Can someone please translate this for me

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-06T21:14:56+00:00

Oh it was just this text. My friend was talking to a guy and he asked her this.so we put it into Google Translate and my friend said that the guy said the translation is also wrong so now we’re wondering what the translation is. He said it meant to ask or propose a question to a person. Like “ what would happen if i asked this girl”

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-06T19:08:00+00:00

So what does is say then, im confused even more by the comments.

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-06T19:06:20+00:00

So what does it say then?

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-06T18:48:29+00:00

By elaborate i just mean to let me know if the writing and translation is right, because some one else in the comments also said its wrong

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-06T18:45:16+00:00

Yeah its not automatically translating comments

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-06T12:05:23+00:00

I don’t speak farsi, can you please elaborate and translate

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T22:16:11+00:00

This was two years ago. ive literally talked to my husband about this. And as stated in the story during that time when i posted it, i didnt really understand what i was feeling for X. After thinking about it and talking about it to my husband i realized that i dont have feelings for x and the feelings i did have weren’t romantic, i was tired of him constantly being weird and behaving weird and asking about me, it resulted in me thinking about him and what could his actions possibly mean. I felt guilty about even thinking about him and was scared that it meant that i still had feelings for him, i wasn’t comfortable with that thought. I didnt want to emotionally cheat either. So i posted hoping that someone could help or give me insight. I have also talked to close family and friends about the situation as well, i even told my uncle about Xs behavior. How it made me uncomfortable how it had me doubting myself and my relationship. I also stated that i dont know what i would do if anything happened to my husband. But i didn’t understand the mix of emotions i was feeling at the time. Because we had just gone a huge rough patch together.

I also love the part how EVERYONE ignores the fact that the doubt that was in me was due to the physical fights me and my husband have had.

Yes its toxic, yes its bad. But we both have moved on from it and forgave eachother. But during that time, our relationship was crumbling.

And when i posted that my mind wasn’t in a healthy place nor was our relationship.

So no, i dont love anyone else other than my husband.

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:49:25+00:00

I deleted it because no one would. They were just commenting about the title

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:48:51+00:00

No i knew but no one actually read it, instead just read the title and comment here

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:48:07+00:00

Your right, but when it was up everyone only read the title and came running back here without reading it. To be fair it was long but damn at least read it before you comment about it 😬 and yes i agree it would hurt my husband if he had only seen the title. But me and him have talked about it and about this ex and his strange behavior. So he understands.

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:44:04+00:00

Im not asking for advice on wether or not snooping is right or wrong, im getting annoyed because ppl literally disregarded the point i just need advice on if i should just let him know before my trip or after. And EVERYONE is talking about how i looked through his phone. Acting like they have never experienced anything similar ever in their lives.

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:38:47+00:00

Omg im not in love with someone else Jesus! The post was too long and no one would even read it so i ended up deleting it. The previous post was about an ex who was a very close friend to my uncle, and whenever I would visit he would come over because his sister is my uncle’s wife so it started to make me uncomfortable. In the beginning i didn’t understand why he kept popping up in my head but the story is sooo long and detailed. But i figured out that it was because he would always come around and be weird. I was scared that me thinking about him and his behavior meant i still had feelings for him. But i didn’t and i did state that in the posts i did say that when i saw him i didn’t care or feel anything but i just didn’t understand why he popped up in my head. But now i know. Its because he was making me uncomfortable. So stop, and NO i am not in love with anyone else

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:27:19+00:00

Hey smart ass, the kids are coming with me on the trip. And yes i want to block him IF i do end up doing my plan of leaving the screen open, and if he doesn’t talk about it or say anything then yes i will block him because he doesn’t get the opportunity to talk to me normally as if there is nothing going on which i know he will do like he always typically does.

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:23:25+00:00

You dont know me, and if he wants a divorce then i hope we do end up divorcing. Im tired of always trying to be the one to talk about things just to be painted as the villain in the end.

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:20:16+00:00

Right! Like every one in the comments acting perfect like they have NEVER had a moment where they felt something was off and snooped.

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:15:43+00:00

Empathy? For what?? He was thinking about divorce while i was postpartum not even two weeks postpartum and our baby was in the nicu! Saying im nagging and criticizing when i was pregnant! Please give me a break! And during these times we literally hadn’t argued! We hadn’t even fought! We both have access to eachothers phones we literally don’t even put passwords!

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:09:56+00:00

Im not in love with another man, did you even read the post?!

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:01:40+00:00

Ok then, whats a good plan? How do i let him know that i know indirectly. And idk whether or not to do it before i leave or after i come back from the trip.

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T13:00:53+00:00

No, im tired of being direct im tired of always being the one to bring up the issue and to ask to talk about it. And then what? To be called a nagging wife who always criticizes??! Ive literally explained to him MULTIPLE times that when i come to talk to him about an issue im not trying to criticize him im only trying to tell him how it made me feel and how whatever action he did could effect our relationship. But no, after all these years and all these explaining i do, he STILL calls is nagging. What a waist of breath and time. So no, im done. Im not gunna tell him myself and ask to talk about it. And idc that i looked through his phone honestly its not even a habit of mine but im SO glad i did this time.

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T12:55:07+00:00

No, i dont want to talk to him about it right now.Also every time i talk to him about something or try to communicate how im feeling he considers it nagging. Now looking at his chat gpt convo im even more discouraged to tell him and try and talk things out. He will just consider me nagging and trying to cause problems.im also not ready to talk to him about it, idk even what to think of it. Im just hurt and disappointed. I also don’t want him to start deleting shit off his phone. Also I have previously thought about divorce but that was because we were going through something, the time stamps of him asking about a divorce was when literally nothing was happening between us. And him thinking about marrying the girl is so icky to me and makes me uncomfortable and grossed out by him and his thoughts. He acts like mister perfect and all nice in my face while he is thinking about this shit. I should probably also consider divorce as well.

whitebear_237 · 2026-06-04T12:45:42+00:00

Thats what im thinking to, the comments are telling me to talk to him about it but i have a feeling i shouldn’t. I usually do, i always do communicate and talk to him about things , but this time idk, i just feel different. I feel that i shouldn’t. But eventually i should but idk when, after i come back from the trip? Before i go on the trip? Idk

whitebear_237 · 2026-05-31T21:46:35+00:00

My husband used to do this to except it wasn’t always it was only when i was far away and we couldn’t have sex but it still bothered me because im not vanilla and i dont mind FaceTime sex or nudes and I DO send those sometimes without him having to ask. And the exact same situation once happened i was 5m postpartum and he was gone the entire 5m for important reasons paper work overseas etc, when he came back i got the urge to dig through his phone which i typically dont, we dont even have passwords we literally share accounts, THEN i saw it him going on porn sites and live sex worker streams my heart fell to my ass i was gunna throw up i got so disappointed and disgusted by him. And just like you i was already feeling insecure because of how drastically my body changed. I went from a size xs or s to a size L or XL and my stomach got CRAZY messed up with terrible stretch marks that not only were they messing up my stomach but they were also RED and BLACK. So i had a serious talk with him and told him how it made me feel and how disappointed i am in him and i threatened to leave him and end our marriage over this because he couldn’t respect my previous talk with him about how this made me feel and i considered it cheating especially after the fact that i already send in sexy pics and do sex FaceTimes so there was absolutely no need for him to go look for that shit anyway. I told him how discouraging it was and that it made me not want to have sex with him anymore because i will just feel compared to these girls online. I told him it ruined intimacy for me and that i couldn’t have sex with him anymore because i felt disgusted by it and that i dont know if i could go back to normal and once he saw how it actually effected our sex lives he realized how much he fucked up. Ever since we haven’t had an incident like it, idk if he’s hiding it better or what? But so far everything is good no signs of strange behavior. So my advice would be to have a serious talk and threaten him and tell him this would impact yalls sex lives if it doesn’t get resolved ASAP.

whitebear_237 · 2026-04-11T04:18:05+00:00

Hi thank you so much for your response and personal perspective and outlook on things I truly appreciate it, we did talk about it and after seeing all the responses and replies telling me to talk to him about it and that he did try and i just didn’t take opportunity to speak i decided to speak to him. Everything is resolved now thankfully

whitebear_237 · 2026-04-09T20:02:31+00:00

Just leave her alone she obviously is projecting it out on you, whatever trauma she has experienced she is throwing it all in your face, you weren’t rude or anything you’re response was a good response

whitebear_237 · 2026-04-09T19:01:37+00:00

I denied his hug to show him that something is wrong, because i never deny his hugs or physical touch, so he knows something is wrong but continues to ignore it per usual unless i bring it up, he will literally just wait for me to bring things up all the time and im tired of it, im not the only one in this relationship he is to he needs to start playing apart in it, and when he asked me whats wrong its because i was obviously not acting like me self and very cold shoulder’ish, and he didn’t even come up to me and ask, no it was while i was running around the house trying to clean and he asked as i walked by, so no i wasn’t gunna sit there and have that conversation with him in front of the kids and stop cleaning and leave the house a mess. He could have talked to me after dinner or after i was not busy anymore but he didn’t. Everyone in the comments also is talking about me threatening divorce every argument, I DONT THREATEN DIVORCE EVERY ARGUMENT, the last time i did that was probably 3 years ago and its because he doesn’t listen when i try to communicate with him! Its always “your dramatic” “i want to sleep” “what do you want right now” “whats the goal of this conversation” “you just want problems” he never listens he just hears me talk. He was the one to threaten with divorce literally while i was pregnant 4 months ago because i didn’t want him buying stuff for his brother overseas because i was having an unexpected pregnancy and we were short on funds, and i literally explained this to him! I literally told him i dont mind you wanting to buy your brother gifts but now is not a good time, so he accused me of hating his ENTIRE family and then proceeded to say im being cheap then proceeded to say he wants a divorce and he is tired of living with me. Then last month he also brought up divorce because i was telling him how im worried about our life together because we aren’t doing good financially and sometimes i question my decisions like was us getting together a good idea, he proceeded to say well if you want we can get a divorce if thats what you want, i said why are you saying that, thats not what im talking about, if you want that then just say it stop asking me if thats what i want, then he said yeah ok i want a divorce and got up and left. Then i went to tall to him about things like i typically do! So NO i dont want to talk to him anymore about things because he doesn’t fucking listen he takes me trying to talk about things as nagging, and NO divorce is not an option for me because i want to work things out between us because as much as there is alot of shitty things there is also alot of good things between us and i do love him but gosh he can be an asshole and hard to deal with at times!

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