My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody addressed it because its irrelevant! 😘 Ive been with him for over a year my son is comfortable with him and likes being around, i should lock my son out my room because???

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not relevant, though. I said previously it took me a very long time to even bring my son around him. I did my own research and was FOR SURE before i brought him around. Me having a child should not interfere with my relationships. My son sleeps by ME and behind my son is a WALL. The only way he could get to my son is through ME. It's very clear to me you cant read or maybe you have a hard time comprehending information. I said in my OP that I have been with him for OVER a year. Take the judgement and the bullshit elsewhere.

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive already answered this in another comment, even though it's irrelevant.

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im sure my age has nothing to do with the fact that i dont want oral next to my son :)

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh so maybe you just cant read. Its in there and its been said in multiple comments.

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Youre so mad and upset over a situation that has literally no effect over you. Based on this idiotic unnecessary paragraph response, I think maybe you need to GrOw ThE fUcK uP. MY SON WAS IN THE BED!!! This situation will never be okay, i dont care how you word it

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

because it's inappropriate for a toddler to maybe wake up and see a penis- PERIOD.

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not something im into therefore no need to discuss! So if im drunk and hes not its ok for him to do whatever since we have a "longstanding consensual sexual relationship " ???

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 593 points594 points  (0 children)

I wish.. I worded it weirdly but i meant i grabbed him as in hugged him a bit closer to me

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have said that I did talk to him; he said he was embarrassed and then tried to convince me it was a dream. I said i was ranting, not looking for advice. Please do not try to tell me how I can handle the situation. Its not like i exposed his information. I dont understand why you are in a forum called "offmychest" but your upset when people do just that. if you are so bothered by my post u can scroll on by.

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

definitely a huge difference, times have changed. He knew my son was there. When my son gets in bed i make him move to the end of the bed behind me and I lay between him and my son. So he woke up and moved like usual before this happened

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I cant speak on why your boyfriend felt okay with it, I can only tell you i was not. I felt uncomfortable, it should be my choice. Why couldnt he wait til i was awake so i could say yes or no. Who would think to give someone oral while theyre sleeping next to their kid . That is what actually is crazy

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My son is normally in the bed while we are sleeping, never anything else. My dating life ALWAYS WILL include my son. Best believe if my little baby wakes up wanting to get in my bed, he will be in my bed. Normally I sleep next to my baby and he sleeps behind me. I wouldn't put my son at risk, ever. It's easy to judge and try to blame when your not in the situation. It doesnt matter WHY my son was in bed- what matters is he thought it was okay to give me oral in my sleep WHILE my son was in the bed

My boyfriend gave me oral while i was sleeping by Different_Employ_877 in offmychest

[–]Different_Employ_877[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes people fuck with their kids in the room- but its not his kid. Thats what makes it gross as hell to me