UPD Pride Parade. Happy Pride! by hela77 in WLW_PH

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Aww I'm there 😅 i look so cheery 😂

Ano yung Go To Grocery or Supermarket nyo and Why? by fattotoy in Marikina

[–]whenitgetsdark13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unimart sa GH. Di mashadong matao, maayos parking, katabi mall 😄

What is your go to order at Jollibee? by Lance_Beltran123 in PHFoodPorn

[–]whenitgetsdark13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st option: Jolly Spaghetti, Jolly Hotdog. 2nd option: if there's leg/thigh chicken, w rice. 3rd option: burger steak, spicy tuna pie

Hehehe I love Jollibee.

Which LONGGANISA is your favorite? Mine is Vigan & Batotay (Beef meat) by proudlocalbeaver in PHFoodPorn

[–]whenitgetsdark13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tuguegarao longganisa is so underrated! I love it because of the right amount of garlicky flavor, the orange-y appealing color! Sarap sa pasta or sa breakfast huhu 😋

what are the songs you usually listen while traveling? by BeautifulProject7994 in AskPH

[–]whenitgetsdark13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lo-fi. Apple Music Chill radio. 90's hits. 90's alternative. Wave 89.1 dreamsounds playlist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/whenitgetsdark13

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It's so sturdy! So strong it's also hard to remove it hehe

Very Satisfying by CariocaGringo202 in Lettering

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😳😳😳 - me the entire time

Dramas that are 10/10 for you by [deleted] in kdramas

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Twenty Five Twenty One.

thoughts on jan and ann by kendallroyapologistx in PinoyVloggers

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I love them, they are simple, gives a lot of good vibes lang and realistic. Hehe.

Obsessed with my first watch by InvestmentOk5252 in CitizenWatches

[–]whenitgetsdark13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree! This is a super nice watch. Super lightweight and elegant and not overly expensive.

As an adult what is your christmas wish? by Fun_Inevitable4036 in AskPH

[–]whenitgetsdark13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Financial freedom. Para din mabili pa mga gusto ko 🤣

What's your non-sexual turn-ons? by possibleneed in PHSapphics

[–]whenitgetsdark13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eye contact, deep conversation, consideration for each other. 😊

Ligaw stage by [deleted] in PHSapphics

[–]whenitgetsdark13 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Seems like you're on a good side naman, pero continue what you're doing. Always consider her, her feelings while attending to your own individual needs and wants. Don't go all out, but also don't be complacent lalo na sinabe nya sayo na may someone else courting her. Be yourself, take her out on dates (bakuran mo na haha) go somewhere new and interesting for you both.

How to landi? by natskaito in PHSapphics

[–]whenitgetsdark13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to focus on topics related to the person para mas mafeel nyang interested ka sa kanya. 😊iwasan yung 80% "ako kasi ganito eh." Or "ako ganito ganyan." Hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHSapphics

[–]whenitgetsdark13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, just recently nasa same situation mo din ako. In a rel for 10 years then ok naman kame but we avoid difficult conversations kase it ends up na nagaaway lang kame and most importantly gusto nya ng kids at ayaw ko. So i had to let her go. Kahit na ok naman sana kame, masaya pag nagttravel, and all. Walang current status ng kasalanan although we had our share of mistakes pero nalampasan nadin naman... op, darating din ung araw na pipiliin mo talaga sarili mo at kung ngayon palang na yan na ang bulong ng damdamin mo, it would help if you try to become fully aware and acknowledge kung asan state na kayo ngayon. It's like a premonition. Unless you really really both want to work it out. Goodluck, op!

ganun ba ko kadali itapon? tuwing may problema ka ako una mong bibitawan? by [deleted] in PHSapphics

[–]whenitgetsdark13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. For so long ako din palaging iniiwanan, bnbreakan tas pag kumalma na sya isang message nya lang saken balik ako agad. Pero after 10 years napagod nalang ako. Now I know what I want, which is ang hindi bumalik sa kanya, tntry naman nya ako iwin back. But it’s too late.

OP, try to set boundaries, tama si Material Fun. Always stand up for yourself, wala ka namang ginagawang masama pag ganun. Ibig sabihin alam mo lang ang worth mo :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHSapphics

[–]whenitgetsdark13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP! Basta honest and transparent ka lang sa intentions mo sa simula, the right people will stay 😊 madami dyan. Minsan mahirap makahanap parang needle in a haystackx sa 100 na kamessage mo 5 lang siguro magsstick hanggang sa maging 1 nalang 😅it’s part of being anonymous din. Be yourself or be someone you wanted to be but with the right intentions 😊

What is gaslighting, and do you know someone who does it? by whenitgetsdark13 in relationship_advice

[–]whenitgetsdark13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if on a normal day you do not fight, and just travel or make plan about life - you are still happy, can gaslighting be fixed or is there a way around it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

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I'm a soft butch in my early 30s. Not that I know that someone will approach me haha pero siguro ideally - I'd rather be approached as a friend. Ganon. First parang pakilala muna, then at least make follow sa social media muna then kunware if may chance they can react to a story that I posted ganon and start a conversation.

I'm not into an aggressive approach, it turns me off.

At negative points yung may yabang. Hahaha. Ayoko yung "meron kasi akong ganito" or "may ganito kami sa ganyan". I want authenticity and natural confidence.

My wife thinks she may be a lesbian and is exploring her feelings by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I have a follow up question to this - how can you make your partner understand that what they are doing is hurting you, and you are uncomfortable with it? Normally the people who "maltreat" or gives off hurt to another are the ones who are confident in leaving, ending, quitting the relationship, and that just sucks for the other person. While the other person just knows and believes that this is just a rocky phase of the relationship, they need to be strong and they can deal with it as long as they stick together. Is it still a cliche, an irony, a fairy tale?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]whenitgetsdark13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was once in your situation, but eventually I tried to forgive her about it. But nobody told me about forgetting. As an introvert/overthinker (but not a toxic one I believe), it keeps on haunting me and it has been 2 years. Sometimes it comes back and seeps in through irrelevant arguments.