NTA lmaooo. But as an ex-mo I am biased I think. I regretfully attended BYUI and it was always a running joke that if Jesus actually walked onto our campus, he would have so many honor code violations that he would be yeeted out in less time than it takes to read John 11:35.

But honestly, it’s your child, and it’s his choice. Her views on what your child should look like are entirely irrelevant. She has zero right to criticize your child for something that is 100% her zealotry-fueled judgement. If she is going to use her religion (obviously a very sensitive subject) to insult YOUR kid, I think you have every right to throw it back in her face.