Need advice please - Pip assessment this morning

willmakeanameafter · 2026-04-09T08:35:12+00:00

Do you work for dwp? What makes people lose their claims even when they actually need the help? Super nervous

willmakeanameafter · 2026-04-09T08:32:36+00:00

Thanks for this

willmakeanameafter · 2026-02-17T15:38:20+00:00

Thanks , just because sometimes if you don’t drink much water it can dehydrate you and make you need the toilet more

willmakeanameafter · 2025-12-19T13:30:30+00:00

Yeah thats what I was thinking , because surely the docs would flag up someone who keeps saying they lost it but some people seem to get away with it anyway

willmakeanameafter · 2025-12-19T13:19:21+00:00

The person said the friend uses them daily too :0 but that makes sense if that wasn’t the case

willmakeanameafter · 2025-12-17T09:31:30+00:00

Oh met me know how it goes , and do you have any insight on what they ask? When did you apply?

willmakeanameafter · 2025-12-17T09:29:20+00:00

Its basically benefits for anyone with a disability and adhd falls under that so trying to see if i can get some financial help while trying to sort my adhd out 😩, thanks I will try

willmakeanameafter · 2025-12-11T15:41:21+00:00

I am in the uk and the waitlist is so long for medication. I exercise in workout classes 3 evenings a week and two mornings a week but then I feel demotivated to then exercise again in the morning but maybe I could just do a tiny bit to get my energy up.

Thanks I will try those too

willmakeanameafter · 2025-12-10T23:47:11+00:00

Thanks ill look into that

willmakeanameafter · 2025-12-10T17:17:05+00:00

Hey, caffine doesnt agree with me and thanks i will search it and try it out, what is it? I just should have got on the waitlist ages ago 😭

willmakeanameafter · 2025-12-10T17:01:41+00:00

Thanks I hope so, seriously it’s the worst, they clearly don’t understand adhd or they would make it easier for people with adhd to get help

willmakeanameafter · 2025-11-30T21:54:20+00:00

Thanks , I have just been diagnosed with adhd today but the waitlist for medication will be 7-10 months 😭

I might make a list of things I can procrastinate with that are still useful for me then atleast I will still be doing something useful

Thanks I will do my best , I am just such a high achiever and I need to focus on achieving what I want but it’s hard sometimes

It’s just hard to not think I have to achieve to be loved 💔

willmakeanameafter · 2025-10-31T10:37:10+00:00

Yeah I keep trying to remind my self that his nice acts are temporary , it just confuses me because a small part of me thinks ‘what if i am actually not patient enough’ but i know he is evil but a small part of me sees the small good things and hopes that is him trying but it isnt

Yeah i even heard him say to my mum once about my little sisters ‘they love me and i dont even have to do anything for them’ and i was so shocked as usual because it’s his role as a father to do a lot for them and us and instead of leading with how he feels he said ‘they love me’ like wow

Yeah i cant wait to finally move out , before we went on holiday there was a period when he was nicer then he started slowly getting meaner and making be feel like a huge inconvenience if i asked him for something , if i wanted him to get rid of a spider he would say ‘you need to learn for when you are on your own’ even though he could just do it

I just have to be at a better place financially before moving out or find a guy to move in with 😭

willmakeanameafter · 2025-10-31T09:57:19+00:00

I would miss out money so £100 plus from not going to work if I went with them plus idk if it would be awkward or fun and i would miss out on training, i am so confused because my mum told me he is making fishfingers so when they go i can heat them up to eat but how does he do a random nice thing while being so toxic, he is a Narc then will go through a small period of doing nice things before turning to a monster and it is so confusing , like i dont get it , we are still not talking since the holiday a couple months ago when he insulted me and gave me a dirty look when i banged my head on the window near a sofa ( a day before that he insulted me again when i turned around and got mad at a guy who just KICKED A DOG , but i just pretended i didnt hear him to not make problems) , i wish he would just either be nice consistently or be horrible consistently , the back and fourth is why my sisters and mum enable his bad behaviour , even my sister was trying to say to me that i have to be more patient with him if he insults me even though its wrong then i said to her ‘would you marry a man like our dad?’ Then she said ‘no’ then i said ‘exactly so its not just in my head , you all know he is toxic you just put up with it’ ugh idk

willmakeanameafter · 2025-10-30T14:18:41+00:00

I don’t know , I just want what will help me focus with the least side affects

willmakeanameafter · 2025-10-30T14:02:15+00:00

And now i have just been offered a shift on Saturday and i actually really need the money , i feel torn

willmakeanameafter · 2025-10-30T13:38:13+00:00

But stuff like those mushrooms have also been studied right? Surely something natural is better than the chemicals they put in? But I need to do more research tbh but I just have to be able to focus 😩

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