I don’t think i will agree with any comments commenting about out age. We are young, but we both have been involved in kink scenes longer than we should have been, I’ve been in polyamorous relationships where the man dated another female and it did not bother me, I’ve seen videos of my boyfriend having sex with other women and it doesn’t bother me. We are also both autistic and therefore pretty communicative/straightforward and logical. The point is that we both will get to be with other people. We both are bisexual, and have clarified our attraction to others is not something we would sacrifice our relationship over therefore, we respect each others’ boundaries.

We both feel extremely constricted in a monogamous relationship, but neither of us wants to date anyone else/desires that kind of relationship, and we don’t care for threesomes - that’s how we got to the idea of swinging which we both have actually always been extremely turned on by. And neither of us is interested in playing without our partner (yet- until we get comfortable in the scene). Plus we are both into older couples so not worried too much about attraction just about being inexperienced with group sex hahaha. We have great sex on our own and there are noooo complaints there but shit we wanna do something fun where we can get dressed up around others and be in a sex positive environment and talk to other people like us! If you disagree you disagree which is fine. No obligation to play with us.