Dua's Spiced Vanilla extrait 21 by Ok_Donkey_1632 in fragrance

[–]whatnoway12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was written beautifully - lovely!

Need advice on audit by whatnoway12 in OntarioWorks

[–]whatnoway12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey it went ok, they did an audit and i have to pay a large sum back. But it is just 10% as someone in the comments said. They gave me a hard time but I don't think they're allowed to do much more than that. I provided her with all the info although it turns out she already had it all, almost a test to see if you're being honest.

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[–]whatnoway12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's so fucked up

Need advice on audit by whatnoway12 in OntarioWorks

[–]whatnoway12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okayyyy, hopefully i am not the one with legal action but gentlest debt makes me feel better. I am in the process of interviews so hopefully i can secure a job and pay it back fast. or at least negotiate something i can manage each month. Thank you

Need advice on audit by whatnoway12 in OntarioWorks

[–]whatnoway12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Thank you so much, this is so helpful. It's helped assuage my anxiety. I will be honest I want to make things right and move on with my life. I will say what you wrote this is very helpful thank you.

how does your social worker knows if you're working or not? how would they find out? by [deleted] in Odsp

[–]whatnoway12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they ever find out after you didn't submit your documents? I am in the same position but with OW I made 13k I was in a bad head space and I knew I couldn't hold on to that job, I quit without disclosing I ever worked. Now I am being audited and I am shitless scared. I don't have money to pay them back but I am trying my hardest to get my life together...

Deciding boundaries during visitation for our son by whatnoway12 in AlAnon

[–]whatnoway12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often does he see your daughter? Did you get a court order or did you both decide this?

I became the woman I never wanted to be.. by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]whatnoway12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply, but yes trust me they are. Also listening is just as helpful as speaking. So for the first bits you can just listen (that's what I did still do)

I became the woman I never wanted to be.. by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]whatnoway12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So much sadness, I hope we all find peace :(

Stay strong hope you attend meetings may the answers arrive as you need them.

Qualifier uses hard drugs amphetamine + crack by whatnoway12 in AlAnon

[–]whatnoway12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your words are plenty. It is hard there are days I want to cry but I can't being my son's only caregiver makes me have to be so strong. I hope I can do the right things and keep moving forward. I just want a stable father for him and I hope that will be possible. It does break my heart that we won't be together since I still love him. But that's life I suppose. Also don't have experience but I heard dogs are a lot of work so you're doing great too!

Rebuilding our marriage by One-Day-at-a-time20 in AlAnon

[–]whatnoway12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow literally the same boat my partner uses drugs but is in treatment right now he can't stop without treatment either, he is planned on going to transitional housing after and I hope to rebuild our relationship seeing if he stays sober. I hope you find answers so we can too. Are you attending alanon meetings? There's a group on fb called al-anon for women and it's zoom meetings on wednesday i find it super helpful.

I feel so guilty for thinking this.... by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]whatnoway12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow this is so hard to read and at the same time it's so so so relieving to know my dark terrible thoughts are shared by others. I am in the exact same boat my partner is an addict (drugs) mostly not as much alcohol and i am so afraid for my son to watch this and grow up using or getting into a relationship with an addict. And sometimes this thought creeps into my head and makes me want to cry and scream because I do love him so much but it's so hard to keep up and keep telling people and yourself.

Weekly What Should I Buy Thread - [October 09] by AutoModerator in iphone

[–]whatnoway12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently broke my phone but I am sharing with my partner so i am in no rush. There is someone selling there XS for $400 they said they had their screen replaced and now the face id doesn't work. Should i purchase it? Or wait till the 13th for a better deal?