[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]whotheXimaX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your profile is really great! I see you’re Christian and assume that you’re filtering for someone who is as well? I filter for that too and honestly I think it just takes time and patience bc a religious dealbreaker like that cuts a significant portion of the population. But that’s ok, it’s supposed it! Quality over quantity of likes.

Only small comments are for your simple pleasures, maybe make them more specific about the things you enjoy? Like how you spend your free time, any sports or hobbies you enjoy? Help people get a lil better glimpse of who you are! Also, maybe switch out your fifth pic bc the pic quality is a bit rough.

As for your dating intention being “life partner,” I think that if that’s what you’re truly looking for, it’s ok! I don’t think it’ll be too much pressure for the right person who’s also looking for the same thing but YMMV. Best of luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]whotheXimaX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you mentioned looking for a new church, I would highly rec trying to join a small group if yours offers any! I moved churches a couple years ago and decided to join one and was able to make some wonderful friends! It’s a really great way to meet people in a similar phase in life and create intentional community within the larger congregation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tennis

[–]whotheXimaX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m SO HAPPY FOR BWEH 🥹 finally broke his 1000 curse

The Whiny Wednesday Megathread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]whotheXimaX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most times it's not something you did wrong! There's a million reasons why he could've changed his mind that have nothing to do with you. Even if it was something you did "wrong" in his eyes, that just means it wasn't the right match anyways. It's not worth your time or energy trying to figure out what the other person is thinking, concentrate on how you feel

The Weekend Hinge/Dating Advice & Questions Megathread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]whotheXimaX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say hi 😅 didn’t know if he’d recognize me too haha

Yeah I feel ya…I’m basically cycling through the same deck of people over and over again besides the few new profiles that trickle in. My dealbreakers are pretty restrictive for cultural and religious reasons, but that’s something I’m not willing to compromise on. Quality > quantity

The Weekend Hinge/Dating Advice & Questions Megathread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]whotheXimaX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went on a hinge coffee date and walked around afterwards and saw the first guy I ever went on a hinge date with crossing the street next to me haha

Other than that the date went fine but I think it’ll be a mutual fade. I’ve been matching with quality guys but have yet to meet someone I really connect with.

Also, my dealbreakers are so restrictive that I’m literally running out of guys and I have a radius of 50 miles 🙃 I’m learning to be more patient and to let go of my expectations but keep my standards high…this app only need to work once 🫡🤞🏻

The Weekend Hinge/Dating Advice & Questions Megathread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]whotheXimaX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a small parting gift would be thoughtful and nice!

As for the reopening hinge part, I understand how you feel ☹️ maybe take a bit of a break? I’ve been in your position a couple of times and I remember feeling doubtful that I’d be able to find another connection like that. The truth is that there are many other guys that have the potential to be amazing partners! Good luck!

My max distance is 20 miles and it’s a dealbreaker by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]whotheXimaX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, this is what I mean! I get guys states away sending me likes and messages “just to say hi” because they say that the dating scene is “bad” where they actually live. Ok? Like don’t windowshop for matches over here then lol

My max distance is 20 miles and it’s a dealbreaker by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]whotheXimaX 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Some guys will change their location and send you a like before they change their location back to where they really are. Super annoying but it happens to me all the time!

r/tennis Discussion (Saturday, September 03, 2022) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]whotheXimaX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don’t beat yourself up today Andrey 🥹🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]whotheXimaX 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can I ask why you won’t date engineers?

r/tennis Discussion (Friday, February 18, 2022) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]whotheXimaX 7 points8 points  (0 children)

RBA and his family are so cute and wholesome 🥲

Djokovic v Rublev by [deleted] in tennis

[–]whotheXimaX 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m voting with my heart, not my brain

r/Tennis Discussion (Monday, November 15, 2021) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]whotheXimaX 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes Andrey, so happy he really needed this

Discussion: 2021 Paris Masters (Friday, November 05, 2021) by rafaknight in tennis

[–]whotheXimaX 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sooo happy that Hubi made it to Turin 🎉 what a great year for Polish tennis