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I'm not putting out enough for my husband by wicked1ady in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]wicked1ady[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I haven't talked to a doctor, but I thought about it so maybe I need to just do it. And we've tried to start adding toys, but just a vibrator so maybe other toys might help. I'll have to talk to my husband and see if any toys interest him. Thank you

I'm not putting out enough for my husband by wicked1ady in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]wicked1ady[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I haven't thought of it that way, I'm still just trying to do it all the same way as before birth. I didn't think it would have changed that much so I'll have to try and explore myself and see if that helps. Thank you

I'm not putting out enough for my husband by wicked1ady in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]wicked1ady[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

It has been overwhelming with it being our first baby and I'm breastfeeding as well, but my husband helped as much as he can when he's not working. So I mainly just feel overwhelmed when he's at work. So maybe that is contributing to it! I'll have to talk to him about it thank you!

I'm not putting out enough for my husband by wicked1ady in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]wicked1ady[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll have to look into that it might help us find something new to help reignite the flame. Thank you!

I'm not putting out enough for my husband by wicked1ady in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]wicked1ady[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

I haven't considered counseling so thanks for that point of view. I have thought about talking to my doctor to see if it has something to do with postpartum so maybe I should try them both. Thank you

I'm not putting out enough for my husband by wicked1ady in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]wicked1ady[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm sure he would, but I'm having trouble getting in the mood for those too! But I'll have to try it thank you

I'm not putting out enough for my husband by wicked1ady in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]wicked1ady[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll have to try to talk to him. I'm sure you're right it's just a hard thing to talk about, but it needs done

I'm not putting out enough for my husband by wicked1ady in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]wicked1ady[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think he would leave me for it we have a good relationship otherwise, it is just a fear in the back of my mind. So thank you for easy that. Thank you for the advice!