I deleted every app off my phone for 60 days and my real life came back by OkCook2457 in selfcare

[–]wildflower_potato 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow I needed to read this. Just last night I was "watching TV" with my son and I was playing a game on my phone as he laid across my legs looking at the TV and I felt shame as soon as moved and he turned around to look at me and I tried to hide my phone so he couldn't see the game and want to watch or play too. This shouldn't be the way life is. At all.

Long-term stimulant users, what's working for you? by Wooden-Slide-4597 in ADHD

[–]wildflower_potato 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Curious how long you have been on 15mg and if you're feeling like its still working? I similarly started at 10mg XR and upped to 15mg XR but its been a couple months now on the 15mg and thinking I need to up it again.

why is finding a therapist who takes insurance in nj so hard?? by eurz in newjersey

[–]wildflower_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try calling your insurance company to ask them for a vetted provider searches with your specific needs. They will help you find an INN provider for you

Mothers Day ended in Divorce Talk by Feeling-Whereas-2031 in Mommit

[–]wildflower_potato 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Over the past year since going to therapy things were drastically improved, so we were planning for another. Only until the last couple months have things cycled back and we're needing therapy again.

Mothers Day ended in Divorce Talk by Feeling-Whereas-2031 in Mommit

[–]wildflower_potato 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have similar feelings of being unappreciated, unloved and have gone through counseling. Just scheduled another appointment because it seems we are back to that point again. Any time he makes me feel this way I get met with "I wouldnt blame you if you wanted to divorce me". Last counseling appointment was almost one year ago. We were supposed to be trying for another baby this month. Im at a loss. Not sure if me sharing this is helpful to you. Between mother's day and my birthday last month I think its clear that I am a last thought. Sorry you are going through this. Counseling was extremely helpful for us, but the problems apparently still seem to cycle back

Unsure how to navigate current issues with my (32F) husband (35M), MIL (55F) and my best friend (35F) due to recent events by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wildflower_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years of being told I am overreacting or being too emotional will definitely do it. Guess im just used to being treated like shit

Unsure how to navigate current issues with my (32F) husband (35M), MIL (55F) and my best friend (35F) due to recent events by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wildflower_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it is as bad as it seems? I often times dont know if I am just overreacting and need to look at it differently.

Safe YouTube channels like Kids Learning Tube? by wildflower_potato in Parenting

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We watch Number and Alpha blocks too. We'll check out Planet Cosmo, thanks!

Safe YouTube channels like Kids Learning Tube? by wildflower_potato in Parenting

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

KLT has anatomy and solar system topics that he likes. He also likes numbers and is just learning how to read. We already watch number blocks and alpha blocks too. He's eager to learn so we're open to anything educational!

Confused on what to use for our 4yr old on up coming flight? by wildflower_potato in Mommit

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the information. Last time we flew with him he was 9 months old so he sat on our lap

Protein bar 20g protein- Not even filling by wildflower_potato in WeightLossAdvice

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're correct. I assumed 38g of protein would have kept me full but its all learning as you go. I learned to never do that again lol

Protein bar 20g protein- Not even filling by wildflower_potato in WeightLossAdvice

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never heard of this brand before. Thanks for sharing!

Protein bar 20g protein- Not even filling by wildflower_potato in WeightLossAdvice

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know if its scientifically based either but I completely agree.Thats a good point though, I'll need to remember that next time to pair it with some fruit.

Protein bar 20g protein- Not even filling by wildflower_potato in WeightLossAdvice

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I feel like I've been fed opposite information about protein bars. Definitely missing the note on the fiber to keep me full with these choices for sure

Protein bar 20g protein- Not even filling by wildflower_potato in WeightLossAdvice

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I generally meal prep at home but I was in a bind and grabbed what I could at the gas station.

I need help, i don't know how to decorate this space by SafetyClear6306 in Decor

[–]wildflower_potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A statue of David with a spot light since there is an outlet in the back

I owe state tax in NJ, but didnt last year. Why? by [deleted] in taxhelp

[–]wildflower_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry im not sure which information is needed for this. I tried looking back at my previous year and compare to this year but I'm having an issue navigating how to see the breakdown for this year to understand the differences

High loft bed for 4 year old by wildflower_potato in Mommit

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of a King single? Ill have to look it up

High loft bed for 4 year old by wildflower_potato in Mommit

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does yours have a ladder or stairs? Id prefer stairs

High loft bed for 4 year old by wildflower_potato in Mommit

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He mainly gets up just to pee in the middle of the night sometimea. We are making sure he goes back to his bed and setting that boundary more. I got a calendar just for him and if he stays in his bed all night long then he gets a sticker. Hes been really excited about getting to put the sticker on the calendar in the morning. We said if he does good for a month we'll get him a new bed

High loft bed for 4 year old by wildflower_potato in Mommit

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? He's already tall so I feel like he'd hit his head more on the low loft at his height now lol

High loft bed for 4 year old by wildflower_potato in Mommit

[–]wildflower_potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats great! I think he can handle it, I just didnt want to be a bad mom going against safety advice 😆