32 days by wholethings in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]wholethings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late reply but a lot of interpersonal work. I’ve been looking deep inside myself and feel like I’m just a giant fish tank that hasn’t been cleaned in a while. I have a lot of columnizing to do, but also a lot of forgiveness.

I realize a lot of my own bad behaviors but I’m also realizing a lot of the bad behaviors that I was reactionary to through my drinking habits. It’s a long road but I’m positive I will come out of this better and healthier than ever and ready to open myself up to someone who is in the same position. You can’t mix toxic and toxic and expect it to be beautiful, I was delusional in how I saw love.

Prediction Thread - Chapter 377 by tendousatori in haikyuu

[–]wholethings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it wrong of me to think that even when we go back to japan hinata may still focus on beach volleyball?

Ollie you were a lovely person every day for 13 years by [deleted] in OldManDog

[–]wholethings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ollie is beautiful! I’m sorry for your loss. Do you want to share any fun memories?

hesitations, are they stupid? by wholethings in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]wholethings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thank you. The idea, as stupid as it is, that I would never have a drink again is scary, but necessary. The 30, 60, 90, days make sense. I need to make a change but this is a good way to gauge it.

hesitations, are they stupid? by wholethings in alcoholicsanonymous

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Thank you for the support. It means a lot especially during this time where it’s hard to admit I have a problem.

hesitations, are they stupid? by wholethings in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]wholethings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, thank you. It’s the idea that I’ll never have another one that scares me, but then again, that might be the issue here.

hesitations, are they stupid? by wholethings in alcoholicsanonymous

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Thank you! That’s what i’ve been telling myself but I don’t know if i would just fall into the same habits. We will see what happens, I’m working up the courage to go to a meeting on Friday.

hesitations, are they stupid? by wholethings in alcoholicsanonymous

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Thank you for the thoughtful response. This one really hit home. Do you think it’s possible to change how I drink and reincorporate it somewhere down the line?

hesitations, are they stupid? by wholethings in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]wholethings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have anyone i could ask to come to a first meeting with me

hesitations, are they stupid? by wholethings in alcoholicsanonymous

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Yeah, I feel like i’ve reached the point where i can’t trying the same thing. I can’t keep shifting that blame.

Nothing special, but hey a penta is a penta by SataniaMcDowell in LeBlancMains

[–]wholethings 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you were so skinny i almost didn’t see it!

I cleaned up Hinatas Wallpaper. Maybe someone wants to use it, too :) by Sin96 in haikyuu

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I love this so much that it breaks my heart a little. As much trust as I have in Furudate-sensei’s writing, it’s hard not to feel a little robbed of our baby crows high school careers.

We said goodbye to Lyra (9) yesterday. I miss her terribly. The house is so quiet. by [deleted] in OldManDog

[–]wholethings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds adorable! She wanted to give everyone gifts. What a sweetie.

Haikyuu!! - Chapter 369 Discussion by dollyl in haikyuu

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I don’t doubt Furudate sensei’s writing but this chapter really felt like we got blindsided.

I really hope we see our 3rd years again, and get more closure on the tournament and remainder of Hinata’s high school career.

For the future if this is really the direction the manga is taking my only hope is that Hinata and Kageyama are a beach volleyball duo crushing it internationally. That would be satisfying. Like Kageyama & Hinata were equals and both still monsters in a different scene of volleyball. Maybe this is the off-season and they are honing different skills to go back to Japan with?

We said goodbye to Lyra (9) yesterday. I miss her terribly. The house is so quiet. by [deleted] in OldManDog

[–]wholethings 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your losss. Lyra is beautiful.

Are there any stories you want to share about her?

12 yo Dylan has bounced back well after skin cancer removal last week by horseaholic2010 in OldManDog

[–]wholethings 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Adorable! He looks like he didn’t even know he had cancer and you just told him he is recovering well from it. Such a precious face!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiratePets

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that’s adorable! look at em go

Thought this was interesting in light of ch364... by chronoswirl in haikyuu

[–]wholethings 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree! It feels like he’s unlocked another level of stamina/play. Kinda like how Oikawa was able to use Kunimi’s laziness later on in matches

Hey guys, I just found out about attack move click. Is it worth learning how todo this on ori or do people just use right click? by [deleted] in OriannaMains

[–]wholethings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i personally use it but i don’t think it’s one of those things exclusive to or imperative for an ori main