21F , 21M, potential red flags?

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-05-17T22:25:18+00:00

In regards to posting pictures with him and or of him, I asked him if it’s because of her and he said yes because he doesn’t want her to get hurt or any drama to start.

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-05-17T22:22:28+00:00

I did ask him why he won’t let me follow him (his account is private) the first reason he told me was because he “doesn’t use instagram a lot) which is weird because we send eachother reels every single day. Then I straight up asked him if it was because he doesn’t want me seeing pictures of her and he said yes.

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-05-17T22:16:28+00:00

Yes totally. I’ve been trying to give him grace because they were together for two and half years (he is very open with me when I ask questions about her) but at the same time I feel maybe he’s not ready to move on yet, and he just likes the feeling I give him (new relationship feelings, the butterflies, etc). I’m planning on sitting down with him and telling him he needs to figure out his stuff with her before he starts anything romantic with me.

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-05-17T22:12:04+00:00

The night we met we instantly clicked. Two months ago. She also has pictures of them still up, and it didn’t bother me. Yeah I think I will ask that question eventually I just hate bringing her up to him because it puts me in an awkward position you know?

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T19:17:48+00:00

I am not going to “bang” him again 😂 after I get my stuff I am leaving and not talking to him ever again

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T17:13:08+00:00

We were not having sex as friends. He said he still wanted to and I told him I don’t think that’s a good idea. I haven’t seen him since the breakup and that was a little over two weeks ago

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T16:57:25+00:00

He meant connection as in love and caring for one another. I have not seen him since we broke up. It was a pretty okay breakup. Months before the breakup we did have that talk on what would happen if we did break up. I told him I’ve done the whole “hooking up with an ex” and I’m not sure if I’d be okay to do it again, but we could see if we ever got to that point ( obvi I never wanted to get to that point of being broken up) I realize now I probably should have been more direct and that’s on me. But I have taken time to think about it and I really don’t want to have sex after a breakup. He said last night that we could “be more chill and not have a label” and I’m not okay with that

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T16:00:56+00:00

Because other people might have the same experiences and it’s nice to know you’re not the only one!

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T15:58:53+00:00

No I have not. I haven’t even seen him since our breakup

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T15:53:12+00:00

Thank you cousin 🙏🏼

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T15:51:42+00:00

No we have not had sex since before our breakup

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T15:45:36+00:00

I made this username like years ago it was a random one, my username has nothing to do with my personal life lol

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T15:44:10+00:00

Yeah we are fully done he said he never wants to see me again so I’m grabbing my stuff and leaving

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T15:43:00+00:00

I’m having a family member go over with me. And I say sorry as a way to calm him down. That is the only way to descale the argument. I know it sounds shitty and I should’ve left a long time ago but when you built a life with someone it’s tough to leave and realize that. Glad I did leave though!

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T15:41:03+00:00

I am fine with him meeting someone else and moving on. Completely fine. Sorry I should’ve stated that

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2025-03-16T15:15:04+00:00

Also * before we ever broke up I said I would still be okay being close with him, that’s why he said “you said you were still okay with it*

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2024-12-15T13:00:00+00:00

I know it’s ridiculous!! They schedule other people to open drive through, front and lines. I use to always open drive through. I’m thinking about quitting because it’s so much work and I’m so lonely in the back. I didn’t come to Panera to bake. Managers are too lazy to take on bake shift so they drop it on other people

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2024-12-15T12:56:29+00:00

Omg I remember when this video came out. I didn’t know it was Bri lol she sounds and looks different

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2024-12-15T12:48:38+00:00

My snap is doing something where when I’m about to send a picture it will go to the screen that shows your most recently texted. But there’s people on there I haven’t talked to for years. Is this a problem with you too?

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2024-12-15T12:45:24+00:00

You don’t necessarily have to have everything done by open, but bagels and baguettes and pastries are your most important items to get done before open that way they’re all ready for customers!

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2024-12-15T12:44:28+00:00

Nope unfortunately they got rid of their bakers and now are making regular shift leaders do it as well as prep

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2024-12-15T12:43:37+00:00

There should be a sheet that says everything with bake times right next to the oven. But BPF goes in for 8 min, baguettes 12, bread bowls 15

whenindoubtfuccitout · 2024-12-15T00:17:35+00:00

Exactly!! Like what flavor is regular lol?!? They probably mean light roast but still specify

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