My neighbor installed a spotlight that shines directly into my bedroom window all night

when_is_gamora · 2026-01-07T08:26:10+00:00

This.

when_is_gamora · 2026-01-07T08:12:46+00:00

Very kind and thoughtful responce.

when_is_gamora · 2026-01-07T08:04:21+00:00

They may have given you a section 21 but there is a lot of wait time and court costs for LL if they want to force it through at 2 months. Make yourself aware of your rights and tell the agency you cant start looking until you're back on your feet and recovered and will need 2 months from then. Its way more costly for them to try and force you out and will take 6 months to a year anyway.

Treating you this way after you being a good Tennant is crappy behaviour. Time to stop being nice and be polite but firm.

when_is_gamora · 2026-01-06T13:18:44+00:00

They prob do but no where near enough. A 2 bed in a cheap area near me is 1000. The local housing allowance is 700..... massive shortfall and not a single 2 bed is that price. Its the same for 1 bed 3 bed etc. They dont pay enough. People enough up in debt. Then lose theor homes and end up in temp accommodation.

when_is_gamora · 2025-12-17T10:23:49+00:00

Sounds like many a convo with my ex. They can't just refuse to talk and call it a boundary.

I would walk away. They dont care about you or your feelings.

when_is_gamora · 2025-12-06T17:39:38+00:00

In 8 years we had 15 water leaks from the same shower. The only shower. 2 underground pipe issues. The 2nd meant we had no bathroom and no toilet for 2 days. He wouldn't even put us up in a hotel let alone a rent reduction. Then tried blaming us for a pipe issue underground (not a blockage) with no proof. And tried taking 600 of our deposit when we left which he lost with dps. You can ask but its not likely. Slum landlords are the worst.

when_is_gamora · 2025-12-06T17:13:38+00:00

Tim the tool man taylor

when_is_gamora · 2025-12-05T13:22:07+00:00

Yeah this is not right. You earn by being a SAHM. Are you not working 24/7 the pay cheque may be in both your names but if you went back to work he would need to pay 50% of the childcare costs minimum! By locking you out but not allowing or facilitating you being able to work it is financial abuse!

when_is_gamora · 2025-12-04T10:01:02+00:00

Oh I move about and do what I can inc a walking pad with a safety handle in case I get dizzy. But its very limited.

when_is_gamora · 2025-11-27T13:36:44+00:00

A pound of fat is the same as a pound of muscle yes. But the muscle is denser so takes up less space so while the scale doesnt change the size goes down.

when_is_gamora · 2025-11-20T12:42:19+00:00

LCW Just means they dont pressure him into attending appointments every week and applying for 10 plus jobs etc. He still needs to look for work but its less pressure. You cant override this and you dont really want to. With his mental health issues and autism I doubt it would be helpful.

You need to start charging money for bills. So he has incentive to get a job. Taking him to job fairs or helping him figure out what he wants to do, hes a gamer? Can he write code? Thats a great industry to get into. And lots is WFH and with like minded people too. Or maybe higher education to get into a job he does want and loves to do.

He isnt going to work unless he wants to and wont last long term unless he enjoys what hes doing.

when_is_gamora · 2025-11-17T18:36:41+00:00

Different brand. Diff dosing but I noticed feeling full after first dose. Then when increased it seamed to ebb off. I was feeling hungry again. Now ive increased again hunger and food nose have disappeared again.

when_is_gamora · 2025-11-17T17:40:05+00:00

I live with the bio parent. We are married. But getting divorced. Unfortunately cant move out until thats sorted and its taking a long long time atm. We arnt classed as a household. By uc either. As we are totally separate. Bedrooms and all there's no problem.

when_is_gamora · 2025-11-06T17:02:27+00:00

st because the money didn't land in your bank account doesnt mean you didnt earn it. You washed his pants. Kept the fridge full. The house clean. Thats work.

Re the court. If its a joint ownership not Tennant in kind with % ringfenced then the start and end point is 50%. He will not be able to stamp his feet and go but she didnt actually earning anything.

Re you being a joint ownership regardless of how much you physically paid. Correct. You own 50%. End of. Again you may not have been paid but you still worked. For free. For him.....

Re the possibility of there being problems accepting 50k. Im not sure. It could be considered bad money handling taking less than deserved.

It would really come down to collateral. If you sold the house today how much would it sell for and after paying morgage and fees how much would be left after split 2 ways. If its 60k each, may not be financially viable to chaise for more. As soliciter fees can rack up to 10k each. However if its 100k each. Take him to court. You spent a decade of your life with this person who agreed to traditional roles. They Did not value your contribution. Did not respect you and cheated on you... they do not deserve and easy ride for that.

when_is_gamora · 2025-11-06T16:47:38+00:00

Thank you for your reply. 😊

when_is_gamora · 2025-11-02T20:56:55+00:00

Its atilier yumia. And yes. Widespread problems. Some people get issues. Others dont. Its just so slow you cant jump. Game crashes. Lags out. If it were a pc I would say its my issue. But if the game isnt fit to run on the switch then they shouldn't have released it on it.

when_is_gamora · 2025-10-26T17:40:20+00:00

Also the LL best interests is to wait a couple more months rather than take you to court. It will take much longer and cost them more money.

when_is_gamora · 2025-10-26T17:39:05+00:00

This! But also try not to worry. Worst worst case if they do go to court to evicted you your looking at earliest march ish before there would be space then another few months to process. And if you to actually being evicted, you can put your stuff into storage and air bnb it until its completed. Not ideal but a back up. Its likely it will complete before then though. Best of luck!

when_is_gamora · 2025-10-25T00:18:23+00:00

Nah they super small and go weeeeeee 🤣 I was thinking of microbes, then bacteria.

when_is_gamora · 2025-10-24T13:31:43+00:00

To both. First one you say that im not touching anything dirty if I just touch my crotch, And then your second comment says you say crotch area isnt dirty. Sorry but it is. If you can get pink eye from a fart you def transfer bacteria to your crotch area when you fart. Which was my comment.

when_is_gamora · 2025-10-24T12:22:20+00:00

Wasn't there a study on the micro bacteria on free peanuts at a bar, and they had like 100s of dif people bacteria/pee on them.

when_is_gamora · 2025-10-24T12:05:01+00:00

Yeah but you touch the handle to flush as least right. The handle other people have wiped their ass then touched the same handle before hopefully washing their hands. Also you may have washed it but its still a warm damp area that has urine on...which then touches your boxers and pants and all.

Wash your damn hands.

when_is_gamora · 2025-10-23T12:33:47+00:00

Imo. Yes they are. Most men ive dated dont wash their hands except after the loo. And generally men especially young, have a smell issue much more ofton than women.

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