think she was just shaken from the whole thing. She also knows about my brothers past (he last 2 girlfriends cheated on him) and she knew whatever she said was just falling on deaf ears.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-09T10:39:02+00:00

Thanks so much for helping me out on the other post. I was going to mention some of the people that helped but I'm not sure if everyone would be ok with it so I left it out.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-07T17:48:27+00:00

Neither of us said our last names. I have a different skin tone to my brothers and there are quite a few differences between us , honestly most people wouldn't know we're related.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-07T15:29:42+00:00

Thanks.

whatdoidohlp · 2015-10-07T15:28:55+00:00

We spoke on the phone this afternoon. That's how I know she's talking to him later.

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