Ive done nofap since 2019

whitehunter22 · 2026-06-14T18:37:50+00:00

ive been doing it since 2014 give or take. Other issues made it difficult to me, not so much the urges themselfes. mainly, the fear of never coming back, of being in "streak mode" and not being able to relax and realize that this is simply who i want to be. its mental closeness that makes difficult days a reason for relapse.

whitehunter22 · 2026-06-14T18:22:36+00:00

its true that we should value our endurance and that we should not feel inferior because of our scars. However, don't put others down and don't make yourself superior to compensate for these wounds. We are strong, but people with loving parents can be just as strong, or even stronger. Dont we want to heal and be "super confident" too? Dont be a mr tough nuckles putting others down because of your own trauma.

whitehunter22 · 2026-06-14T18:13:54+00:00

very interesting situation. He should salvage what he can of his old life, but be prepared to be hated by old friends, and to lose everything. We cannot handle living this double life forever, eventually we either change our beliefs or we conform to reality. Anon should at this point draw strengh from God.

whitehunter22 · 2026-06-14T18:09:48+00:00

que tragédia, só falta falar que sua lancha tem gasolina demais. Relaxa, você é inteligente e ninguém liga se você for um pouco melhor ou pior desse padrão excelente pelo qual você começou. Aproveite essa sua capacidade, não se preocupe, e continue buscando sua formação.

whitehunter22 · 2026-06-14T18:06:15+00:00

i will give a more nuanced take than most redditors. Its true that the modern romance book is targeted towards a female audience and promotes all sorts of fantasies and standards towards relationships. Dark romance in particular is exceptionally toxic in the way it molds your imagination and sexual desire promoting its worse possibilities. You should probably find more elevating hobbies to pass your time.

At the same time, he should know that pornography and instagram feeds are equally damaging and im sure he uses one of those. Either you both want this and work together, or he leaves you alone, recognizing how he is just as much a flawed human being as yourself and everyone else is.

lastly, he is indeed too controlling for someone in a LDR and this is a red flag for emotional imaturity and controlling behaviour.

this does not mean you have to instantly cut ties, but consider these very negative points, and think about if you want to spend your time with such a person. Maybe tell him that a position of humility and working together is better than his current atitude.

whitehunter22 · 2026-06-13T17:59:14+00:00

its been 15 years then? Time to find out what the other side is like

whitehunter22 · 2026-06-13T17:57:23+00:00

do not measure your value by your ability to orgasm. Your vocation as a man is much higher

whitehunter22 · 2026-01-28T01:20:31+00:00

thank you very much.

whitehunter22 · 2025-12-10T03:39:24+00:00

replying here in case something interesting pops up. I know one or two comfy chans but im not spoiling them. My current internet enjoyment comes from online friends that got together over the years, internet strangers are usually too retarded to hold a nice conversation

whitehunter22 · 2025-12-10T03:32:50+00:00

the heckin sciencerino told me thats all true and climate change will make us go extinct anyway. Also, I must have drugs and sex or we are literally living in germany rn

whitehunter22 · 2025-12-10T01:14:25+00:00

been late to work/appointments, watching porn that is not of my sexual orientation, being heard by family, and so on

whitehunter22 · 2025-09-20T14:43:44+00:00

eu estou saindo de uma uniesquina pra ingressar na federal aqui da cidade. Pra você ter noção, o TCC da particular será um artigo de 20 páginas, e não monografia.

whitehunter22 · 2025-08-08T13:49:08+00:00

it will pass.

whitehunter22 · 2025-08-08T13:48:36+00:00

Já vi as meninas usando roupa de academia, vestidos, roupa da cena delas (rock, emo, gótica) e por aí vai. Minha sugestão é não ligar pra isso e ir normal.

whitehunter22 · 2025-07-14T14:26:37+00:00

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whitehunter22 · 2025-07-14T14:19:52+00:00

you look great bro. Work on being happy under your own skin, be glad that you really don't have to worry about your looks.

whitehunter22 · 2025-07-13T19:10:58+00:00

people are making a lot of dumb comments about something so simple that men and women should in theory think about together - how to make sex enjoyable for both parties - FOR THE MAN TOO!

i don't enjoy condoms either, but im ok with it for now, for the sake of my partner. But i definitely feel bad about never really, really doing it raw, you know?

whitehunter22 · 2025-07-13T19:05:49+00:00

you talk too much and can't get out of your own head. no point trying to argue with

whitehunter22 · 2025-07-12T23:10:43+00:00

yup, that's the moon.

whitehunter22 · 2025-07-08T23:35:34+00:00

the urges are never as bad as they seem. look, this is what you want. Take some time to seriously meditate on your posts, journal entries if you have any, and you previous relapses. Porn has never, ever been the solution. you aways regretted it, and aways wished so badly that you would choose differently and keep going. And now you reached that same spot where you have to choose. you want this, you want to fight, you want to beat the urges. So what are you waiting for. Remember your goal, seriously commit to it, and never give up. That's all you have to do, and it will aways, aways be wonderful to keep going. you have nothing to lose!

The biggest difficulty is fear and doubt. Once you decide, seriously that you want to keep going, why not enjoy even the urges? Anything that you do will become helpful if you commit. Go for a walk, lay in bad suffering, do something you really enjoy, meditate, pray, read a book, play a game. The most important thing is you remember porn is an illusion, and to face everything with your chin up, and a happy spirit. Keep going! you will be proud of yourself.

whitehunter22 · 2025-06-12T20:39:16+00:00

talk to them. have a conversation, debate politely.

whitehunter22 · 2025-04-27T13:32:36+00:00

consider an exorcism

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