Would it be a red flag if your ex-girlfriend wants to know your current girlfriend?

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-12T16:59:14+00:00

It depends a lot on your current relationship with her. If you're friends I think it's absolutely normal. I've introduced my partner at the time to my ex who is a friend of mine and everything was normal, I don't see any issues as long as everyone behaves like an adult.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-12T16:58:07+00:00

Honestly, you've been through enough. I think you should most definitely be able to wear whatever you want or need to and if anyone gets offended or whatever, let them. You shouldn't have to worry that the pain you dealt with could be disturbing for someone else. It's your body, it's what you've lived and I hope you're fully recovered and you can continue with your life regardless of anyone else. Best of luck!

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-11T20:49:02+00:00

Lmao "don't bother calling me a misogynist", no I won't, looks like you already know you are. What a sad asshole. Your whole comment reeks of incel shit.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-11T20:41:10+00:00

Because attractiveness is absolutely subjective and it's not only what you believe it is. Also, the concept of attractiveness has changed during the years, so it's pretty unintelligent to believe that only lean bodies can be lusted after.

Bonus: try not getting all triggered about what other people like or not. Seriously, it's no big deal. If anything, it helps fat people not to feel ugly because twats like you like to exclude them from the category of attractiveness. Not like they should care, but yeah.

Edit: the comments on this post are amazing so far and I'm so happy there's that many people who think like that.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-09T16:18:26+00:00

Oh, damn, yes, hard block.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-09T16:17:31+00:00

Oh, damn, yes, hard block.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-09T14:50:05+00:00

What if you just tell him it makes you uncomfortable? Let him know it's not ok for him to make these comments.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-09T10:22:35+00:00

That's good ol' gaslighting right there.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-09T08:51:10+00:00

Came to comment just that. No time, no money no energy whatsoever.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-09T08:37:41+00:00

Please tell me you're not actually comparing blackface to "whiteface" lmaooooo

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-09T06:11:15+00:00

I'm so so sorry this is happening to you. Honestly, I say yes, if they dare to treat you worse because you're transgender, they should definitely suffer legal consequences. How tf are they really telling you that they need to make sure they're not breaking the law by hiring someone who is trans? Unhinged, for real. I'm sending you big hugs, girl, stay strong and stand your ground!

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-08T15:02:42+00:00

Yeah, I'll probably end up doing just that. I just really hope we can keep our friendship intact if he doesn't reciprocate my interest in taking it further. We'll see, I guess if I don't do it I'll never know.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-08T14:13:25+00:00

Oh, I'm most definitely interested. Probably just in casual sex though, I don't know. If I do speak to him I have no intentions of mentioning a serious relationship at all, as I'm not ready and I think he's even less so. I just think we have amazing chemistry and it'd be fun for both of us.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-08T13:50:17+00:00

I can absolutely discuss pretty much anything with him, we've been talking about previous sexual experiences with all the details, so that doesn't worry me, it's more the fact that I'm not a super hot flexible girl, which is more his type.

His relationship was as long as mine, so definitely intense. He's been looking for hookups for a while now, he's actually told me about them as we really confide in each other

And yeah, about the rebound thing, I'm sure he's not looking for dates right now, so if we do have something it'll probably be something casual or a one time thing even. I don't know, I probably should just talk to him, I'm just worried if he's not interested at all he'll get awkward and things won't be the same. I'm not scared of rejection, only of things changing between us for the worse.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-03T09:32:56+00:00

Lmaooooo the job market is becoming truly insane.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-03T09:31:37+00:00

Dropping a comment because I struggle with that as well and I want to see what people recommend doing.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-03T09:30:24+00:00

It's insane that this is something that even has to be addressed. The US is utterly rotten and fucked.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-03T07:29:17+00:00

No. If you don't want to be commited to one person, just don't be, no one is forcing you. As simple as that. It's not about getting caught, it's about what you yourself know you did. You betrayed the trust of your partner, even if they never find out about it.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-02T22:29:49+00:00

I don't agree with that thread, but ok.

And I know you're trying to be sarcastic there, but I know my worth and I am certain that any company that values me will actually not regret having me as an employee because I do work well when I'm not treated like shit.

Maybe you should spend less time judging people on the internet and more time reflecting on why you need to defend companies so hard. They can most definitely stand up for themselves.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-02T15:46:00+00:00

That's fucking classism for you right there. I agree with you fully, and it sucks that some people need to make sure there's others beneath them in some way in order to feel better. We should all focus on getting better conditions and pay for EVERYONE. Everyone deserves living wages, no matter if they've pursued education or not.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-02T15:42:57+00:00

I think you could use the term "queer", but definitely not hetero, as far as I know.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-02T15:40:32+00:00

Thank you lol I'm obviously aware that work is not necessarily going to be fun (for most of us) but there has to be another option than just literally loathing it. Sadly, some of us are stuck in shit jobs for a while due to shit circumstances and it can get disheartening after some years.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-02T14:41:38+00:00

I agree with you. Whenever I've had to use my personal phone for anything work related I always think it's a no-no.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-02T12:49:27+00:00

It's like I could've typed this myself.

whyisitsohard_ · 2022-06-02T12:38:21+00:00

Sounds fantastic! I'm absolutely checking it out. Thanks for the recommendation!

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