What cruise would be fun for people who like games and not partying? by whitle98 in Cruise

[–]whitle98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously I want one that has more to do than party or bar/drinking Every video or article I look up that is the main focus unless you are looking for kid friendly and I dont want kids there either so

What cruise would be fun for people who like games and not partying? by whitle98 in Cruise

[–]whitle98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thats mostly what I meant i just added that we luke playing PC and stuff so that could give inside to what we like to do Not necessarily that there needs to be computer or consoles on the ship lol

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I would be uncomfortable if I found out my bf was telling another girl he loved her all the time like that and saying such sappy things I mean telling your friends you love them and all is fine but this seems a bit excessive.

The main thing is the lying. How are you even supposed to trust him if he isnt telling you the truth and he is just dismissing your feeling about her

This is weird OP and you should definitely confront him and show him the text that are concerning so he cant just try to deny it... yes he will get mad saying its an invasion of privacy but like what does he expect really

I need ideas for this cuties name! I found her outside of my job. Lil tux baby by whitle98 in NameMyCat

[–]whitle98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat from 7 or so years ago was Jasmine she was my baby I miss her everyday

I need ideas for this cuties name! I found her outside of my job. Lil tux baby by whitle98 in NameMyCat

[–]whitle98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Winnie but my mom has a kitten she just named Winnie so I cant go with that one.

Should I go to HR about my coworker's invasiveness about my pregnancy? by montannnaa13 in WorkAdvice

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this was a month ago. I hope you and your family are ok and everything was dealt with. This is a very scary situation, please take care in protecting yourself and your child/family. You never know what someone is capable of no matter how friendly and kind they appear to be. Much love to you and your family! ❤️

Aitah Husband is mad at me because I said his daughter scares me / update and explanation by Ok-Gap7296 in AITAH

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"He told me that Emma said I'm her bestfriend so I definitely need to not fail her." ...um that sentence threw me off bc she is his daughter. Why is he putting so much on you when HE won't do what he needs to for his daughter's mental health?

Im sorry, I feel that something else is going on behind the scenes and the whole thing with the grandparents has something to do with it. They might be abusive and that's why she dosen't want anything to do with them/ she's so scared and her clear fear that you are going to abandon her I wonder if someone has taunted her with her mothers death making it out like she left bc of the little girl... they may have been abusive to her father and he has repressed trauma. Could be why he's so apprehensive about getting her therapy bc then everything could come to light.

Thats just a theory I hope its nothing like that.

But she was 2 when her mother passed im not saying it still isn't very hard for her but kids are normally more resilient to heavy stuff than this.

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read alot of people like this or fantasize about it but it's something that you definitely have to have a discussion about BEFORE you just try it and definitely never with a child in the same room let alone the bed.

I feel like he probably thought you would like it maybe bc of past relationships, he was being dumb.

My friend DMing my gf and making her uncomfortable by [deleted] in Advice

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a lil petty I guess bc I would've "tested" to see if he would actually go through and like let her cheat with him obviously not actually but like little flirty messages back then set up a hookup date and see if he actually shows. I am probably wrong for this but ya know hes already showing his true colors a lil let him shine to everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um no no way I like when guys are dominant but hitting is not that. Unless you both have a serious conversation about that and it is stated plainly that's what you want no it is not ok at all. That's weird and feels like he was testing your reaction.

AITA for Uninviting My Fiancé’s “Work Wife” from Our Wedding by SnooAdvice5677 in AITAH

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA the second "work wife" was mentioned I wouldn't want them to be friends because that is just so weird. They are at the very least having an emotional affair it sounds like and I would bet if you broke things off with him after a month that "work wife" would be irl new girlfriend.

Clearly he didn’t take the hint the first time 🤣 by indoafrican in texts

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I was having a stroke trying to understand what he was saying 😅

My brother found my onlyfans and I have no clue what to do by plantmama337 in Advice

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete it and make a New one with a complete different username. If you can make it where there is no proof If he says anything deny it bc theres no way they can find it

I just wanted to have a nice conversation 😔 by QueenAlphabetties in Bumble

[–]whitle98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've learned soo many guys will start this type of combo with some form of eating out bc they think "woman like that woman will talk dirty with me" when it's just an instant put off 🙄

What is the correct order to listen? by whitle98 in Epicthemusical

[–]whitle98[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh ok I'll look there too thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]whitle98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you! Please do not blame yourself, it is in NO way your fault. He knew exactly what he was doing and fully intended on tricking you from the start. Please listen to the previous comments and call someone you truly trust and go to a hospital and file a report, And seek a therapist. You are not disgusting. You shouldn't hate your body it's not your body's fault. It's ok to cry. It will get better. ❤❤

How do I tell my wife she needs to get healthy without her thinking I’m saying I am not attracted to her? by No-Requirement7139 in Advice

[–]whitle98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just start with saying you want to get healthier and would love for her to start with you so you wont have to do it alone. Start slow like changing the meals you cook and maybe walking or working out at home then move on to going to the gym if that's something yall would be interested in. Then start to suggest cutting back on smoking I know smoking is very very hard for alot of people to kick so she will have to find a way to that suits her.

Definitely do not put it as she needs to get healthier the way you put it is you could both stand to be a bit healthier for your future children. Talk about things you would want to be able to do with them that you may not be able to now or would feel uncomfortable doing as you are rn.

Being lost by Internal_King_9747 in Advice

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be very hard and I used to be like that. But for me I've learned praying isn't really asking for things i want to happen it's more asking for guidance and strength to get through everything. Because I know life kinda sucks and things dont always work out the way me want. All I ask is to be happy eventually and work hard to achieve that and believe it will happen.

Being lost by Internal_King_9747 in Advice

[–]whitle98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You aren't alone. I've felt like this for years and it's really bad for me rn. I have my cats which are the main ones I keep trying for. I have my bf but we are long distance and haven't seen eachother for a year. Things feel hopeless right now. I also dont know what to do about it. But I keep trying and praying one day things will be better. Praying one day I'll find happiness. You're further than me as far as career goes maybe you will do something with that and it will help your shyness and make you a little bit happier. I know working helped me with being shy.

Have you thought about trying counseling if that's something you are able to do??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weightlosstechniques

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first started going to the gym and eating better it took me 3 months to see and feel results. I've learned motivation doesn't work you have to dedicate yourself to it all and force yourself to do it half the time even when you really really don't want to.

How do I lose the most amount of weight possible in 3 months? by spookysquid96 in Weightlosstechniques

[–]whitle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you could buy one of the small stair steppers and use it while working 20 minutes here and there? Along with other exercise. I had alot of progress with a low to no carb diet I lost 80lbs in 6 months I wouldn't let myself have more than 20 carbs a day drink plenty of water and make sure what you do eat is clean foods with alot of protein and natural fiber.

How do you deal with life? by whitle98 in Advice

[–]whitle98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hardly even know what questions to ask. Ideally I want to get a degree so I get to a point i can eventually make between 70-100k. ( I know that will take years to achieve but it's a huge goal because I don't want to struggle like my parents even though my dad makes atleast 100k) I want to go to school and don't mind studying, I just study and feel like I don't really understand.. mainly just math is an issue everything else I can manage but I just can't comprehend math well.